Masters are always lonely. Make a hot water bottle, which is very hot but has a good insulation layer, but it is warm but not hot.
Look at the problem comprehensively and in the long run. The backlog of many problems is "Rome was not built in a day", and its solution is "Rome was not built in a day".
Groups of students are repeating the eternal drama of "learning-memorizing-testing-forgetting".
If death deprives life of its existence, then immortality deprives life of its charm.
No one has the right to take another person's soul as his own victim.
If people really live once, then only instinctive animals survive.
Rationality pursues truth and discriminates falsehood, so that people's judgments, choices and actions are based on real information; Utilitarianism pursues advantages and avoids disadvantages to ensure survival; The aesthetic pursuit of beauty, fun and joy makes life interesting; Morality seeks good and eliminates evil, and ensures the order of social and interpersonal life. The balance of the four is the harmony of life and emotion.
Using memory instead of thinking and reciting instead of clear perception and understanding of phenomena is a major drawback for children to become stupid and eventually lose their desire to learn.
Do something, do something. Do what you can; If there is no hope, it is advisable to compensate (lost the east corner, picking mulberry) or give up (take a step back).
Self-knowledge, self-awareness, self-care. -people and animals are different.
Interpersonal relationships are mutual. Sometimes, as romain rolland said, "People who love are unloved, people who love are unloved, and people who love are often unable to combine." At this time, it is advisable to rely less and be more independent; Less possessive, more blessed. Don't try to take on more than you can handle.
Hide one's strength and bide one's time in adversity, and use low tide to accumulate energy and hope.
When a big stone falls into the water, it is a reef or a submerged reef when the water is shallow, which becomes an obstacle or danger; When the water is deep enough, it not only becomes an obstacle, but also becomes the scenery of the seabed. Love is invisible, but it is real, and can't be forced or possessed.
Romain rolland said, "People I love don't love me, and people who love me don't love me, but people who love each other can't be together." I also want to add that people who are combined often don't love enough.
Every man has his hobbyhorse. He doesn't love you, not because you are a rotten vegetable, but because he likes radishes.
What is love at first sight? It's probably love at first sight, and then my heart is broken.
According to the principle of diminishing marginal benefit, first love is the best. If you fall in love casually, you may become the fifth or sixth piece of bread for others.
If a man cares about your appearance, you can ignore him because this is only a short-term relationship.
In the words of buckets effect, as long as one person suffers in marriage, no one will be happy.
Why are beautiful women unlucky? Because the scarcity of resources leads to competition, competition leads to concentration, concentration leads to monopoly, and monopoly leads to antitrust.
Life with love is happy, but life with love is dangerous.
There is a person who cooks with you all day and does trivial things, but you don't take her seriously? Also said that marriage is the grave of love?
What I need is to love me when I am not cute, and everyone loves me when I am cute.
Mature love is: being loved because of love; Because I love you and I need you. Not the other way around.
About college love, Gu Nanyong's four words of advice:
-yes, but don't deliberately;
-Follow "sustainable development";
-profound cultivation;
-Take a long line to catch a big fish ... Because of selfishness, the law is necessary. Morality is made possible by altruism.
Morality advocates good and law punishes evil. Morality depends on inner consciousness, with low cost and low intensity; The law relies on external coercion, which is costly and powerful. Without law, morality will be inadequate; Without morality, the law will be overwhelmed.
Treat the mind with Buddhism, the body with Taoism and the world with Confucianism.
Law is the strict bottom line, which guarantees social order and stability; Morality has a high standard of freedom, which allows and protects individual freedom and vitality.
"Revolution" (breaking "monarchical power") is only for nourishing soup and stopping boiling, and "another day" (breaking "destiny") is the fundamental solution.
The political modernization of the country is reflected in the acquisition of political power: from "counting fists" to "counting heads"; Government: From Ruling and Herdsmen to Public Management and Public Service: Nationals: From Ruled to Autonomy.
