At that time, love was like passing clouds, and now these two people are screaming at the top of their lungs, which is really embarrassing.
Let's see, what is this new explosion?
After some media exposed He Jie's suspected marital infidelity, at this time point, a recording of He and He Jie was also exposed, followed by a long article by He Weibo, which expressed his views and demands in detail. Let's have a look.
I am the dividing line between two people recording.
In this recording, He Jie shouted at the top of his lungs, "Kill me if you can." From the initial negotiation to the later quarrel, the whole process was quite unpleasant.
Everyone tasted it carefully. What the two of them said in this recording.
The full text of the recording is as follows:
Assistant He Jie: Sit down first.
Zi Ming: I'm not here to talk to you. I'm here to see the children.
He Jie: Sit down.
Zi Ming: I don't want to sit.
Zi Ming: So you lied to me?
He Jie: I didn't lie to you. My mother was very anxious when she heard that you were coming. She's worried about me.
Zi Ming: Then why didn't she let me see the children?
He Jie: She said that in your present state, you are crazy and can't see the children.
Zi Ming: What's wrong with me? I am normal. You can go to the hospital for identification to see if there is any mental illness.
He Jie: Sit down first. Why did you come?
Ho: Because I'm here to see the children. I have work to do. I came as soon as I heard that I could look after the children.
He Jie: Why did you come?
Zi Ming: I'm here to see the children.
He Jie: When will you solve our problem?
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He Jie: Let's talk for a while.
Zi Ming: Then you lied to me.
He Jie: (sternly) I didn't lie to you.
Zi Ming: You asked me to look after the children. Aren't you lying to me?
He Jie: I didn't lie to you. My mother was anxious when she heard that you were coming, okay? I'm not lying to you, Zi Minghe.
Assistant He Jie: That was yesterday. Calling 1 10 scared menstruation, so I quickly let menstruation go. My aunt and Qibao were frightened.
He: I went to the kindergarten to see the children yesterday, and she asked her aunt to pick them up.
He Jie: Didn't I ask them to answer it?
Ho: I feel cheated.
He Jie: I didn't ask them to pick me up, okay? Make it clear to me. You don't know anything, blame me. Why do you blame me?
Zi Ming: He: You didn't ask them to pick you up. Why can't I see the children?
He Jie: Do you want to read my message? I told them not to pick up the children.
Zi Ming: Why don't you let me look after the children?
He Jie: You ask my mother.
Zi Ming told him: Why didn't she let me look after the children?
He Jie: Do you think she dares to show you what you have done?
Zi Ming: What did I do?
He Jie: You haven't been to see the children for half a year. Don't ask them. We're not talking about it now. Let's talk about us first. When will it be solved?
Zi Ming: I want to see the children.
He Jie: Sit down, sit down, sit down, and work something out, okay?
Zi Ming: I don't want to talk to you. I want to see the children now.
Assistant He Jie: Not yet, you two.
Zi Ming He: I came to see the children today. I don't want to talk to you.
He Jie: Why don't you want to talk to me? When can you solve this problem for me?
Assistant He Jie: Don't argue yet.
He Jie: When will the problem be solved?
Zi Ming: I will spend two days.
He Jie: What, in two days, how long do you want me to wait?
Assistant He Jie: Okay, okay, relax.
He Jie: How long are you going to put it off? When are you going to torture me?
Zi Ming: You want to divorce me. I don't want a divorce.
He Jie: With people like you, how can I live with you? You tell me how to live with you. You say, you say first, you say, you say our problem.
Zi Ming: I don't want to argue with you. I don't want to tell you.
He Jie: You go first. Why don't you want to divorce me? Do you want to say that you still love me?
Ho: Because I want my children.
He Jie: You want children. You want children for six months whether you want them or not.
Zi Ming: I got sick, and then you took the children to America.
He Jie: You are sick. What's the matter with you? Show me the evidence. Don't play with me here. What do you mean I took my children to America? I didn't tell you I was taking them to America.
Zi Ming: You didn't tell me. I asked, and then you told me, right? Why is there a chat record, ok?
He Jie: People like you are really impatient to the extreme. Ok, you turn it out for me.
Assistant He Jie: Calm down, ouch, stop, stop.
He Jie: Did I ask you to go to America to take care of the children?
H: I have no money to buy a plane ticket. I was hacked out of my job.
He Jie: I have no money to buy a plane ticket. Hehe, don't talk to me here. What do you mean I lost my job because I was hacked? I am wholeheartedly good for you. You have wronged me too much.
