Subtraction: Ignore the time cost and opportunity cost, and begin to learn to accept the pressure and encouragement brought by the surrounding environment, give up and choose, forget and remember.
If self-confidence comes from natural character, it is hard to see the growing Minions in the face of stumbling and groundless talk. Being accepted is also called hard work; Accepting it is also called settling for second best.
Addition: Add self-righteous "good advice, don't suffer for a while" along the way, and the whole person will have more secular habits and skills, feel sorry for themselves, and avoid challenges and novelty.
If curiosity comes from natural character, after more than ten years of life and study, then whether the added preservatives have already buried the yearning for the past. Preservatives, also known as other people's suggestions; Preservatives, also known as lifelong care.
So, according to the hard rules of addition and subtraction, we began to walk on the so-called broad road, like the roast duck assembly line in the factory. The knowledge we put in is cumin, pepper, aniseed and Chili oil, and the knowledge we put out becomes the next batch of life experience transmitters.
If a trademark is attached to a person, it is probably set by the person who is often said now.
People set labels and so on. Some are envious, really envious; Some of them are disgusting. It's really that everyone yells at you and the water army drowns you.
However, people are human after all, and imperfection is the final explanation. The perfect appearance on the factory assembly line is not incomplete, unique or the starting point.
Our starting point, by the way, is called the starting line in the eyes of parents who make their children stand out from generation to generation.
"You can't let your child lose at the starting line." It has become a horrible meat grinder, interest and initiative have become vulnerable groups, and pursuing dreams has become something that some people can't talk about.
I want to pick more labels for people.
The first is that you will never give up or compromise what you like. At this time, don't be swayed by the well-meaning "suggestions" of others. Who can really tell the good from the bad? If chasing dreams is easy, if there are no thorns, weeds and wild flowers on the way to the distant place, others will flock to it long ago, and going with the flow may become a compliment.
The second is that the expression of joy and anger should not be like a readable textbook. Suppressing your enthusiasm and truth will make you unhappy. Some people say that necessary compromise is necessary and unnecessary ego is unnecessary. However, there are regrets and distress, confusion and anxiety in that kind of compromise; There is innocence and emotion, simplicity and emotion in that self.
Just chatting, no need to surf the internet; When you have time to think more, personal dreams are really important.
As a result, people set the label and became no longer hidden, no longer hiding half of her face from us behind her guitar.
If you like it, you are willing to be an optimistic person. I am happy to face myself with tears and a runny nose when I fail, and I also enjoy the sadness and satisfaction of chasing dreams with my heart.
If you like, you are willing to be a lonely person. In the busy and lively circle of friends, I am silent. In the colorful world, I really love someone. In the report of singing and dancing, I found the truly compassionate person who needs help.
If you like it, you are willing to be a loser. I have my own explanation on the definition of failure. I don't accept the official and mainstream. At least I have sincerity, diligence, courage, calmness and dedication in my trip.
If you like, you are willing to be a successful person. No matter how powerful the water army is, even if comments and messages are determined to hurt the universe inside you and me, even if human feelings are cold and warm and the world is cold, you and I are glad of our stubbornness and strength, and we are sure that our efforts are worthwhile. The cause we really love is beautiful, so fearless and so kind.
Age and experience are always unequal, so I intend to learn tolerance and understanding, tolerate the neglect and hostility of others, and understand the sincerity and companionship of friends. A person will always be moved by something or something different from you, me, him or her.
Tomorrow's sunshine may be hotter and the wind may stay longer. It doesn't matter. Once you learn to appreciate your efforts and recognize your persistence, your troubles in life will be much less. When you are confused, you will take the initiative to wipe away the tears in your eyes and get ready to go.