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1, "I was admitted to a very unsatisfactory major, and I was in a bad mood. It was really boring when I went in, and there was no retreat! "
The key to life is not to hold a good deck of cards, but to play a bad deck.
2. "I will graduate soon, but I don't want to go to work because of the hardships at the grassroots level, the poverty in academia, the wisdom in business and politics."
-Be sure to take part in the work. If it goes well, you will be very happy. If rough, you will become a philosopher; If you run away, you will be nothing.
3. "I am very lofty. I am angry and lonely when I see many people with vulgar tastes. "
If you ask a male toad, what is beauty? It replied that beauty is its mother toad. Do you want to argue with it?
4. "I am so thoughtful, I often think a lot of questions, and sometimes I can't even sleep. I am very upset, but I don't want to eat all day, and I have no heart. "
A person who thinks too little may lose his dignity as a human being; If a person thinks too much, he will lose the pleasure of being a man.
5. "I have many dreams that I can't give up, so I live a miserable life." Can you be free? "
Indeed, where there are dreams, there will inevitably be pain. However, the place without dreams is the grave.
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6. "I am strong. Some people call me vain. I admit it in my heart, but I can't change it because I don't want others to look down on me. "
Exaggeration is a beautiful dress that does not cover the body. What role does it play besides increasing its own burden?
7. "I have always achieved excellent results and ranked among the best. But I did badly in the exam last semester and failed. I am afraid of losing my dominant position and I am under great pressure. "
-the game is lifelong, and winning or losing is temporary.
8. "I really want to be a pure and upright person, but if others don't do it, won't I suffer?"
A pure conscience is a gentle pillow, which can make people sleep more soundly and stably.
9. "I am dissatisfied with many things in social reality, but why are so many people saying good things?"
-Qin Huang Hanwu, prosperous time. However, there is also such a sentence in Yuan Qu: "Sad Qin and Han Dynasties, strangers, and people sigh."
10, "I am ambitious, but I think I am ambitious."
-Zhuangzi said: "The water is not thick, and the big ship can't bear it; The wind is not thick and its negative wing is weak. "
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1 1, "Poverty and meanness, hard life and great pressure, how to bear it?"
A hammer can break glass or forge a sword. Imagine that one day in the future, I will read Jia Dao's poem "the legendary swordsman" with great pride: "It takes ten years to sharpen a sword, but the frost blade has never tried. Today, I will show you, who is unfair? "
12, "Seeing the noise in society, I don't know where there is a pure land to make me peaceful?"
If a person can't find inner peace, I'm afraid it won't help anywhere.
13, "I think I am a pessimist, and I often feel sad. I think many smiling faces are superficial. However, after all, I have heard many people say and read many books that we should' laugh at life'. Laugh or not laugh? "
The key is to be philosophical, optimistic and not to laugh. If your hair is gray, dyeing it black won't change your age. If you feel unhappy, why force a smile?
14, "I think failure is terrible and I feel a lot of pressure."
-Who can be smooth forever? The shame of life lies not in losing, but in not being able to lose; The glory of life lies not in never arriving, but in standing up again and again (Napoleon).
15, "I feel depressed, depressed and doomed because my family has suffered successive changes. How to change the unfortunate fate? "
A man is unlikely to change his destiny unless he changes his attitude towards it.
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16, "I often work hard, but I always make mistakes. The result is not always satisfactory. I am really disappointed, and sometimes I even feel desperate. Why are all efforts in vain? "
Barnyard grass may grow in the ground every year. Which farmer complained about the futility of pulling barnyard grass last year?
17, "How to get rid of the feeling of being abandoned?"
-Read Tao Qian's poems several times: "Relatives or sorrows have been sung by others; What is the way to die? "
18, "The university class I am looking forward to is full of wisdom and shocking, just like a wonderful speech. But now I am disappointed. What can I learn? "
-We have eaten some sumptuous meals and many daily diets, and the taste is of course bland. What makes us grow into strong bodies?
