Introduction: You can't change what others think or do. The only thing you can do is to do your own thing with all your heart, follow your own path, live a good life according to your own principles. Don't perform, don't hurt, never expect, it's not yours, don't force it, it's destined, it will happen, don't live to please anyone, don't wrong yourself. As long as you have the ability to do what you want to do, don't wait.

1. Look at yourself in the correct way, and everything will change. If you always look at yourself, pity yourself, and admire yourself, the result will be that you can't get into other people's hearts, and others can't get into yours. As long as you look at yourself in the right way, life will become easier and happier, your career will become smooth sailing, and everything will change.

2. Habits are formed by ourselves, and we have the ability to change them. Often when we do something it becomes a habit, and once a habit is formed, it controls us. But each of us also has a considerable buffering capacity. Since we have the ability to form habits, we also have the ability to eliminate habits that we think are bad.

3. If you want to become rich, the best way is to learn from the rich. Wisdom lies in learning, observing and thinking. The first way to become a rich man is to learn from the rich, because from the rich's words and deeds, you can learn the wisdom and experience of the rich in getting rich.

4. Never give up life easily at any time. Whether in the world of animals or humans, it is natural for the weak to prey on the strong. In order to survive, (this life philosophy insight comes from You Quotations Network) the strong must prey on the weak, and the weak must avoid the strong. Survival is a matter of course. kind of instinct. No matter at any time, you should never give up life. This is respect for life.

5. If you want to get fruits, you must first sow. No matter how hard you work, you will gain something. Only by making down-to-earth efforts can we change our destiny and live a happy life.

6. It is better to seek help from others than from yourself. Only by yourself can you save yourself. It is certainly easier to seek help from others to solve problems, but this is not a long-term solution, because others may help you for a while, but they cannot help you forever. Besides, asking for help is not an easy task. Therefore, when you encounter difficulties, don't ask for help easily. You must know that it is better to ask for help than to ask for help yourself. Only by yourself can you save yourself.

7. Only by truly knowing yourself can you save yourself. In many cases, many people do not know what kind of person they are. This is not only a common misunderstanding among people. And it is often a weakness of human nature that is difficult for humans to transcend. It is actually very simple to solve this problem. Look in the mirror and you may be able to regain your confidence and your true self.

8. In a person’s life, freedom is the most precious. Once a person loses his freedom, he is undoubtedly the same as a slave in life. But in order to be free, we must liberate ourselves and guard against some dangers. In other words, in order to be free, we must be willing to pay a certain price.

9. In the big market of life, you must cherish and explore your own value. Since a person can exist in this world, it means that he has the value of existence. Life is like a big market. How much you think you are worth will be what others think you are worth, and then how much your value will be.

10. Keep your true colors, because your true colors are the most beautiful. There is no absolute beauty or ugliness in this world. Beauty and ugliness are usually mutually transferable, but one thing is certain, that is, the most beautiful things often come from true colors and nature. So, don't care about other people's critical opinions, stay true to yourself, you are the most beautiful.

11. Only when you live in hope can you see the light... Many people complain about the lack or absence of light in life. This is because of the lack or absence of hope. No matter how difficult the situation is, as long as we live in hope, we will see the light, and this light will accompany us throughout our lives.

12. Having a skill is the best way to survive. There are many ways to create wealth in life, but not every way is suitable for you, and not every way can allow you to create a lot of wealth. But what is certain is that having a skill is the best way to survive. With your own skills, you will definitely be able to achieve yourself.

13. If you only care about your own interests, you will lose your interests. There are many rules in life. We must learn to abide by them and act according to the rules. This is not just an interest that must be subordinated to collective interests. Don't just care about your own interests and deal with problems based on your own interests. In this way, you will lose your interests.

14. It doesn’t matter if you are not smart, as long as you make a little progress every day. Diligence can make up for one's weakness, which is a good lesson. Hard work brings talent. Yes, it doesn't matter if you are not smart, as long as you work hard you can make up for your stupidity.

15. Don’t rely on heaven or earth, do your own thing. In the face of difficulties, many people will lose their self-confidence, self-esteem, and be defeated. These people become slaves of suffering; there are also some people who still maintain their dignity and do not bow to suffering. These people regard suffering as slaves. Relatively speaking, the latter is admirable because it reflects the brilliance and greatness of human nature.

