When each of us enters the marriage, we must think that the other person is right, and we must have expected to say in our wedding vows: "In sickness and in poverty, till death do us part." But, ah, not every marriage can be as we wish. In life, there will be many problems, trivial or earth-shattering, which will make people who originally loved each other hate each other until they part.
Regret? There will be, but this is life. It's normal to be on and off. What we should pay attention to is not the past, but the future, because the past is irreparable and the future can be decided by ourselves.
Therefore, for divorced people, both men and women should consider how to treat their children, how to distribute property, how to get along with each other in the future, and how to treat their emotional problems in the future.
I have met many divorced women, who have a lot of panic and inferiority, and are afraid that they will never meet happiness again in this life.
In fact, they do this because this society is not friendly to divorced women. I've heard many men and their mothers-in-law say, "After the divorce, we can find Huanghua's eldest daughter, but you can't find a young man." I have also heard people around me say to these women, "I can make do with it." You have a child. How can I get married in the future? "
It is these prejudices that make women afraid to divorce and embrace happiness when they divorce. I once told the story of a reader who met an unmarried boyfriend with her six-year-old son after divorce. They love each other very much, but in the end they are forced to give up this relationship and cancel the upcoming wedding because of their son's obstruction and future mother-in-law's prejudice.
Until now, she is also a person. She said her heart was dead and she didn't want to touch her feelings again. I don't know how many women like her. I think it is really unfair.
Leaving the wrong person and marriage is not a mistake, but a brave performance, so these women should not lose the right to happiness.
None of us want to get divorced. What should we do if we really get divorced? I think women themselves need to be calm and rational. Don't rush into feelings to fill the emptiness inside, and don't be afraid to touch the happiness around them because of fear. Choose a person who suits you, make sure that he is willing to face everything that will happen in the future with you, and then, exchange his sincerity for his sincerity.
I think many women around me are very happy after remarriage. I especially envy actress Zhang Xinyi recently. Every detail of her and Justin in the variety show "Men Do Housework" is so sweet.
In this program, we saw Justin's love for Zhang Xinyi, which made everyone sigh: Zhang Xinyi, where did you find such a good husband?
Tell me a few details.
First, Zhang Xinyi wants to go back to work and take care of her children with Justin. Mother-in-law disagreed, but Justin immediately stood up to support his wife and told his mother, "It's just a couple with children who go out to work alone. Basically divorced. "
Seeing this scene, I believe many women have been moved. In the face of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is the dream of all women that the husband can stand on his side to protect himself, but there are really too few like Justin.
Secondly, Justin is a good cook. As long as he is at home, Zhang Xinyi goes to bed in the morning and cooks with his child in his arms. And when eating, he still holds the child and lets his wife eat first. This is really touching compared with those men who always eat by themselves, regardless of their wives and children.
I'm sure some people will say it's a TV series, but if you look carefully, Justin knows exactly where the things at home are and is very skilled at housework. Such a man must be devoted to this family.
Third, Justin and Zhang Xinyi put the paper on the window together, and Zhang Xinyi cut the wrong size. Zhang Xinyi looked at Justin, and Justin said with a strong desire to survive, "In this case, it must be that this window and paper are wrong." In this way, Zhang Xinyi smiled, and the sweetness of the couple overflowed the screen.
In real life, many men only complain, no matter what their wives do, they will say that she is wrong and never consider her feelings. Compared with them, Justin's practice is true love. A really smart man must learn to accept it, instead of evading responsibility and not knowing how to take responsibility.
Fourth, on Zhang Xinyi's birthday, Justin tried his best to find the autograph of his idol Audrey Hepburn, which gave her a big surprise. Such a move shows us how much this man cares about Zhang Xinyi.
The man who really loves you will always take you to heart. He can be cruel to the whole world, but he will only pour out his heart to you. He may be busy, but he will always have time for you. In fact, love is as simple as that, that is, I am willing to pay attention to you, and you are always in my heart.
In fact, in the process of getting along with them, there are really many small details that make people particularly warm. Justin massaged Zhang Xinyi, Justin comforted Zhang Xinyi, and Justin and Zhang Xinyi cooked together ... He used these actions to prove his love for Zhang Xinyi and let Zhang Xinyi live a life envied by all women.
Think about it. When they first got together, there was a lot of abuse on the Internet. Everyone is in Zhang Xinyi, and there are many unpleasant words. But after so long, they changed everyone's mind and began to bless everyone. Love can really change everything, and time will really give you the answer.
When watching the variety show, a female fan left a message below saying, "Why should Zhang Xinyi, the second married woman, be happy?" This is the sentence that was scolded by netizens. Everyone says that she has a dark heart and is biased against second-married women. Some even cursed her for divorce.
The fan later replied: "I have no prejudice against the second married woman, and you don't have to curse me." I really have a failed marriage, and I can't find the direction of my future life now, so I just want to ask Zhang Xinyi how she managed to be so happy. "
After reading these, everyone suddenly realized and understood the pain in this woman's heart. Seriously, Zhang Xinyi gave a good guide to the majority of women, that is, there are no wrong talents and right people, even if a woman is divorced, she has the right to regain happiness.
Then, I really want to talk to you about why Zhang Xinyi made his second marriage so happy.
First of all, I think Zhang Xinyi is a very confident woman. I remember when Zhang Xinyi was photographed for the first time after giving birth, everyone complained about how she became so fat, which was a fatal blow to an actress. But Zhang Xinyi didn't become angry from embarrassment and scold everyone, and didn't stop appearing in the camera. He just said faintly, "Oh, isn't it always like this after giving birth?" You will lose weight.