No matter how smart, competent, superior and good the opportunity is, if you don't know how to be a man? Then, the final outcome is definitely not good.

Therefore, people should learn how to be a man all their lives. How to be a man? This is something that a person can't afford all his life. However, one thing is recognized by all: to follow the trend is to have art and skills in life.

There will be many "sad reminders" in a person's life, including raw pain and old sadness; The sadness of illness, the sadness of death; There are setbacks, grievances, loneliness of failure, and bumpy burial. There is also the noise when we make plans, and the loneliness after the song, and so on. ...

As the ancients said, if you love to leave, you will complain for a long time. If you can't have it, you won't let it go. With the ups and downs of the world, everyone's life is an inaudible and endless eulogy.

However, in the face of illness and death, we can stand up and raise our heads to be human; In the face of setbacks, unfairness, failures and setbacks, we can stand up and look up, then our life will be wonderful!

As the saying goes: lower your head to do things, raise your head to be a man; Walk with your head down and be a man with your head held high; Look down at books, look up at people, and so on ... In China, which has thousands of years of traditional virtues of the golden mean, sages always educate everyone to look up first.

When a person learns to bow his head, he will face the objective frankly; Only when a person lowers his head will he take everything seriously. Therefore, "bowing" is the strategy and art of being a man.

However, it is necessary to "bow your head" in one's life, but "raise your head" is more important. If we can raise our heads in the pain, suffering and sadness of life, we will be full of vitality; If we dare to raise our heads in the face of disasters, setbacks and blows, we will certainly be able to reverse the situation of disasters. In the face of injustice, slander and framing, we will raise our heads and have a strong wind and pride; Hold your head high in front of honor, aura and achievements, and we will reach a higher level. Only in this way can our life be dazzling. Therefore, "looking up" is the courage and backbone of being a man.

People should raise their heads and be human all their lives!

There is no difference between people, because acquired factors form inequality between people. Therefore, there is no difference between being a man and being a man! There is no difference between being a man and being a man! Therefore, don't feel inferior, have backbone, have dignity, always dare to look up, be upright, do things honestly, and lead a totally clean life. Therefore, people should dare to raise their heads and be human all their lives.

Looking up to be a man is about character, ambition and backbone. Life is easy, life is easy, but life is not so easy. In the world, people have different emotional and intellectual endowments, different social environments, and different opportunities and paths. Therefore, it is wrong to measure all beings with a ruler, and it is foolish to resent the injustice of creation.

Everyone's life is different, and the future of one's life is hard to predict, so why insist on wealth? There are mountains outside the sky, and there are mountains outside the mountains. It's hard to have an endless career. Only self-esteem, self-confidence, self-reliance and self-improvement can lead a better life.

At the same time, unexpected things will happen in people's lives. However, if we can hold our heads high, no matter what difficulties and obstacles we encounter, we will not be flat or bent. If you encounter any big wind and waves, you can't be scared or defeated; No matter what disasters and blows, no matter how much adversity and twists and turns, you can bear them and survive them. Such a life is a meaningful life.

From ancient times to the present, many people with lofty ideals have been loyal and arrogant all their lives and will last forever. For example, Qu Yuan, the doctor of Chu, sang "The road is long, and I will go up and down to seek"; Poet Li Bai sang: "I was born useful, spinning a thousand pieces of silver, come back!" " . Premier Zhou's "Ten-year painting is broken, and it is difficult to reward the heroes of the sea." Wait, stop counting.

Therefore, only by raising your head can you see that it is justified; Only by looking up can it show its sincerity; Only by raising your head can you show your true colors as a hero. Only by raising your head can you show the clank of iron bones! Only by raising your head to be a man can your life be brilliant.

A person should dare to raise his head and be a lifelong person.

Be a man with backbone and dare to look up as a man, which is the basis of looking up as a man.

As the saying goes, people should not be arrogant, but they should not be spineless. To be a man, you must have backbone in everything you do. For example, Meng's "wealth can't be lewd, poverty can't be moved, and power can't be bent"; In Ode to Lime, Qian Ruoshui, an aristocrat in the Northern Song Dynasty, did not despise fame. Loyal people don't rely on poverty to reach easy Cao Zhi ... "And Wen Tianxiang's" No one has died since ancient times, so keep your heart and shine on Han Qing. "Wait a minute.

Therefore, a man will never bend over for three buckets of rice, nor will he be discouraged by the food he earned. What are your regrets? What are you afraid of?