16. To run fast, you must also run steadily.

Life is like a long-distance race. If you run too fast, you will easily run out of stamina; if you run too slow, you will fall behind; if you quit midway, you will lose your previous efforts; if you don't participate, you will have no chance of winning the race.

17. If you want to be better than others, you have to work very hard...Only those who work very hard and persist to the end can be better than others and achieve results before others. Be successful.

18. If you want to change your destiny, the most important thing is to change yourself... In the same situation, different people will have different destinies. A person's destiny is not determined by God, nor by others, but by himself. If a person wants to change his destiny, the most important thing is to change himself, change his mentality, and change the environment, so that his destiny will also change accordingly.

19. To change your destiny, you must first change your heart... It is certainly a good thing to want to change your destiny, but you should not just pursue superficial changes. You must first change your heart. Only by changing your own heart can you truly change your destiny. Otherwise, your destiny will only get worse the more you change it.

20. What kind of opinions you have will often lead to what kind of destiny you will have... In everyone's life, there are many opportunities to change their destiny, for the better. , or change for the worse, completely depends on a person's understanding of the situation at that time.

21. The ending of many things is often decided in a single thought... Life is sometimes not very strange. The ending of many things has been decided at the beginning. It is entirely a thought at that time. caused by the understanding between them. Therefore, when encountering a major event that determines your destiny, don't make a hasty decision, you should think more about it.

22. Only look at what you have, not what you don’t have... If you want to succeed, you must accept and affirm yourself. In this world, everyone has different flaws, unless you are the most unfortunate. There is no need to complain about your bad luck, don't look at what you don't have, look more at what you have, and you will appreciate and affirm yourself.

23. If you persevere in the face of suffering, you will definitely win success and happiness... People will inevitably suffer a lot of suffering in their lives, whether they are born with disabilities or suffer misfortunes in life. But as long as you have the courage to face hardships and strive for self-improvement, you will definitely win applause, success, and happiness.

24. We must give full play to our strengths at all times... Each of us has a side that we are good at. When things are going well, we are developing and cultivating our strengths. When things are going well, we are developing our strengths. When times of difficulty arise, we must use our strengths to get out of trouble.

25. Write down what you have not completed today but must do tomorrow... Planning is one of the most effective ways to improve work efficiency. Write down the things that you have not completed today but must do tomorrow. Using this method, you can complete the work in an orderly manner and as planned and improve efficiency.

26. Don’t wait until death comes before you remember what you should do... We seem to be busy every day. What are we busy with? Maybe we can’t even tell ourselves. There are always some things piled up in our minds, waiting for us to do them. These things are important to us, but we don’t do them just because we are busy. If you value life and life, there are things you should do now.

27. Only by cutting off your own retreat can you better win a way out... In many cases, we need the courage to cut off our own retreat. Because there is a retreat behind us, we will feel lucky and comfortable, and our pace of progress will slow down; if there is no retreat behind us, we will concentrate all our energy and move forward bravely to win a way out for ourselves.

28. If you deliberately imitate others, you will only lose yourself... No matter when, we do not need to imitate others to change yourself. If you imitate others, you will only lose yourself. Therefore, we Love yourself well and be your true self.

29. No matter what work you do, you must have a professionalism... Today's era is an era that pays attention to professionalism. Dedication is a habit. Although it may not bring you considerable benefits at the beginning, it is certain that those who lack professionalism cannot achieve real achievements.

30. Only when a person is needed by others can his survival become meaningful... Being needed by others is a human nature and can also reflect a person's value. In some specific situations, if a person is not needed by others, his or her survival will be meaningless. Therefore, you might as well tell your relatives and friends: We need you.

31. There is no need to care about other people’s comments, as long as you do your own things well; there is no need to look at other people’s eyes, just go your own way; there is no need to complain too much, as that will make your own My heart is even more tired. No matter where we go, we must not lose ourselves. No one can crush you no matter what, inner strength is the real strength.

32. When you are not strong enough, you can only choose which way to go, and you devote all your enthusiasm and mind to move forward. It will be dark and people will be lonely. When you stop to doubt yourself, you will cry alone. When you laugh in the crowd, the world will laugh with you. This is society and reality.

