Girls should stay out of their boyfriend’s affairs.

1. When he encounters pressure in life, encounters difficult problems, troubles and headaches, you should not engage in project substitution. What is project substitution is that you should not deal with his matters as your own. . Otherwise, things will only become more troublesome. Unless you can directly help him solve the fundamental problem, don't interfere. At this time, just give him some emotional value. Saying that I will always be by your side is more effective than racking your brains to help him think of ways.

2. Don’t worry about a boy’s friends, family, or brotherhood. It doesn’t matter whether you like or dislike the family and friends around him. He won’t cut off contact with them because you don’t like them. So be yourself and stop worrying about other people's friends. You are just his girlfriend and you haven't even decided to get married yet. Don't think too much and don't make trouble for yourself.

3. If he likes to smoke, drink, stay up late and play video games, that’s his business. Don’t worry about it, talk about it, and criticize him less. This is his mother’s business, not yours. Just act coquettish and show proper concern.

4. Don’t worry about whether he has a desire to share or not. He doesn’t like to talk about it, so don’t ask after him. The love that comes is not love after all.

5. Don’t worry about whether he can make progress or not, can you still have a future? He doesn’t even have the consciousness to work hard when he is with you. Young people only screen and do not train.

6. Don’t worry about what he was doing after the quarrel. Remember, he will never reflect when you are angry. He will only be annoyed about why you are always angry. If he can bear it, he will coax you to get by. If he can't bear it, he will slam the door and tell him not to come back again. , Throw things directly at the door.

7. Don’t worry about his career secrets, otherwise he will blame you for some unexpected disasters! For him, the success or failure of his career is very important, which means The quality of your future life.

8. Don’t worry about whether he said he loves you or whether he gave you a gift today. "Those who are willing do not need to be taught, but those who are not willing cannot be taught." If he really loves you, you can feel it when you are with him, so don’t deceive yourself sometimes!

9. Don’t worry about whether his parents like you or not. If you show kindness, Their attitude seems to have changed, but they will still be biased against you at critical moments. Prejudices in people's hearts are like a mountain, no matter how hard you try, you can't move it. A good mother-in-law can make you live as if you are at home, but a bad mother-in-law can make you miserable for the rest of your life.

10. Don’t worry about why he didn’t reply to your message for a long time, he was busy. There are so many reasons. They are all adults and they must have their own jobs. If you have time to stare at your phone, it’s better to be busy with your work and do your own things first.

11. Never ask "who would you save if your mother and I fell into the water?" This is a mentally retarded question! If you put yourself in someone else's shoes, who would you save if it were you? If you really love a boy, just Please don't embarrass him or hurt him. What's more, boys who love their parents won't treat you too badly.

12. Don't wrong yourself for him. You can't bear to buy a piece of clothing for half a year, but you always want to give it to him. He buys the best, and the more you pamper him, the more he will do nothing to you.