In order to strengthen the cooperation between kindergarten and parents, realize the synchronization of kindergarten and family education, and promote the comprehensive and healthy growth of children, according to the actual situation of kindergarten, the following agreement is signed with parents of children:

First, articles about children.

Children are not allowed to carry valuables and jewelry, as well as all kinds of toys that are easy to cause injuries, and parents are responsible for the consequences.

Secondly, regarding the safety of young children,

1, the work of kindergarten is related to the safety of children. Parents should arrange for one or more major family members to pick up their children from kindergarten. If they need to pick up their children or attend classes halfway, they must explain the reasons to the teacher.

Whoever picks up the children without authorization or entrusts others to pick up the children shall be responsible for not picking up the children on time.

For the sake of children's personal safety, minors are not allowed to pick up and drop off young children, and all consequences are at your own risk.

Third, about children's safety accidents.

1. If parents want to pick up their children at the specified time, they must send them to the kindergarten classroom door and give them to the teacher. Children with congenital diseases or physical disabilities must explain their physical and mental conditions to the teacher and must not hide them. If they do this, they will do so at their own risk.

For the sake of safety, parents should not dress their children with clothes that may harm the body and skin.

3. Parents should tolerate each other once there is a quarrel or small contradiction between kindergarten children. If the matter is serious, you must directly react with the teacher or kindergarten leader, and you must not solve it without authorization. Parents should take full responsibility for this.

Children who come to kindergarten are not allowed to bring snacks.

Children who bring their own food must check whether there are products. Parents should take full responsibility for the consequences of expired or deteriorated food and drinks.

Four, about the safety of preschool teachers.

1. Kindergarten nurses are responsible for the safety education, supervision, morning and afternoon inspection and teaching protection of young children at school.

2. Kindergarten nurses are serious and responsible for the effective implementation of child transport.

A safe and harmonious kindergarten teaching environment depends on the cooperation between parents and kindergartens. We hope that parents will actively cooperate. If you agree to the above safety agreement, please ask the child's main guardian to sign it.

(This target responsibility letter shall be implemented as of the date of signing)

Student's name and parents' signature (seal)

Telephone:

Signature of preschool teacher

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Parents and children reach an agreement 2

Today's children have a higher IQ and will also observe their words and deeds. If parents indulge their children blindly, then the children will be poorer. Therefore, parents should learn to make decisive decisions on some unreasonable demands of their children!

? Forget it, forget it, but it's only today. It won't happen again, will it? .

? Come on, stop crying. Why didn't mom buy it for you? .

? Ok, ok, dad will take you to play this time. Don't cheat like this again, ok? .

Are you like this? Good parents. Good parents? It's really easy to do.

Children are happy when they are worried about themselves.

Say something? Forget it. Forget it? It won't happen again? , very simple.

You don't have to spend a lot of time reasoning with your child, and you don't have to go to great lengths to make him stop crying.

? Give him what he wants for the time being, and there is no way next time.

? Many parents always think so, but it often backfires.

When should I say no to my children? Soft-hearted, kid. That's it? Compromise? Indulge yourself, even worse.

If you make an exception for him once, he will be greedy for the second time.

And parents are the most ruthless in front of their children.

Wait until the second time, maybe it's another sentence? It won't happen again? That's it. I also forgot that the child made unreasonable demands twice.

There is no end to human desire.

Let the children taste the sweetness once, learn to be good, and then there is no time to stop.

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What you can't promise in principle is that you can't promise.

For example, if a child wants to get up to play in the middle of the night and want to eat something that he doesn't have at home, you must let him know that no matter how noisy he is, this unreasonable request just can't be agreed.

Children? Hit a wall? Once, it's no use knowing to cheat. He won't do it again next time.

For asking too much, isn't it? It won't happen again? That's good.

At first, when children learn to make demands on their mothers, they always tentatively insist on their own demands. As long as the mother's refusal is not firm enough to make the child afraid or desperate, the child will continue to insist and even threaten the mother with crying.

This move can best test the limit of mother's refusal.

If the mother is determined, the child will gradually give up conquering her and make her obey her own ideas.

