The best way is to carefully distinguish between love and life. The affection between men and women is an inner experience, which you can only experience, not forever.

If you want to choose marriage, you must take responsibility and dare to face the variability of love.

Love can't be guided, and emotional things can only be shared and can't be analyzed.

There is no practical way to love, what is needed is accumulation and painful training. In pain, people's emotional needs will become coordinated with the actual needs.

Giving and asking for love is like two oars in the hand, and love is a boat. Only the proper cooperation of giving and taking can balance the ingenious rhythm and strength, so as to avoid the ship spinning in the water and going astray, and successfully reach the other side of your desired marriage.

There is a boundary between real life and spiritual life, and spiritual needs are private areas. You can't expect others to agree with you. A lot of sense of loss is not caused by marriage itself, and the exploration of life must be done by yourself.

Marriage is the most difficult relationship in the world, because it is more intimate than all human relationships and takes more time than all relationships. There are two skills to maintain these relationships: similarity and complementarity.

Marriage is not a place for reasoning. Husband and wife should do a good job of emotional buffering and pay more attention to each other's needs than whether they should.