Jerry Lee proposed to Fan Bingbing successfully. The pink proposal scene instantly turned the domineering Ye Fan into the girl in Innocent Girl, which was very warm and romantic.

Many stars have sent their blessings and written articles from media people, even the hot spots of "Joker Xue's response" have been covered. No wonder some people say that Jerry Lee's proposal to Fan Bingbing was a blessing for Joker Xue in his last life. When I am ready to write something, I can't put pen to paper, so I just write about unmarried people.

There are many such groups around us. When it comes to children and everything in marriage, there will be a kind of fear, just like a cat's paw sticking out of a black hole. This hole is endless darkness and danger. After being caught, this life is over.

These people are extremely distrustful of human nature and the promises of others, and some are used to the marital quarrel, sadness and helplessness of their parents' generation; Some are struggling in love, disappointed and tired, and no longer have hope; Have a plenty of love can't come, you can also have a good time with yourself, it's already quiet inside.

So they don't want to get married.

02

Yao Yao University is an art school, and it is not inferior among many beautiful women. She likes sports, fitness, travel and photography, and people who admire her can form a long line.

At the age of 28, Yao Yao chose one of the suitors to get married, because she couldn't help being urged to get married by her family. However, she is sensitive and does not adapt. Moreover, engaging in art needs to have its own independent space, which is obviously incompatible with the daily necessities and noisy marriage life.

Later, Yao Yao chose a divorce. Although she doesn't have a car or a big house, her life can be planned according to her interests. She continues to exercise, stay healthy, travel and take photos. She went to the ancient town to sketch on weekends instead of eating at her in-laws' house, which made her feel very happy.

Scientific research shows that 30% of people in this world are not suitable for marriage, and the character of indulgence is engraved in these people's genes. Not every stream flows into the sea, not every flower blooms in spring, and not getting married is just a way of life.

Although Yao Yao doesn't know what will happen in the future, she is enjoying her single life now and is going to never get married again. I really can't move, so I found a piece of land with a few friends who are also single and helped each other to support the elderly.

Yao Yao said: "This society needs different views and free thoughts, otherwise it will become a closed sauce jar and everyone will rot together."

03

Sister Zhang is 35 years old and works as a copywriter for real estate companies.

When Zhang Jie was a child, she had a strong mother who took good care of her. She has also been playing the role of a good girl, studying hard, taking the 985 college entrance examination and taking the road planned by her parents.

Everyone else's rebellious period is a teenager, but Jason is in his twenties. After graduating from college, she stopped listening to her parents, only focused on her career and never brought her boyfriend home. Mother often takes care of her. You should work so hard at your age. You can't find a man

Jason just suddenly figured it out. She was never crazy when she was young. At her best age, she only studied foolishly and became bloated. The first love was at the age of 25, and the other party just regarded her as a pastime. Later, I came into contact with several men, all of whom were too scum.

After Jason put fitness on the agenda, he was completely transformed and looked several years younger than his actual age. Some boys ten years younger than her want to sleep with her, some aunts want to introduce their sons to her, and some widows and divorcees.

Jason, who used to be very confident, looked down on himself. Later, I experienced a lot of dog blood and my self-confidence burst-"Going to TM for marriage and going to TM for the winner of life is not what my mother wants."

Now Jason is in a relaxed state and will not get married for the sake of getting married. Everything is fate. When you meet something you like, go after it. You will get married if you are impulsive. Give birth when you have children. If you are single, you will flirt with children and won't refuse to sleep with a little boy who values your eyes.

No, Jason is going to live alone. She doesn't think it's a crime for women not to get married. Living a carefree life with a casual attitude is unyielding to fate.

04

Finally, tell a story from the village. Lao Deng is over 70 years old this year and hasn't married yet.

It seems that he is the only unmarried old man in the village and his peers are basically full of children and grandchildren. I thought that Lao Deng couldn't afford a daughter-in-law because he was worthless. I overheard his grandmother talking about his experiences when he was young, and I was very sad.

Lao Deng was very popular when he was young. When he rides a bike, many girls compete for the back seat. He and a girl, two of a kind, even gave each other a couple's nickname as their name.

They had intended to get married, but superstition said that Foucault, the girl, was opposed by the tribal elders. Later, the girl married far away. After getting married, she gave up her original name and kept giving it to her by Lao Deng.

Lao Deng also vowed that in the next hundred years after his death, his tombstone must be engraved with the name given to him by the girl.

This society always looks at single people with different eyes. It seems normal to get divorced many times than never to get married. Due to the pressure of family and society, many people have to be wronged and put into the cage of marriage.

People are born lonely, everyone is an independent individual, and there is no one behind you. You have to face and solve many things yourself. It is lucky to find a partner, but it is normal not to find one. It's not a battle in which two people charge together, but a game in which you can help yourself.

05

There is a passage in Jing Zhu's "She" that impressed me deeply:

The best time for a girl is when she doesn't love you. She looks impeccable in front of you, and her gestures exude charm. Sometimes Uber is like a snake and a scorpion, and sometimes it is as pure as an angel.

When she began to love you, she became less mysterious, dull, abusive, sensitive, fragile, jealous and crying. You think she's secular, and like all the plain-looking women in the street, her heart gradually begins to retreat. But this is the time when she loves you.

A lot of people do. After feeding the dog sincerely, they found that the most regrettable thing was that they didn't love themselves well. Therefore, they would rather die alone and be the coolest people in the world forever. They don't want to meet someone one day, show their shortcomings and weaknesses, and become trivial and mediocre.

On the earth with a population of 7.5 billion, it is very difficult to find your soul mate. Most people around me are tired of blind date, so they choose a pleasing marriage.

Getting married and having children is a lifetime thing. If it is not completed, it means that your life is incomplete and unhappy. The family's rhetoric is also surprisingly consistent. "Do the right thing at the right time", "Don't be too picky" and "What's the use of working well? Women will get married all their lives. "

We are all used to people around us getting married and divorced. The rest of my life is too short. If I can't connect with my soul and be with people who feel the same way, I might as well be happy alone.

06

Of course, there is also a problem-solving method in mathematics called "classified discussion", and love is different. When you meet the right person, don't encourage people around you to get married; If you are cheated in love, don't be hurt by being loved, and advise everyone around you to be single.

People who are not ready to get married for the time being should get used to ordering takeout, watching movies, traveling and going to the hospital alone. ...

The most important thing is to find something that makes you happy, study it, and don't make yourself a boring person. When your heart is full, you won't think about it, impetuous and anxious.

Don't rush to get something at your fingertips, savor your yearning and concern; Don't be too persistent about things that don't belong to you. There are so many regrets in life, and being free and easy is also a relief.

May you be of one mind and one mind, and never leave each other; If you don't have a loved one, you are not afraid of being lonely all your life.

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