19, "I'm only a junior, and I'm worried that I won't find a good job after graduation. I don't want to take the postgraduate entrance examination, and it is said that it is difficult to take the exam across majors. The more I think about it, the less I know what to do. "
Most fruits are bitter before they are ripe. Why try so soon?
20. "I am always indecisive, suffering from loss, as if I can't let go of anything, which is very annoying."
The key is not gain or loss. If you can get it without guilt and lose it without regret, let it be the result of gain and loss.
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2 1, "I was unlucky and my heart was broken. Why are you so unlucky? "
-"Unfortunately" is a university that enrolls students every year, but no one applies for it. Those who can graduate are all strong.
22. "How to face the pain of life?"
-it is difficult to be deep and kind without experiencing pain. On the stage of life, learn to experience pain like an actor; In addition, smile at your pain like a bystander.
23. "If people are not long, they are mostly good. I miss the lightness and joy of childhood. "
Yes, if all the seedlings are not long and much better, we can eat charming grass instead of cooking.
24. "Some people say that women are pure and lovely, mature and reliable. I am very confused. Should I stay cute or pursue reliability? "
-the two are not contradictory, right? If it's not reliable, how long can it be cute? What if it's not cute and unreliable?
25. "School is frustrated, life is difficult, and the future is bleak. I am always depressed and often secretly cry. How to go on? "
-first find a place where no one is there, laugh hard in front of the mirror, then laugh hard, and then remind yourself that there is still a long way to go, crying is life, laughing is life, and laughing is more hopeful than crying.
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26. "I was cheated and suffered heavy losses. I used to be simple, but now I'm disappointed in everything. Do I want to live? How to live? "
Think about my parents' upbringing first, and then remind myself: "Now fate has forced me to be a hero, and I must have the courage to live. First, there is only one true heroism in the world, and that is to love life after knowing the truth of life. Second, no matter how many hardships and setbacks you have experienced, no matter how much despair and disillusionment you have experienced, a person's life must be a hymn of life.
27. "The expectations of relatives and their own beliefs are for success, not failure. I feel very competitive, very tired and nervous almost every day. "
By some standards, mediocre people account for the vast majority, including most of our parents. Are they all losers? Why can you succeed if you have resources, wealth, status and reputation, but you don't have a kind heart, a beautiful personality and a happy family?
28. "Many people around us are full of worship of practical knowledge and skills. I'm confused. Is skill everything in this world? "
-Someone once commented that French politician talleyrand "can do anything, even do good." How to treat this evaluation?
29. "My parents are very concerned about me and are always afraid that I will suffer hardships, so they have arranged a good life and future for me. I'm a little bitter, but I'm addicted to enjoying myself. "
-others arrange for you, which is called enjoyment; What you have worked hard for is called happiness.
30. "After I went to college, I found myself unknown, with a complicated mentality of arrogance and humility, and I really wanted to get ahead and be famous in the future. But now, I can't see any hope, I feel bored and idle all day. "
According to historians, crowns can't cure headaches.
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3 1, "The world is changing too fast, e-mail, e-commerce, e-love ... I come from the countryside, my computer level is very low, and I am very scared. Will I be unable to keep up with society and be dropped by E in the future? "
No matter what e is, e is just an attribute, and the subject is still mail, business and love. ...
32. "How can I make friends when I feel lonely away from my hometown and relatives?"
The first way to make friends is to make enough friends.
33. "At first, the classmates in our dormitory had a good relationship, and I was very happy. Now it's fading, and I'm busy, and I no longer have that kind of home atmosphere. I am very disappointed. "
Not long after hatching, chickens and ducklings are almost identical, and they all grew up together as accomplices. After a while, the old duck will be in the water. Please comfort the sad chicken.
34. "I'm afraid to argue with others, I'm afraid to guess, I'm afraid to open my heart to people, but I feel lonely. What should I do? "
-water tastes tasteless and swings into ripples; There is no fire in the stone, but it strikes and shines.
