Treat colleagues with more understanding and careful support. Working in an office, I spend a long time with my colleagues and have a certain understanding of each other's hobbies and living conditions. As colleagues, we have no reason to expect others to serve us faithfully. Once misunderstandings and disputes occur, we must think of others from another angle, stand in the other side's position, understand their situation, and never get emotional and reveal their privacy. Any behind-the-scenes comments and criticisms will eventually destroy their generous image in the process of belittling each other and be resisted by others. At the same time, we should have sincere enthusiasm for our work and choose careful support for our colleagues. Support is to accept other people's views and ideas. Blind support can only lead to blind obedience, and it will also breed suspicion of cliques and affect the trust in the company's decision-making level.
Learn to control your emotions. Losing control of emotions is a taboo in the workplace, because you have no idea what will happen if you are wronged, explode and vent. Not long ago, a friend of mine came to see me. She is an emotional girl. A few days ago, she had a conflict with her colleagues in other departments at work, and others didn't cooperate. She quarreled with others in a rage, and she broke up. However, the colleague who quarreled with her was very background, so she was afraid of being dealt with by the company after the quarrel and asked me what to do. In fact, this kind of thing should never have happened. Your goal is to finish the work, and the other party doesn't cooperate. What you need is to mobilize all means to promote her cooperation, find a leader, put in a good word, and apply both hard and soft. These are all methods, but quarreling will only make things worse.
Many people don't understand that the company hired you to do things, not to make friends. Essentially, you don't need to please others, and you don't need to be afraid of others. You have only one task: to do a good job. In addition, learn something to support the family. In layman's terms, it is eight words: study and grow, and work to make money. If you really can't get along, don't force yourself too much, just stay away. ?