With the narration, we walked into the year 1988. Today, let’s relive the year 1988, the mothers who moved us countless times! I don’t know about you, but which mother in the show is your favorite?
chapter one:
? In 1988, no matter which pair of mothers there were, they all had their own charm. Deshan’s mother was kind-hearted, while Gouhuan’s mother had a sharp mouth and a tofu heart. Shanyu’s mother is strong, now, let’s get into them together!
Li Yihua (Deshan’s mother): Mother is the patron saint of children. She borrowed money for Deshan’s school trip and risked everything to protect Paula in the rainy night. As the play says: Sometimes I feel my mother is embarrassed. Why doesn’t my mother even have the dignity and self-esteem? I feel like I'm getting angry. There was someone she wanted to protect more than herself, and that was me, but I didn't know it at the time. People truly become strong not when they protect their self-esteem, but when they put aside their self-esteem. That’s why my mother is very strong. ?
? The relationship between Deshan’s mother and Deshan’s father. In order to help the poor, Deshan's father often bought some unnecessary things home, such as bean sprouts, bracken, prenatal education disks, and chewing gum. As he said: "The poor should help the poor more." Deshan's mother would always be angry with him, saying, "Can you help others in this situation?" At this age, living in a semi-basement, you can't even afford your children's shoes, and your wife is still wearing socks with holes. Although she kept saying that she couldn't live anymore, she still told her children that this was why she loved their father.
Luo Meilan (Gou Huan’s mother): A mother who is not good at expressing love, don’t use a pinched expression - words are full of emotions, so every word is full of body temperature, in this cold and cold words. In this world, what makes you persist in living and maintain your body temperature are not famous quotes or knowledgeable words, but warm words that carry your rude body temperature
? Fifth At the same time, because she had to take care of her mother with a sprained ankle, Gou Huan's mother went on a long trip and uneasily explained all the affairs at home. After returning home, I saw that everything in the house was in order, the cleaning, washing dishes, and clothes were all perfect, the coal cakes were changed, and all the dishes ordered were eaten, and I couldn't help but feel a little disappointed. What is mom missing? Through the conversation between Gou Huan and Baby Fish, we know the answer perfectly: Zheng Huan, do you really not know why your mother is unhappy? Because my family is doing so well, and because my mother is not here, my family is also doing well. That's why there are scenes that make everyone feel warm and funny. Zhengfeng's hands were burned by boiled ramen, briquettes were crushed with an umbrella, all the clothes in his drawer were messed up, and his mother was looking for shorts. At this time, although my mother said something disgusting and unbearable, "How can you live without me and you can't do anything well," her face was filled with smiles and pride, and she suddenly became happy. Mom, you feel needed and dependent, right?
In the eighth episode, Zhengfeng underwent heart surgery, but Gou Huan’s mother massaged her face and bought cosmetics with other mothers as usual, saying that it was just a minor operation and there was nothing to worry about. Before the operation, both Zhengfeng, Gou Huan, and Gou Huan's father said that she was very strong. People who used to only cry could now go to the lounge and watch movies before the operation. But in the end we found out that she It was a man crying silently in the lounge. She does not have a strong heart, her heart is also very soft, but at this moment, she is the backbone of the family. She needs to cheer up her family and herself. She wants to be the backing that her family relies on, so she has to be strong.
Kim Sun-young (Sun-woo’s mother): I heard that God couldn’t be everywhere, so he created mothers. Even at my mother's age, my mother's mother is still my mother's guardian angel. Just saying the word mother makes me feel choked up in my throat.
Mom, the most powerful name.
? Shanyu’s mother is the only woman who does not have a husband to take care of her. She takes care of Shanyu and Zhenzhu by herself. She lives an extremely frugal life. In order to earn pocket money for her brothers and sisters, she works in the bathhouse and buys pearls for Zhenyu. Spot balance. Although life was hard, she had a sensible Shanyu and a cute little Pearl, which made everything seem so worth it.
? Mom’s lie-when we were children, we all heard our mother say, I don’t like to eat this, you eat it. In fact, how could she not like to eat? She just wants to give all the delicious things to you, who she loves most. I couldn't help but think of the scene where the three of them ate bananas together, giving the best part to Pearl, then Sunwoo, and finally myself. Even though supplies were scarce at the time and bananas were expensive, Shanyu’s mother would still give them the best she could.