33. How to move forward in life requires wisdom and courage, resignation and simplicity. Fate will never stop sculpting everyone. This is the connotation of life itself. Resignation is not simply to give troubles. Give way, but the wisdom of consciousness that turns hostility into friendship.

34. In fact, sometimes the inexplicable loss is not because of other people’s faults, but also because you always think of yourself too important and fail to position yourself properly. You think that others will take care of you when you are sick. , you think that others will comfort you when you are drunk, you think that others will contact you if you don’t contact others, all of this is just what you think.

35. If you have a heart, you will never get tired no matter how long you wait, but you will get tired if you are ignored again and again. Sincerity in life is hard to find, so why let yourself live with regrets? Cherish your love that you don’t care about. Waiting foolishly will also hurt you. Those who care about you will treat you as the only one. There are many people who are willing to accompany you and will stay with you until the end. Very few.

Thirty-six. You can’t be shameless, but don’t be too shameless. How many geniuses with a glass heart have died on the road after being criticized for a few words. True inner strength means living in your own world, rather than living in the eyes and mouths of others. Life is nothing more than making others laugh, and then letting others laugh at you.

37. We are always blinded by the verbal descriptions of most people, forgetting that we still have senses to explore the unknown, so in the end we can only see the scenery that everyone can see. , but it is difficult to walk into the unique picture and find the unique scenery.

Thirty-eight, when the evening bell rang, the thickly accumulated snowflakes also fell one after another. Rendering a silent world. The snowflakes are also falling with a feeling, which is deposited in a certain depth of the soul, sitting at the end of the season, counting the years that have passed. A cup of tea is happiness; a sip of wine is sweetness; a flower is beautiful when it blooms; a breeze is cool when the wind blows; and a step in autumn is harvest.

40. All persistence in the world is because of love. Thank you for your imperfections. It allows you to see clearly who is really good to you. If you don't know how to choose in life, you will often lose more. In the journey of life, there are always people coming and going. When the new name becomes the old name, when the old name gradually becomes blurred, it is the end of one story and the beginning of another.

Postscript: The meaning of possession is to make oneself richer. If a relationship, a job, a house or a value makes you more narrow-minded and embarrassed, then even though these things themselves may not be bad things, they are not good things for you. Usually, people who know how to let go are wiser than people who are good at possessing. All the long-term experiences in this world are due to hard work

Introduction: When people reach a certain age, they will always miss their past selves. The road we have traveled, the people we have met, the feelings we have lost, and the pain in our hearts. However, those ravines that seemed like they would never be able to be crossed at the beginning have now been overcome as if they were walking on flat ground. It's so gentle and smooth that one even forgets the turmoil in one's heart when going through those difficulties. Time will surely heal everything, so we are no longer afraid of saying goodbye.

1. There is a kind of growth, which is to face something that you couldn’t get even if you cried for it. Later, when someone wants to give it to you, you find that you have scorned it.

2. What a speaker said at TED: If you have good ideas that you want to realize, you should hide them deep in your heart and do not tell anyone. If you tell others, you will get external rewards. The world praises you, but at the same time you lose the motivation to do it. The encouragement and praise from others seem to make you complete your idea. In fact, nothing happens. You are filled with inner satisfaction and then there is nothing more.

3. I have never had any sense of superiority in my life. Just not feeling inferior is already trying my best.

4. There is no person with a particularly good temper in the world. Those who have a bad temper are just angry at you directly, while those who you think have a good temper actually can't bear to get angry at you.

5. Time will bring surprises, if you believe it. If what we miss is the person who once loved us, regret will come very deep and heavy.

6. I don’t like others approaching me with purpose. Even though I have no use value, I am not afraid that you will use me to do something, but I am afraid that I will treat you with my heart, but in the end I will find that you have no intention at all. .

7. Companionship means that I am always there whether you need it or not.

8. Time flies by, as if you said not long ago that you wanted to walk with me all over the world, but today we stopped hearing from you. In those days when I didn’t hold hands, I just sneezed in my long life. You never left, and I firmly believe that I will recover.

9. Ambiguity is not terrible, but the Achilles’ heel of ambiguity is that the person you like is unclear and distant, which is not sweetness, but torture.

