1, familiar with hot topics: If the other person likes gossip, talk about the incident of Wu Xiaoxin's meat about P; If the other party cares about current politics, you can't help but understand that Britain has left the European Union. Of course, there are also a few fans, so we can talk about the European Cup. There are many things happening in this world, and some information will attract many people's attention in a short time. If you can't wait to discuss these things with others,
2, blurt out: people who are too introverted and shy have similar behavior patterns, and like to think before speaking. They want to make sure that what they say is correct, intelligent and interesting, so they deliberately over-analyze in their minds and find that what they want to say is always problematic. If you have this tendency, then remember to remind yourself in some way that chatting up is not an exercise. And next time, you can force yourself to speak your mind first, and things won't get bad because of one sentence.
3. Change the subject: That's it. You talked to her about some embarrassing topics for both of them. Don't be afraid. Let's change the subject and continue to talk. When you have nothing to say, no one will always remember what you said wrong. As long as the atmosphere is harmonious, embarrassment is just the rest of the jokes recalled later.
4, intimate: women are the most vulnerable when they are lovelorn, and they are also the most easily moved. A while ago, Xiao Li, a graduate student, saw the signature of a lovelorn WeChat friend and greeted him affectionately. As a result, she really talked for a long time. After a period of communication, Xiao Li not only let people out of the shadow of lovelorn, but also let themselves gain a belated love.