It's hard to decide what to do in a relationship that doesn't aim at marriage.
True love or not depends on whether it is for the purpose of marriage. This mainly depends on your position in his mind. Love deeply and care about you, then you will take marriage seriously. When we don't get along well, there is no need to force ourselves. It will only be very tiring to continue. Don't be too entangled.
As for irresponsible people, I can only say that love is sincere love, and people who play with feelings will eventually be played with feelings. I regret it when I lose it, and I want to cry without tears ~