First, never care about what others think of you. Remember that it is anyone, especially those who are not related. Many people just suppress you, deliberately despise you, despise you, make you unhappy, or spray you, envy you and hate you. Remember that these are all internal friction for your spirit, adding fuel and materials. He just makes you unhappy, just to suppress you on purpose, and he suppresses you, so that he can live comfortably.

So, if you take this kind of person too seriously and care about him too much, you will lose to him. Saint Wang Yangming explained this truth long ago.

how to control emotions?

there is only one answer, which is not to take emotions seriously. You care too much about what others think of you. If you flatter this person too much, you will certainly fail and stay inside. Remember, in this world, except life and death, everything else is bullshit, and you can never satisfy everyone. The most well-known aspect of people's hearts is that they can't see that you are better off than others.

second, never feel inferior. Never feel inferior to others. Whether this person has money or not has nothing to do with you. There are many people who are too servile, and when they see people who are better than Bai Ji, or even some people who pretend to be forced, they become timid. As everyone knows, many people are faking it, dung beetles.

how do you see if you are really rich? I'm telling you this, look at a person's material, not what he wears, what he drives and what he eats, but his circle. If this person's picture is very advanced, 9% of this person is expected, if this person only has a costume and a so-called luxury car. This thing of his is for pretending. His pocket is cleaner than his face. You don't need to be inferior. You will always be yourself.

Third, time is limited. You ask yourself how old you are this year. People usually make you unhappy for only a few seconds, and these seconds can affect your mood for a long time. Do you ask yourself if you are worth it? Let me ask you, do you still remember who you quarreled with at 7: 3 pm on July 5, 213 and March 26, 219?

you must have forgotten all about it, or pushed it forward for three years at five o'clock in the afternoon. Who made you unhappy because of something? Do you remember? You don't remember, but you were angry. So if you want to be happy, you should put your time in the long run, and never let one thing affect you. That is called mental internal friction.

when people get old, they will only regret what they didn't do when they were young, and they won't regret what they did. So eat, drink, and be happy, so that life can become more meaningful.

what is optimism?

Optimism means that after seeing through the essence of life, you hate it, but you still love life. Being alive is inherently tiring. Being happy is also a day, and being unhappy is also a day.