Yes, we all have good conditions, we have beautiful schools and happy families, but in our eyes, achievement is the condition that determines our happiness or not. In the eyes of the post-80s generation, our post-90s children are happy and have the conditions to study, so they should study hard. They regard learning as an evaluation of our character, quality and future. They give us the feeling that learning represents everything and grades represent the future.

They always like to compare us with other children. In their comparison, we will think that we are a child with no advantage, and they don't know it. In fact, their every move is affecting us. Many post-80s people put their previous wishes and present wishes on us. We know, and we know. However, when they expect too much from us, we will feel very painful. We will feel that they don't love us or us, just regard us as the stars of their wishes, and think that we will "eat" us if we don't reach them. Maybe you'll think I'm exaggerating when you see this. Actually, it's not. Let me give you examples one by one!

Some mothers like playing the piano and singing when they are young. But at that time, there were no conditions at home, so I put this wish on my daughter, and her daughter would be restricted by them, and her daughter would lose her childhood happiness. Childhood is the happiest moment of a person, but it is wasted. A precious childhood was ruined by their so-called once wishes. Right? In fact, we understand that they are good for us, but if all this is good and becomes our burden, is it still good for us? They always like to say that they are doing this for our future. but ...

In fact, they can change their love for us. They can let us find our own life and fight for our own wishes. In fact, they can let go of their love for us because we also have our own wishes and ideals. If everyone wants to be like them, then no one in this world can realize their wishes. Everyone places their hopes on the next generation. If so, then people shouldn't appear, should they? Isn't human life a struggle for their own life, their own ideals and aspirations?

Here, I want to tell those adults who have wishes but have no chance to realize them, don't put your wishes on our post-90 s children, we will be crushed by your wishes. Can you give us some space?