? I am also my mother’s precious daughter——? In the eighth episode, Grandma Shanyu and Grandma Shanyu came to Shanyu’s mother’s house. The strong contrast between the two makes us feel the mother's love for her daughter. When Shanyu's mother-in-law came to visit, everything was business as usual for Shanyu's mother, because no matter what she did, she would only get scolding from her mother-in-law, complaining that she didn't take good care of Shanyu and Zhenyu, complaining that her clothes were shabby, and complaining that she didn't have good fortune. , complaining that she killed her son. ?When Sunwoo’s grandma comes to visit, Sunwoo’s mother will wash the pearls clean, borrow rice, vegetables, briquettes and cosmetics from Gou Huan’s house, find her best clothes and put them on, painted with bright slogans, Keep your home tidy and clean. Because she knew that the person who loved her found the excuse that her brother was injured just to see if her daughter was doing well as usual. But no matter how well she decorated her home, her mother still saw her predicament from the clothes she washed. Just as the note said: My kind and beautiful daughter, my mother has no money and can’t give you much. My daughter, please buy some beautiful clothes. My dear daughter, don’t feel inferior. You have done nothing wrong. Take care of yourself.
Zhao Xiuxiang: Unlike the other three mothers in the drama, Baby Fish’s mother rarely appears, but when the last few episodes are released, I believe everyone will fall in love with her! I always remember what she said: I don’t want to be called Dalong’s mother, Donglong’s mother, I’m not happy about this, my name is Zhao Xiuxiang.
chapter two:
? The simple but warm friendship between the mothers in the play has also brought us countless touches. Everyone chooses vegetables together at the door, chats, eats sweet potatoes, and even makes fun of each other's husbands. They do needlework together, apply face masks, go to temples to tell fortunes for their children, chat about current life, and talk about the past years, which makes people feel real and beautiful. .
? Everyone genuinely cares about each other. Recalling the time when Deshan took a break from school to travel, Deshan's mother went to Gou Huan's mother to borrow money. The two drank soju together and disliked her husband. Deshan's mother wanted to speak but couldn't. When she went home at night, she could only look at the cosmetics that could no longer be squeezed out and her sleeping husband and get sulky. But at this moment, Zhenghuan's mother took the initiative to come to her and gave her corn sent by relatives. Under the corn, there was an envelope, which contained money and a note. It said: Deshan will also go on a school trip tomorrow, so he can use the subsidy to make some pocket money. ——Carefully maintained Desheng’s mother’s self-esteem.
It is this kind of simple and beautiful little details in the neighborhood that touch our hearts. There are no big storms, but it shows the long flow of life. Children grow up and grow old. This is life. .
chapter three:
? I wonder if 1988 will also remind you of your family, friendship and love. I thought of the 1990s when I was born. It was also a time when material resources were scarce, but the neighborly relationship was very good. I would often go to your house to borrow some salt, and you would come to mine to borrow some oil. It was also an era of "other families smell good". Growing up, he was carefree and so happy. Television was not popular at that time. After dinner in the summer, everyone gathered in the courtyard to watch "Journey to the West" together, cheered for the Great Sage, and watched "Huan Zhu Ge Ge" together, and were emotionally affected by the little swallows and crape myrtle. It was a time when Taiwanese dramas were popular. I rented pirated discs, screamed for the F4 of "Meteor Garden", fantasized about being Shancai, and cried because I was worried about Yixun's condition in "Lavender", while imagining my own Prince Charming. I still remember the fear of being dominated by ghosts when I watched "The Old Corpse in a Mountain Village" for the first time, and I still remember the fear of walking along an unlit path while silently praying and walking faster and faster.
There were no cram schools at that time, and adults were busy with farm work. We were just unruly wild children. We chased grasshoppers after school, played skipping rope, kicked shuttlecocks, and ate dime popsicles, but we were full and satisfied inside.
? Now, when the neighborhood feelings are gradually cut off by high-rise buildings, will you remember the beauty of that time? I liked 1988, maybe at first it was just because of the love in it and the quarrel over whether it was Zeshan or Goushan, but as the plot unfolded, I became more and more fond of the gurgling neighborly feelings and the playful friendship in it. As Mother's Day is approaching, I plan to make an inventory of mothers to share with you.