35. "Being in love with your boyfriend for two years can be described as vows of eternal love. But recently, he no longer cares about me, and often doesn't come to accompany me on the pretext of something. I'm worried. He is tired of me. What should I do? "
If you can say to him in your heart, "I am looking forward to being with you, but I can live well without you", you will be more attractive.
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36. "I broke up with my girlfriend recently. The relationship with another good friend is not sustainable. Although the man has tears and does not flick, I feel very lonely inside. "
-No birds of the same kind are inferior to Qi Fei. Let each have a sky, and then give yourself a belief: Germany is not alone, there must be neighbors.
37. "I am introverted. A roommate is too overbearing and always makes fun of me. I don't want to make trouble with him in public, but I don't want to endure it all the time. What should I do? "
-find an appropriate opportunity and write a note to remind him that jokes can't hurt enemies, but they can hurt friends, including roommates.
38. "I originally wanted to run for the position of the student union, but my heart was half cold when I saw some people pulling ties and gangs. Am I going in or out? "
-Go to the Pearl River, think about the Tang poem "Ercao's name is ruined, and don't waste the rivers flowing forever" before making a decision.
39. "Seeing that some competitors are unscrupulous, I am embarrassed and unwilling to retreat."
What could be more precious and beautiful than a pure heart and clean hands?
40. "I love face very much. I hope everyone will have a good impression on me and live cautiously for this. However, some people still disagree with me, and I am very unwilling. "
How can I do what I want to do, but I want to have a clear conscience.
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4 1, "in college, although I am conscientious, I am still very ordinary, and I am not outstanding in any way. I envy those fenqing classmates. I am quite disappointed in myself. "
-gorgeous flowers do not necessarily bear sweet fruits, such as peony and peony; Flowers with sweet fruits are not necessarily beautiful and dazzling, such as jujube flowers.
42. "I firmly believe that people who make mistakes should be severely punished and sanctioned. But sometimes, reality makes me angry. Why not? "
-people are not sages, and they can make mistakes; Forgiveness, sacred. More importantly, don't attack people too severely, but think about it; Teach people not to be too good, but to be obedient.
43. "Pursuing perfection, like perfection, but not easy to get along with people, why?"
-everything is measured, too much is not enough. In A Dream of Red Mansions, Miaoyu is said to be "enviable and clean", which can be learned.
44. "I had a hard time with a friend who said almost everything. She knows many secrets about me, and I'm worried. What should I do? "
-It's a lesson. The ancients said: be intimate when you are happy, and prevent venting when you lose happiness; I feel sad when I am angry, but I should feel ashamed when I feel better. Westerners say that it is best to keep a "porcupine distance" when getting along with others. It is said that porcupines are covered with thorns. In cold weather, they want to get close to each other to use their body temperature, but they can't get too close, so porcupines try to get together on the premise that no one can stab anyone.
45. "An amiable and respectable friend has done a very bad thing recently. I was shocked and sad, and I had doubts about him and myself. "
-where the light is strong, the shadow is darker.
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46. "I can't master the discretion of self-expression. Boast, others say crazy; Be modest, but be afraid of being seen as' average'. "
-don't say how good you are, others generally won't believe you; Don't say how bad you are, others will generally believe you. More profoundly, parrots can talk and stay with animals; Peaches and plums say nothing, but they go their own way.
47. "I am immersed in reading, I don't have many friends, and I am ignorant of the world. Some people call me a nerd. I am not convinced that I am not stupid, but it is also very contradictory: I really don't want to be sophisticated, but it seems that I have to be sophisticated? "
—— Wu Congxian in the Ming Dynasty lamented: "Things are familiar and human feelings are easy to flow; The world is sparse, and friendship is easy to hinder. It's embarrassing, it's hard to live! " Knowing this dilemma may calm the contradictory heart.