10. Maybe one day you will be silent too. The world, this vast wilderness, so many wanderings and scattered places, finally turned into chaos in your memory. I will remember the peach blossoms that never fade in the south of the Yangtze River, I will remember the wind and sand that never ceases in the Central Plains, I will remember my white horse that never grew horns in Jiuli City, I will remember the grasslands of Yanqiu, and the sunset at the wind praying platform.

But one day, will you remember me?

11. May you only love me from the moment you meet me.

12. If you don’t want to bear the pain of loss, then the best way is not to start. If it doesn't start, it won't end. Everything will be the way it was at the beginning.

13. Sometimes one mistake can easily make others forget all your good deeds.

14. I think the reason why meeting is worse than missing is because meeting can only make people mourn the pain helplessly in the face of reality, while missing can turn a destined lie into a fairy tale.

15. There is only one word between love and love, but one past.

16. We are all children from ordinary families. How to deal with others, how to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, these abilities are what we must master. If I keep refusing to face it, one day I will become someone who is incompatible with others, pretending to be stupid every day, and lying to myself.

17. Zhao Xinmei said in "Fortress Besieged": "The order of honeymoon travel after marriage is reversed. You should first travel together for a month, and after a month of driving and boating, the two parties have not seen through each other. Disgusted, they have not quarreled, and they still want to maintain the original engagement. This kind of couple guarantees that they will not get divorced."

18. I saw a netizen saying: Sometimes, writing on Weibo is for no other reason. , just so that one day I can look back and see how I felt at that time.

19. There are many times in a person's life when they feel great, and they also experience many times when they feel terrible, but in fact these are nothing. Don't take it too seriously. Years from now, when you look back on the past, I guarantee you won’t be able to remember the great and terrible moments. The only thing that is real and makes you proud is the life you walked through with your chest held high and your head held high.

20. Marriage is not the end, but the beginning of another complicated life. You have to start getting along day and night, and do a lot of things that are far from enjoyable, such as buying a house and renovating it, integrating into the other person's family, dealing with complicated relationships, etc. If you didn't have a lot of love for this man, you wouldn't be able to persist. Go down.

21. Don’t live in such a way that you even look down on yourself.

22. The so-called maturity means that the older you grow, the more you can learn to adapt to everything by yourself.

23. Life may not be as good as you imagine, but it will not be as bad as you imagine. Human beings are both more fragile and stronger than they imagine. Sometimes, you may be so fragile that you burst into tears with just one sentence; sometimes, you may find that you have walked a long way by gritting your teeth.

24. Meeting is a matter of two people, but leaving is a decision of one person. Meeting is just the beginning, but leaving is to meet the next departure; this is a world where leaving is popular, but we are not good at saying goodbye.

25. Life is nothing more than making people laugh and being laughed at. ——This is open-mindedness.

26. Only people who cannot live out their own life will spend a lot of time caring about the privacy of others more than caring about their own lives. What a miserable life form that is. You never truly live your life, live for your parents, live for your lover, and when you are older, live for your job and your children. Among all the "moral" excuses, you only lose the truth. The honesty and courage to live for yourself.

27. One of the scariest things about growing up is that you may become the kind of person you once looked down upon the most.

28. Sometimes, waiting is not terrible at all. God makes you wait so that you can make more correct choices and meet more suitable people. As long as you are waiting, turn yourself into a person worth waiting for, so that you can be seen and met by people who are also waiting; as long as you are waiting, stay patient, enrich yourself, and become better than yesterday , become worthy of the person you want to meet.

29. You will easily accept the love of others, not because you have so much love in your heart and desire love so much. Sometimes, it is because you are always ignored and never get the care of others. You are so lacking in love elsewhere.

30. Everyone has his own life, and he knows his own life.

31. You can see many people clearly, but you can’t expose them at will; you hate many people, but you can’t turn your back on them easily. Sometimes, life means forcing yourself to be submissive and unfazed by favors and disgrace.

32. There is such a person living in everyone’s heart, whom they love from afar.

33. Don’t blame others for why they always hurt you, ask yourself why you allow this to happen.

34. Once someone has been deceived, it is difficult to trust him again. It doesn’t matter whether he has corrected himself or not, but no matter what he says or does in the future, his first feeling will be doubt.

35. People’s energy is limited, and they may only be able to give their thoughts to so many people. It's easy to meet and get to know each other, but it's difficult to maintain them. They might not meet each other very late at first, but later they may only have occasional contact. All the long-term success in this world is due to hard work.