Be a man with ambition and dare to raise your head to be a man.

Moving towards a certain goal is "ambition"; What gives up halfway is "qi", and the combination of the two is ambition. "ambition" makes "where there is a will, there is a way, burn one's bridges, and it will be all in the end" no longer just a myth; "ambition" makes the history of "hard work, hard work and hard work, more than 3 thousand armor can swallow Wu" deeply remembered, and this is the success or failure of a person's life.

Therefore, to be a man, Confucius said, "The three armed forces can win the handsome, but ordinary people can't win the ambition." The spirit of; There must be a saying from Meng, "Don't look up to the sky, don't look up to others." Masculinity; We should have Cao Cao's ambition of "an old horse crouches for thousands of miles, and a martyr is courageous in his twilight years"; There must be Li Shiming's ambition that "the heart is high with the moon, the ambition is clean with the autumn frost"; There should be Li Qingzhao's heroic feelings of "living as a hero and dying as a ghost" ...

"How many things have been done by predecessors, success or failure has turned empty", "The green hills are still there, and the sunset glow is red several times". Throughout the ages, people who have achieved great things not only have outstanding talents, but also have perseverance. With ambition, there is a goal and a good start for the struggle.

Be a car-scrapping person and dare to raise your head to be a man.

"car-scrapping" presents a kind of power; "Car-scrapping" shows a kind of determination. Only when a person is upright can he have the confidence to be a man and do things with car-scrapping.

When meeting challenges and facing difficulties, there should be a kind of "rigid" tension of "everyone retreating and fighting separately"; In the face of difficulties and embarrassment, we should have the courage to be the first and go forward bravely. When encountering setbacks and suffering injustice, we should have the mind of "being selfless and broad-minded" and "being a bad guy and not afraid of ghosts in the middle of the night".

In life, study and being an official, we will never bow to power and the world. Be content with poverty, keep a quiet innocence, even if the living conditions are no lower, you can hold your head high, live like a human being and lead a hard life.

People need to be able to hold their heads high all their lives.

"I am not afraid of clouds covering my eyes, but I am afraid of the highest realm." It is such a realm that people pursue, especially in the noisy and impetuous environment.

The key to being a man is to hold his head high. You can see big, see far and hold high. At the same time, "looking up" can clearly see the direction of things, "looking up" can clearly distinguish what you have done, and "looking up" can know the success or failure of individuals. ...

As the saying goes, you are not arrogant when you are proud, and you are not discouraged when you are frustrated. "Hold your head high and be a man" is not "arrogant when you are proud", nor is it a hero when you are in trouble, nor is it that everything prevails. On the contrary, "looking up to be a man" is an optimism, a self-esteem and self-confidence.

But most people in the world who want to "look up and be human" have lofty aspirations and chivalrous courage. But they are unwilling to follow suit, flatter, do what they are told, and be wronged. Therefore, in today's society, this kind of "looking up to be a man" is regarded as an alternative and is often unpopular. On the contrary, it is also rejected and attacked. Therefore, this kind of person who "looks up at men" is obviously inappropriate.

Therefore, another key to being a man is to "look up"! That is, when to look up? Where to start? Under what conditions do you look up? Or how to check? How to find, etc. That is to say, look up when it is time to look up. Don't blindly "look up" without talking about time, place and conditions; Don't always be cocky, don't know how to lower your head and relax. Otherwise, it will be counterproductive. Looking back at Yue Fei in those days, he only looked up and sighed, lamenting that he was "strong and fierce".

Therefore, it is understandable that a man should have "backbone", "ambition" and "car-scrapping" and dare to hold his head high. However, "backbone", "ambition" and "car-scrapping" are neither stupid nor stubborn, nor are they aggressive, domineering, arrogant and stubborn. Is to have a mind, a standard and a foundation.

Because excessive "backbone", "ambition" and "car-scrapping" mean full bow, few twists and turns, willfulness, rejection of dissidents, elevation of oneself, and complacency. In the end, they are rebellious and alienated.

Therefore, as a man's head, he advocates looking up. "Looking up" is not arrogance, but gentleness, courtesy, and learning from others; "Looking up" is not cocky and bossy, but upright and aboveboard; "Looking up" is not based on one's own strengths, but on finding the gap and meeting Siqi; "Looking up" is not because of one's incompetence, but because of self-dissection and introspection.

In short, to be a man must be aboveboard, kind-hearted, modest, aboveboard, upright, aboveboard, and aboveboard.