On the contrary, if the mother gives in, the child's willful behavior will be strengthened.

As long as you taste the sweetness once, the child will seize her mother's weakness and continue to stubbornly let her meet all her requirements.

If your child is willful, then the child has caught your weakness.

The method is very simple, learn to say firmly to children: no? .

First, how to conclude a private agreement with children:

1. Let children have no room to drill.

The mother can make a private agreement with the child in advance, so that the child has no room for repentance.

2. Tell your child that you must keep your word.

A mother can tell her children clearly that both of us must keep our promises.

Whoever breaks his word is a man who breaks his word. ?

The child must explicitly promise him to agree to this agreement.

Two, three countermeasures to refuse children to violate the agreement:

When a child insists on breaking his contract, you must tell him that a man who breaks his promise doesn't like anyone.

1. Look at the child with a serious and calm expression. Don't laugh, let the child feel that there is no chance.

2. When you refuse a child, you should speak concisely:? No, we can't break our word.

If the child continues to insist on his unreasonable demands, you must refuse him more concisely. No

? If the child is stubborn, crying and making trouble, which makes you embarrassed, you can just pick up the child and go home without saying anything.

If you are in a hurry to go to work when you enter the park, you can send your child directly to the class without saying anything, explain the situation to the teacher and leave the kindergarten.

If the child insists on not eating or eating snacks, you must insist on not eating snacks for him and let him not eat at the same time.

Don't argue with your child too much when you refuse him, and wait until the child and you calm down afterwards before you make sense.

But it is worth noting that you must talk to your child with respect and equality, so that your child will accept your opinion.

There are always irrefutable reasons why mothers give in to their children's unreasonable demands: in order not to be late for work; In order to get rid of their embarrassment in public; For children to be happier; Not hungry children; ? Are these full? Maternal love? Reason will make the child more willful, and let the mother pay the mother's self-esteem and rights, while what she pays is only the temporary happiness of the child and the temporary relaxation of the mother.

I don't know that blind compromise and repeated forbearance will only put the problem on hold. Corrosion? It laid the foundation for children's growth and laid countless hidden dangers for their future lives.

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In addition to the method of agreement, for some temporary situations, our advice to parents is:

Ignore it.

The purpose of a child losing his temper is to attract the attention of his parents and realize his wishes.

So parents can turn a blind eye and let their children make trouble.

When children have had enough trouble and see that their parents still ignore them, they will feel that crying like this can't achieve their goals, and they can gradually get rid of their wayward bad habits.

Persuade patiently.

When the child makes some unreasonable demands, if the parents ignore them, they still can't let the child stop. When appropriate, parents can patiently persuade and educate.

Simple reasoning with children, let children understand why mom and dad can't agree to their requirements.

However, you must never compromise with your child.

Because with the first compromise, there is bound to be a second compromise.

Over time, children will become more willful.

Is it suitable? Punishment? .

When a child loses his temper, even if the child has calmed down and taken the initiative? Please. Parents, parents should also deliberately keep him? Indifference? .

Let the children realize that what they just said and did embarrassed their parents? Unhappy? Then tell the truth to the child and let the child promise that he will not be so capricious and will not lose his temper in the future.

Compromise and laissez-faire of parents often make children do things halfway.

For example, when a child is in the middle of practicing the piano, he asks his mother to let him play for a while.

Originally, my mother wouldn't let me, but I couldn't stand the children's soft grinding and hard foam, so I had to say, OK, OK, go and play for a while. Don't do this next time.

? But once, he did it again next time.

Finally, parents are too lazy to take care of it.

Children may never practice the piano again.

If everything is done according to children's wishes, children will think that their parents will meet all their requirements, and even think that their parents are afraid of themselves.

So he can do whatever he wants, and his parents can't bear it, which makes him more fearless.

If the vicious circle goes on, just wait for the day when he really ignores your existence and doesn't take you seriously.

I'm used to being cocky, so selfish and unreasonable in society. How does he cooperate with others?

Being too obedient to children often tends to make children form bossy personality, and it is difficult to cooperate with others in future interpersonal communication. Therefore, parents must educate their children reasonably from an early age and cannot blindly tolerate their children's wrong practices!