If I don’t have children, is it reliable to go to a nursing home for retirement?

Some people may think this is not important, but the reality is actually cruel. Because the meaning of a child's existence is that when you are old, he cannot take care of you and entrusts you to a nursing home, but the nursing home must take good care of you. When a nursing home takes care of you, it is not responsible for you, but for your children.

Your children do not have to care for you personally, but they are the guardians while you go to a nursing home. This is a potential rights-protecting force. Safety is only possible with supervision.

Let’s talk about a real case. Li Chunping was awarded the title of Philanthropist by the Red Cross Society of China and is known as China's first century-old philanthropist. How is this rich man of more than 20 billion living in his later years? In 2016, 67-year-old Li Chunping suffered from Alzheimer's disease. The IVF son was only one year old, and more than 40 nannies, secretaries, drivers and bodyguards around Li Chunping were all staring at him. Someone gave Li Chunping sleeping pills, tricked him into signing while he was sick, pressed his fingerprints with his fingers, or even directly forged his signature, and a huge amount of property was divided up.

If Li Chunting could have an adult child by his side, his life in his later years would not be so miserable. He turned into a piece of Tang Monk meat and was at the mercy of others. Even the rich cannot support themselves in old age, let alone ordinary people? The nursing home is also a small society, with quarrels, conflicts and different treatments.

Just like orphans without parents, lonely elderly people without children to take care of them also have no dependencies. If you are teased and bullied in a nursing home, you just have to swallow it because no one can help you. Especially the elderly and disabled people, lying on the bed waiting for the nurse to give them water. What can a nurse do if she is too tired and dirty to do the job? Elderly people with children can eat better food and enjoy thoughtful care in nursing homes. If their lives are uncomfortable and something happens, their children can come and settle the accounts. Many people may say that raising children may not prevent aging. What if the children are not filial?

Of course, there is any possibility, that is, the children in your life may not be filial to you, but the children will never let others bully you. If you don’t trust your children to be obedient, how can you trust strangers to be kind to you? A person who is not related to him by blood will show the ugliest side of human nature when faced with tempting benefits.

The truth is, life is a parabola. An 80-year-old man is just as vulnerable as an 8-year-old child. Suppose an 8-year-old child has 1 million, and they will be tricked by a piece of candy. If an 80-year-old man saves 1 million in pension, they will also become the target of some people. Therefore, the existence of children is sometimes a natural force for rights protection and counterattack, and a confidence in later life.