48. "I used to believe that' good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil', but reality tells me that virtuous people are not necessarily blessed, and unjust people are not necessarily in trouble. It's really' looking up at the sky, the sky is gray'! "
It is human nature to be sad and helpless. But we might as well think calmly, since we admit that fame and fortune can't buy virtue, why should we ask virtue for fame and fortune in return?
49. "I am about to graduate and go to society. During my internship, I learned that no matter in politics, business or journalism, there are many times when I can't help it, and sometimes it's ugly. Is it possible for me to be alone? Is collusion equal to abetting abuse? "
If you go to a place where there are many wolves, you might as well remember one sentence: "In order not to be eaten by wolves, you have to howl with them." If you go to a crowded place, remember another sentence: "Virtue does not necessarily make your face beautiful, but evil will definitely make your face ugly."
50. "Since I went to college, I have more classmates, but I seem to be more lonely."
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It is not necessarily a good thing for a person to feel lonely when he is a minor, or not lonely when he is an adult.
5 1, "I can talk well with people online, how can I be so handsome in reality?"
-There are two methods for reference: First, don't treat the real person as a living person; Second, don't take the internet as a refuge.
52. "The students in the same dormitory are undisciplined, mean and selfish, and it is difficult to get along. I find it difficult. Can I change my dormitory? "
Life is like taking a bus. After buying a ticket and getting on the bus, it's hard to say what kind of traveling companions you will meet. Do you want to change trains?
53. "The boys in our class are all very bad. A class outing to climb a mountain, girls carry things on the road. At the lunch picnic, they occupied a shady place, and we were tanned! Are boys still children? "
-cows eat grass and ducks, and they eat whole grains, and each has its own blessing. Why worry about him? Don't play with him next time
54. "My personality has always been very independent, but I often feel lonely and desolate. Are you destined to have no partner in your life? "
-there are days to sit alone, and there are moons in the wild. How can you say there is no companion?
55. "I am particularly grateful. I have been thinking about repaying my kindness and owing others' feelings. I have been hanging in my heart. Some acquaintances say I'm too strange, and I don't know what to do. "
Kindness is the brilliance of human nature, but the way and object of reward may not be so rigid. You have eaten a lot of eggs laid by chickens and drank a lot of milk from cows. How do you repay them?
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56. "In some organizational activities, I heard many obvious lies. Those people seem quite open to it. Don't you want to tell the truth? "
You can tell the truth, but what you say should be the truth. If you are not careful, you will become popular, then stay away from the place where nonsense is pervasive. The earth is rich, and the world is not lonely.
57. "It is said that looking for a job and falling in love are all welcomed by beautiful faces. I only hate that my parents didn't give birth to a beautiful face. "
A beautiful face is just a letter of recommendation, and a beautiful heart is a credit card.
58. "I believe that the greatest happiness and highest goal in life lies in a happy love. But I'm not sure. Many heterosexuals in this era are unreliable. "
Life with love is happy, but living in born to love is dangerous.
59. "I yearn for the romantic adventure of falling in love at first sight and don't want to accept the mediocrity of following the rules." Some people say that my idea is very dangerous, will it? "
There are two questions to consider: first, how much nutrition can instant noodles cooked in three minutes have? Secondly, how many people can make a living by winning the lottery?
60. "I have deep feelings for him, and he is at arm's length with me. I am very unwilling, I have paid no return? "
First of all, love is not necessarily the reason to be loved; Secondly, you don't want to force him, do you?
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6 1, "I don't love him anymore, but I can't say goodbye. I can't bear to make him sad, but I am very tired and helpless. "
When you no longer love, saying "no" is love. If you can't give him happiness, please set him free.
62. "After breaking up with my lover, I feel that my life is gloomy and I have no interest in doing anything."
-while suffering, we should also think that the glory of the sun depends on our great enthusiasm, rather than reflecting the light from the outside world.
63. "It is difficult for me to communicate with my parents, especially my father, who is simple and rude to me. How did I meet such a father? "
A son can't choose his ideal father, but he can mold his ideal self and become a good father.