When Dangui fell last year, we welcomed a new classmate, the lovely "caterpillar". Soon after school started, I found that the history of our class was very active. He doesn't listen to the teacher in class, is full of energy after class, runs around, and often damages other people's and teachers' things. He especially likes to dig small holes everywhere with his hands, so students often sue him.
In order to help him get rid of these bad habits, so that he can get lost, study hard and not regret in the future, the teacher set up a special group for him to remind him in time when he made mistakes.
Since then, the student's words and deeds have received enthusiastic attention from the players. First of all, the partners in the group gave him great tolerance and forbearance, which made him feel the care of the partners in the group. Team members often remind students of the civilization of language and behavior with a look, a smile and a gentle word. For example, when a student curses again, the partners in the group will pat him on the shoulder and say, "What's the matter, buddy?" Students will consciously adjust their words and deeds immediately after listening to their peers' reminders. Of course, sometimes because he is angry, he will quarrel with his team members and blame them for meddling. However, the team leader and team members don't care about him at all, and may quarrel with him because they stop some of his excessive words and deeds. But after that, they remained United and harmonious, regardless of their previous hostility.
This student once wrote in his composition: "If my team members see me swearing, they will come and stop me. And I don't know why, as long as they say it, I won't care about other students no matter how angry I am. Perhaps their words and deeds stopped me and made me feel that I had no reason not to accept it! I believe: under such supervision, I will definitely get rid of the bad habit of swearing! "
It is also very important that the team affirmed his little progress in the weekly evaluation, and put forward the goal for him next week practically. He gradually got along well with the team members and fell in love with the group. As a result, with the tolerance and encouragement of the players, the boy's words and deeds are gradually changing: swearing, knowing that he is blushing; The number of swearing words has decreased; Gradually become confident; Students like him more and more ... This student can actively participate in the activities organized by the school or class; Great changes have taken place from classroom discipline to learning attitude. All the subjects in this semester's exam passed, and the Chinese score reached 94, ranking first in the grade. And was rated as an excellent student in the school. What is particularly gratifying is that because he found confidence, gained respect and enjoyed happiness in his school and partners, he went to Internet cafes less and less, and even basically got rid of the bad habit of not coming home at night.
People are always making progress, even if it is a small step, because as long as you make progress, life will take a big step with you.