36. The thing you are most willing to do is your true talent.

Editor’s note: If you can’t afford fresh fruit today, just save up and buy it in a few days. The rotten fruit you bought cheaply will taste like a burden and garbage and will never serve you. Whatever pleasure it brings, just endure it if you can't get it now, just wait, and try hard to get it. Life is only a few decades, so don't make do with love and eating if you can. Your heart and stomach are small, so don't owe them anything. All forgiveness is due to reluctance

Sometimes,

you are often willing to forgive a person's mistakes,

not because you are generous,

But because of reluctance.

Sometimes,

you often accommodate a person's willful character,

not because you have no temper,

but because you Cherish it very much.

Because of love, we tolerate;

Because of love, we tolerate;

Because of love, we tolerate.

Sometimes, when we are willing to forgive a person,

it is not that we are really willing to forgive him,

but that we do not want to lose him.

I don’t want to lose him, so I can only pretend to forgive him.

How much tolerance is not about bowing your head and admitting defeat, but not letting go;

How much tolerance is not about being humble and cheap, but not letting go.

People who love deeply will never insist on pride;

A tolerant heart will never cling to individuality.

Reluctant to hurt others, always forgive with a smile;

Reluctant to feel sorry for yourself, always support with tears.

Behind every long-lasting love,

there will be a particularly tolerant person.

In fact,

People who are kind to you don’t care about repayment.

They only care about whether you know it or not;

The heart that loves you , I don’t expect you to be grateful,

I just hope you can cherish it. 2019 Inspirational signature to myself on the road of struggle All persistence is because of love

1. Cherish what you get, and slowly forget what you miss.

2. Study hard and go to bed early.

3. Only by becoming excellent can my soul be full.

4. Don’t pass on negative emotions to others.

5. All persistence is because of love.

6. Never lose the courage to start over.

7. Use time to exchange talent. The harder you work, the luckier you will be.

8. Only those who work hard will be outstanding.

9. What survives is the good scenery.

10. People are like water, they only get dirtier and dirtier.

11. All forgiveness is because you don’t want to lose.

12. As a human being, you must be kind.

13. It is not difficult to give up, but it must be cool to persist.

14. All luck is hidden in kindness.

15. Much joy and everlasting peace.

16. The past is fleeting, and broken mirrors will never be reunited.

17. People should enjoy themselves while they are alive.

18. A person’s cultivation depends on his kindness when he is frustrated.

19. You want to be a lovely girl, not bothered by worldly things, and full of joy.

20. Do what you think is right and then stick to it.

21. A person’s mind is enlarged by grievances.

22. There are all infatuated men online, but all people are heartless offline.

23. Stop envying others and work hard yourself.

24. Poverty is more terrifying than lovelorn.

25. It is too childish to be afraid of ghosts. I will take you to see the human heart.

26. You will always meet all kinds of people in life.

27. Maybe you will die someday, so be happy.

28. How can we not be as satisfied as everyone wants, but we must be clear in our hearts.

29. Life is short. Before going to bed every night, forgive everyone and everything.

30. If you complain about being in the dark, it is better to carry a lamp and move forward.

31. The highest state of love is to withstand the ordinary passing years.

32. Don’t talk too much and don’t eat too much. You will regret less in the future.

33. Don’t spare any effort in the things you love.

34. What keeps your life moving forward is your dream.

35. I found that it is really important for people to get along with each other and understand each other.

36. If your thoughts are too much, it will make others difficult.

37. Don’t bring negative emotions to others.

38. Only in the deepest despair can you encounter the most beautiful scenery.

39. All people’s pain is anger towards their own incompetence.

40. Do more interesting things and pay less attention to indifferent people.

41. Life is a constant storm of shit.

42. The dark side of everyone is the devil.

43. Be grateful, be kind to life and be kind to yourself.

44. I want to make a lot of money to buy my happiness.

45. Indulge in worldliness, live happily, and return home innocent.

46. A low-quality relationship is not as good as a high-quality single.

47. Only when you have seen maturity can you understand the value of innocence.

48. The more you know, the more you become an orphan in the world.

49. Gathering and dispersing are impermanent, but you will be fine again.

50. Money and face are really important.