1. Even if the matter is small, don’t do it arbitrarily; if you do it arbitrarily, you will suffer a loss.

No matter how small the matter is, don't do it carelessly; if you do it willfully, there will be some problems with your morality.

2. Injury to one’s body will cause worries to one’s relatives; one’s moral integrity will be injured, which will cause shame to one’s relatives.

Protect your own health. If you are sick, your parents will be worried; if your morals are damaged, your parents will feel ashamed.

3. It is better to say too much than to say too little; just say the truth, don’t be sarcastic.

It is better to speak less than to speak more. Speak appropriately and avoid rhetoric. Therefore, when speaking, you must distinguish the occasion, object and timing, and never cause disaster by speaking quickly.

4. When speaking, trust comes first; deceit and deceit should be ignored.

Whenever you speak, you must first be honest. How can it be deception and nonsense?

5. It is short to complain, but it is long to repay kindness.

Complaining is not a temporary thing, but a long-term thing. As the saying goes: "Look at the world as smoke, remember the kindness as blood." We should complain less and be more grateful.

6. Don’t talk about people’s selfishness.

This famous saying is to warn people not to be keen on other people's privacy, let alone promote other people's privacy everywhere, otherwise it will definitely offend others. Sometimes, knowing too much about other people's privacy can easily lead to disaster.

7. Although the things are small, do not hide them privately; hiding them privately will hurt your loved ones.

Sad: sad. Even if the thing is very small, don't hide it privately; if you do, it will make your parents very sad.

8. If you like what you like, use your strength; if you dislike what you like, be careful to get rid of it.

If parents like things, we should do our best to prepare them properly; if parents don't like things, we should carefully remove them for them.

9. If you love me, it’s hard to be filial; if you love me or hate me, filial piety is a virtuous thing.

If our parents love us, what difficulties do we have in being filial? If my parents don't like me, I should be more filial to my parents. This is commendable.

10. If a relative has a fault, he will be remonstrated; his appearance will be pleasant and his voice will be gentle.

Guo: fault. Update: Correction. Rou: Soft. If parents make mistakes, they should persuade them so that they can correct them immediately. But when persuading them, you must pay attention to your method, be pleasant in appearance, and speak softly.

1. Those who know me say that I am worried; those who do not know me say that what do I want? Who is this person in the sky? ——"The Book of Songs·Wang Feng·Mu Li"

Those who know me say that I am troubled; those who don't know ask me what I want. God from above, who caused me to be like this (referring to running away from home)?

In the early years of the Eastern Zhou Dynasty, the officials of the dynasty returned to Haojing. When they saw the ruined ancestral temple and the desolate scene of millet and millet separation, they couldn't help but sigh with emotion. The poet said that people who know him know that he is melancholy, and people who don't know him will think that he is looking for something. God, who caused this situation? The latter sentence is particularly thought-provoking. It contains both condemnation of King You of Zhou for his lack of moral integrity and dissatisfaction with the invasion of Dog and Rong.

2. The peach blossoms shine brightly. ——"The Book of Songs·Zhou Nan·Taoyao"

The peach trees are luxuriant and the peach blossoms are brilliant. The bright and lush peach blossoms are used as a metaphor for the bride's beautiful and mature charm. The language is simple, but there is no lack of elegance.

3. I have left the past, and the willows are still there. Now that I'm thinking about it, it's raining and snowing. ——"The Book of Songs·Xiaoya·Plucking Wei"

Recalling the time when we set out for the expedition, the willows were fluttering gently. Now on the way home, snowflakes and powder are falling.

These lines of poetry reflect the desolation expressed by the soldiers guarding the border on their way back to their hometown. The "willow" and "rain and snow" in the poem have been completely personified, and they bear the burden of responsibility together with the author. The heavy pressure of life has become a direct participant in the gatherings and separations of life. The fresh and mellow language in it can easily remind people of the style of poetry after the Wei and Jin Dynasties.

4. The jianjia is green and the white dew is like frost. The so-called beauty is on the side of the water. ——"The Book of Songs·Qin Feng·Jian Jia"

The reeds are green and the white dew turns into frost. On this lonely autumn day, my dear one is on the other side of the water.

The poet takes the autumn scene as his starting point, which can be said to have exhausted the worries of life. Because autumn is the season when life goes to death, when heaven and man face each other, it cannot help but arouse full of sadness. This is a common sense of sadness among ancient Chinese literati, and these lines of poems can be said to be the origin of it.