Zi Ming: You are very kind to me. I know. This is my fault. I came to see the children today. I don't want to talk to you.
He Jie: Don't tell me that. You're pretending to be good now, aren't you? What have you been doing for the past six months? Do you know how Qibao came from? Now you say you will come to see him. Who the fuck are you ?
Zi Ming: I'm his father. I can see him whenever I want.
He Jie: You are his father. Did you take care of him?
Zi Ming: Why didn't I take care of him? I delivered him as soon as he was born. Why didn't I take care of him? I always take care of him when you are away.
He Jie: What do you mean, I'm not at home, and you take care of me? Are you embarrassed? Why are you so shameless now?
Zi Ming told him: Didn't I put the child to bed?
He Jie: You put the children to bed. Have you ever put the children to bed?
Zi Ming: Do you dare to say that I haven't let the children sleep yet?
He Jie: You're not being coaxed, okay? Will you change Qibao's diaper? When will he get vaccinated? Do you know that?/You know what?
Zi Ming: Why don't I change his diaper? Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night and change it when you are not at home.
He Jie: You try another one. Let me see. You can say whatever you want. You, I tell you, are really impatient to the extreme.
Zi Minghe: You take care of the baby. You are really good at acting. I found you. You are really good at acting. I slept with the baby. You were not at home and changed diapers in the middle of the night, not me.
He Jie: Who can play better than you? You will win this movie. Who can play better than you? You can change diapers. How to write this word backwards?
H: Good performance. Is there a chance? Here you are. I'm leaving.
Assistant He Jie: Gnome male-"Gnome male-",stop stop.
He Jie: Kill me if you can.
Zi Ming: Why should I kill you?
He Jie: Don't you want to kill me? Be me in front of me. Don't be mean to me.
The incident reversed again, and a large number of netizens stood on He Jie's side, emm…… ... ...
Followed by a bunch of technical process analysis:
1. Why didn't Zi Minghe face "He Jie's cheating"? But keep asking if you want a divorce?
"He Jie's affair" is the fault of the woman in the marriage, but he didn't question He Jie about it, saying that he didn't want a divorce? It doesn't make sense logically.
In the recording, I repeatedly mentioned that I can't see the children. Zi Ming, does he want to fight for the custody of the child?
He Jie criticized for not taking good care of his children, which is also the root of He Jie's loss of control. The marriage between them is not only as simple as whether there is an affair, but also the division of responsibilities for taking care of children.
To say the least, what father won't change a diaper for his child?
Is it because the man can't afford a plane ticket that he can't see the children?
The recording content mainly focuses on "taking care of children", "looking after children" and "custody". He said he couldn't see the children because he couldn't afford a plane ticket, not because He Jie didn't want him to see them. You know, Weibo has always been a child, but she can't afford a plane ticket to see the children?
4. Who recorded the recording and who released it?
He Jie's voice was hoarse at the end of the recording. After this recording was exposed, He Weibo released his own statement, and his main appeal was to have custody of the children. People can't help but suspect that this recording and subsequent statements are a serial attack by Ziming Ho.
Let's look at He's statement again.
Zi Ming He's statement is as follows:
1, I'm divorced.
On 20 16 10 3 1, He Jie suddenly asked me for a divorce.
Before that, I always thought my marriage was happy, with a wife, children and movies.
I always think that He Jie is the loveliest woman in the world, and we are the happiest family.
Before September 20 17, I actually never understood why she suddenly filed for divorce, and her attitude was firm. No matter how hard I begged, it could not be redeemed. It was not until September this year that I received a private letter from Weibo saying that his sister's marriage broke up because of He Jie's intervention that I understood why she insisted on divorce.
2. I am not love rat.
Just after He Jie filed for divorce, the news suddenly broke. I go whoring, I play games, I ignore my children.
When I asked He Jie about the inside story and all kinds of smearing posts, she said that she didn't send the news, but admitted that she had spread such views with friends.
It is obviously a fabrication to say that I am unfaithful to my marriage. In the court on February 8, 20 17, He Jie personally admitted that "Zi Ming didn't cheat".
As for playing games often, that was five years ago, because I had no other hobbies except fitness and games before I got married. I will still play Qibao, according to He Jie's agreement and timetable, but I have never been addicted to games.
After that, he took me out to spend money every once in a while. The theme was love rat, without children.
I miss Qibao and Bao Mei.
From the first day when she filed for divorce, He Jie would tell me, Don't worry, I will definitely let you see the child, and you will always be the father of the child.
