1. In the years when you need to struggle most, don’t choose comfort. For many things, you have hope only after doing them, rather than doing them when you see hope.

2. A glass of clear water will not become clear if it is constantly shaken; a glass of turbid water will naturally become clear if it is not shaken. So is the heart! Give yourself some time every day to settle and communicate, and your mind will be calm.

3. We all live in our own past. It takes us one minute to get to know someone, an hour to like someone, another day to fall in love with someone, but it takes a lifetime to love someone. Forget someone.

4. As time changes, so do people. Life is an out-of-print movie that cannot be played back. No matter how hard you try, you just can't go back to some things. The farthest distance in the world is not love or hate, but the familiar people gradually becoming strangers.

5. It is most unsuitable to get married if people are in the same profession, because each other is an expert, and neither can coax the other. The husband will not worship his wife incomprehensibly, and the wife will not worship her husband blindly. The foundation of the marriage will not be solid.

6. The deepest darkness quietly lurks in everyone’s desire.

7. A vow you can’t let go of is like a slap in the face. You get a slap every time you think of a sentence.

8. After a person has gone through all the hardships, he no longer expects to be with anyone; I have tried sincerely, but I don’t want to say the outcome.

9. Dear self, never embarrass yourself, such as not eating, crying, being autistic, and being depressed. These are things only fools do. Dear self, just learn to be smart and don’t always ask people around you idiotic questions, that’s really boring.

10. When they are comfortable, most people are willing to give. Only when you are exhausted physically and mentally, you can still understand the suffering of others, which is the kindness that is deep in your bones.

11. Not everyone is suitable for growing old. Some people use it to grow, and some people use it to live.

12. If you demand more of yourself, you will be more independent. If you demand less of others, you will be less disappointed. I would rather spend time cultivating my imperfect self than waste time expecting perfect others.

13. How I wish there was such a person, who knows both cold and hot, warms my heart and body. I said I was tired and almost couldn’t hold on anymore, and then he held my hand and took me home. , told me that it was okay, his shoulders could also carry my responsibility.

14. If you choose ease and comfort, you don’t have to envy others’ splendor; if you choose stormy seas, you don’t have to yearn for the quiet times. Different choices give you different life paths. As long as you identify what you really want in your heart and continue to work hard for it, everyone will be a winner in their own life!

15. Everything can be bad, but the mood cannot be bad; everything can be lacking, but self-confidence cannot be lacking; nothing can be wanted, but happiness cannot be wanted; everything can be forgotten, except happiness. Health alone cannot be forgotten.

16. Don’t believe in natural beauty, especially as you age, all the beauty in the world smells of money and sweat.

17. If you choose ease and comfort, you don’t have to envy others’ splendor; if you choose stormy seas, you don’t have to yearn for the quiet times. Different choices give you different life paths. As long as you identify what you really want in your heart and continue to work hard for it, everyone will be a winner in their own life!

18. Young love often has regrets. If you miss it, you will miss it. I just like you, I didn’t say we had to be together.

19. If you want to live your life without distractions, don’t care too much about how others define you. You can’t change the reality if you care. You can only mess up your own heart. Once your heart is messed up, everything will be messed up. People who are determined in their hearts will definitely understand: those who understand you do not need your explanation; those who do not understand you do not deserve your explanation. If your heart is clear, you don't need to flatter others. Being so strong means that no one can deny you except yourself.

20. I am not a saint, so how can I wish you a good life? I wish you could live a poor and lonely life, thinking about me every night.

21. The person who dares to tell you the secret is the person who believes in you. Don’t publicize it. The person who dares to show you his sincerity is the person who really loves you. Don’t go. Shang, the person who dares to lend you money is the person who trusts you, so don't cheat.

22. I have laughed, cried, been hurt, and been in pain. Now that I'm away from you, everything is just a memory.

23. If our story were a book, thank the author for writing us together.

24. The one who cries is not necessarily the most aggrieved, but the one who seems sharp, aggressive, silent, and does not defend is the most aggrieved, because she does not bother to defend and always wants to show her strong side. Leave it to others, and cry only to yourself.

25. The reason for the repeated estrangement of feelings may be that when I need you, you happen to not be there.

26. Emotions are burning feelings. Feelings are hidden beneath emotions. When you can accurately perceive the feeling that triggered your emotion, your emotion will disappear.

27. My life has always been entangled with me in life. I thought I was living life, but in fact it was life living me. Life roughly controlled me in its own way. Throw me into every day and night.

No matter how mediocre I am, I always find my love for you beautiful.

28. Sometimes you build a wall. In fact, you don’t want to keep everyone out, but you want to wait for someone, someone who cares enough to tear down the wall.

29. Sometimes I am silent, not because I am unhappy, but because I want to empty my heart. Sometimes you need to step back, clear your mind, and remind yourself who I am and where I'm going.

30. Time is neither long nor short. Although you never know the accident or who will come first tomorrow, everything is worth working hard and waiting for the flowers to bloom.