When you reach a certain age, you should learn to be taciturn, and every sentence should be useful and weighty. Emotions are invisible, big things don't matter, and they have their own bottom line.
There are so many people who care about each other in the world, and what you blindly pay is only those who are used to pushing their luck. If you think too much about other people's feelings, you are bound to feel bad.
As long as you can handle your emotions, you can succeed. Temper will drive away luck. Before you become what you want to be, do two things well: live. Hold on.
5. Haste makes waste, and you can't be too eager for success, otherwise it will only be counterproductive! Everything is a process of precipitation and accumulation!
6. There is often only one reason why you are confused, that is, you think too much and do too little at the age when you should work hard.
7. The heart itself is not big, so don't carry too much. The entanglement of yesterday will only imprison your today and tomorrow. Life, we must learn to release!
8. Don't rely on someone easily, it will become your habit. When parting comes, what you lose is not someone, but your spiritual pillar. No matter when and where, learning to walk independently will make you walk more calmly.
9. Don't be afraid of offending people. Anyone who has principles respects him for three points. Having a temper is also a true temperament. Swallowing back what you said is mature, but it is a responsibility to say what you should say.
10. Don't care too much about other people's opinions and make yourself timid. No matter how well you do it, someone will always tell you what to do.
1 1. The most eternal happiness in the world is ordinary, and the longest possession in life is cherish.
12. You don't know who will give you an umbrella until it rains. You don't know who is true to you until something happens. Some people will only add icing on the cake, not give charcoal in the snow; Some people will only add fuel to the fire and will not be honest with each other. Cherish the people you should cherish, do what you should do, and don't care too much about others. No matter how beautiful words are, it is futile to keep promises; No matter how strong the feelings are, it is futile not to cherish them.
13. If someone hurts you, you can forgive him, but don't trust him easily. Forgiveness is letting go of yourself, but blind trust will only give him a chance to hurt you again.
14. Don't give everything at every turn. Instead of being humble in the dust, leave some pride and love for yourself. Remember that this world is the most despicable but emotional and the coolest.
15. When people get along with each other, remember not to be greedy for cheap, not to give freely, and not to cater to others with wishful thinking. There is no need to be strong if the circle is different!
16. The biggest fear in getting along with others is not believing what you see, but believing what others say.
17. When an enemy becomes a friend, it is more reliable than a friend, and when a friend becomes an enemy, it is more dangerous than the enemy. It's good to know something, needless to say. As long as someone knows you, there is no need to be intimate.
18. Many injuries in life are one-off, because with your permission and obsession, it is like a saw constantly pulling on your heart, and the person who holds the saw tightly is actually yourself.
19. Life is alive. No one will be fair to you if you don't work hard. Only with hard work, resources and the right to speak can we win a fair opportunity for ourselves.
20. When you are away from home, no matter whether others give you a hot face or a cold face, don't take it too personally; The outside world respects the background, not the person himself. It doesn't matter between friends, whether it is hot or cold; True friendship comes from the heart, not from the surface. Don't care too much about the superficial feelings between people; People with close friends don't need it, and people with wide friends don't need it.