However, from 20 16 to 10, to this day, 14 months, she has let me see her children for1* * 6 times, and she has refused to let me see her children for the last five months.
She changed the password of the house lock and threw my things out of the house.
Before Qibao's birthday this year, I bought a gift to see the children, and she stopped me with her mother and brother. Later, I secretly went to the kindergarten to see the seven treasures. The teacher said that you must get the consent of your mother and grandmother, otherwise you can't see the children. I can only watch from a distance through the window.
It broke my heart to see Qibao say he wants his father on the show.
We reached a divorce agreement.
From the beginning, property was not the reason for our divorce. Before we gave birth to Bao Mei, we bought a villa in America. She asked me to sign an agreement to give up the right to this villa, saying that she would feel safe. I signed it without thinking. Regarding the division of property, He Jie offered me 2.5 million yuan, and all the marital property and domestic villas belonged to her ... I also agreed.
There is only one reason why our final agreement was terminated. I want to clarify the rumors of malicious slander and slander in the divorce statement. She didn't agree.
Later, she went to court to sue for divorce. After that, we all gave the divorce to the lawyer. Today, my appeal is still to return to my original heart. I love my children, and I want to fight for the rights of a father.
5, my current appeal.
I asked to be allowed to visit the children before the verdict. This is my right.
I will continue to fight for the custody of the children.
I don't want children to keep appearing on the show. I don't want children to be photographed in the street for a long time. This year, it was completely put on the public platform of various public places, and there was no privacy at all.
I hope my children live in a loving family, without verbal violence and mental violence. I will try my best to take care of my children and train them for life.
6. My reflection.
Men, in addition to love and kindness, also need to have a career and achievements.
In order to support the family, give the family a stable life foundation and give the children a good growth environment. As for the custody of children, we couldn't reach an agreement at first. I also love Qibao and Bao Mei. Children are still too young, and mothers are needed more at this stage. This is also the decisive factor that I finally compromised and was willing to give up custody when I agreed to divorce before.
Now, I've decided to take back the custody of the child. I have the confidence to work hard, behave well and create a good growth environment for my children.
7. About He Jie and Diao Lei
I know He Jie is a lover, and she can't live a plain life. It's really something I can't give you
In the future, I will still bless you. After all, we all paid a huge price.
You don't have to deny the relationship between you, and you don't have to try to create a public opinion atmosphere in which I demand more property. Over the years, you have given me a lot, family, children and a stable life. Therefore, I also publicly promised today: I will not put forward any additional requirements for property distribution in court with your marital infidelity.
Finally, I'm really sorry that my marriage dispute has troubled everyone. During this year, due to family changes, I failed to accompany my seven baby sisters to grow up, failed to fulfill my responsibilities as a father, and lost a lot of jobs because of unfounded rumors, failing to live up to my friends who trusted and supported me. The double blow of family and career really crushed me. Even when I was depressed, I made a stupid phone call to the emotional hotline ... In the past year, I not only had nothing, but also became a useless "love rat".
I don't have the money to hire a public relations team or buy a hot search. Thank you for giving me a chance to get justice in the new media era ... this should not have happened. I once wanted to let everything rot in my stomach. Unfortunately, the reality is not satisfactory, and we can only pay for our mistakes together.
I also want to apologize to Ms. Duan, because you are not from the entertainment circle, so you were involved in this dispute and disturbed your normal life.
We all owe our children justice. I hope that in the years to come, this justice can be made up and returned.
Sure enough, netizens chased it, and there was a statement behind the recording. There are many loopholes in this. In fact, this kind of counterattack is not good for how to fight for child custody. ...
Many people say that Ziming is good at acting. ...
Let's look at it one by one. He said he didn't cheat, and then the old video of him holding a hot girl was turned out. Zi Ming put his hand on his sister's shoulder. Emm, it's really hard to say what the relationship is!
This is obviously a fabricated statement that I am unfaithful to my marriage. In the court on February 8, 20 17, He Jie personally admitted that "Zi Ming didn't cheat". There is a discrepancy.
Then, Zi Ming mentioned that he wanted to fight for the custody of the children, but could Zi Ming really take care of the children? He Jie also took photos with children before, um, playing games with children in her arms.
I also want to find someone from a treasure to give him a title directly, which is different from what He said, "After I have the Seven Treasures, I will still play, according to the agreement and time of He Jie, but I have never been addicted to games."
And He Jie is going to Taobao to find someone to get the title, which should not meet the time agreed with He Jie, right? Even if neither of them is cheating, the problems of parenting and playing games are between them.