Compassion is a delicate flower that blooms on a kind branch, and can't stand the cruel sandstorm hand of the years. When it falls, even a sigh is heartbreaking and sad.

Compassion is a rose with thorns, and it is always oneself who is stabbed.

A few days ago, I heard from my friend that he didn't answer his girlfriend's phone in time and didn't call her afterwards. His girlfriend lost her temper and dropped her cell phone. In order to maintain their relationship, he bought her a new one.

The affection between two people is hard to say to outsiders. However, as a friend, you should always remind me that if you choose this emotional woman as your life partner, do you have enough mental preparation, do you know how broad-minded you are, and have confidence and grasp in your patience and tolerance.

It is often said that behind a successful man, there is always a woman who gives silently, and behind a successful woman, there is always a man who gives silently. It seems that in people's imagination, the winner must be a gentle and kind woman or an understanding man. Not really.

American President Lincoln, he has a wife who is not very virtuous. Some people say that the marriage between Lincoln and his wife can be said to be the most unfortunate combination in American history. William hanna once wrote a biography of Lincoln. He said: The greatest tragedy in Lincoln's life is his marriage.

Shortly after Lincoln and Mary Todd got engaged, he realized that they were not suitable in any way, and there would be no happiness if they lived together. They can be said to be sworn enemies in temperament, hobbies, cultivation and ambition.

Mary is very proud, interested in dressing and eating, and jealous. As long as Lincoln looks at other women, he will have an argument with him. Her jealousy is so fierce, so irrational, so crazy.

Shortly after their engagement, Lincoln wrote her a letter saying that he didn't love her very much and had no intention of marrying her. He gave the letter to a friend, who tore it up. He wanted Lincoln to say it to his face.

She cried when he said he didn't want to marry her. Lincoln had never seen a woman cry in front of him. So he held her in his arms, kissed her and apologized to her.

The wedding was held at 184 1. Everything is ready, all the guests are here, but Lincoln is nowhere to be seen. He was in critical condition both physically and mentally, and almost lost his mind. His friend went to see him and he mumbled incoherent sentences. He said he didn't want to live anymore and wanted to kill himself. Later, he wrote a letter saying: Now I am the most miserable person in the world. I wonder if there will be any improvement in the future. But I have a terrible feeling that the future will not be much better.

Since then, Lincoln and Mary have had no contact for two years. Later, a mediator pulled them together and closed the door. Mary told Lincoln that he had an obligation to marry her. So they got married.

On the morning of the third day after their marriage, the Lincolns had breakfast with other tourists. What Lincoln said upset Mary, so she picked up a cup of hot coffee on the table and threw it in Lincoln's face. Lincoln ignored her and didn't scold her. The proprietress took a towel to wipe Lincoln's face and clothes.

Finally, Mary went crazy and was declared insane. Maybe she already has a neurological disease. Mary was in pain, but Lincoln endured 23 years of unhappy family life, without sadness, resentment and angry words to anyone.

Many times, our hunch is not incorrect, but our will is too easily shaken and our kind heart is too easily melted by tears. A moment of sympathy often leads to a lifetime of unhappiness.

The Greek philosopher Socrates famously said, "A good marriage can only bring you happiness, but a bad marriage can make you a philosopher."

Perhaps, a person's disappointment with marriage may make him turn his attention to his career, and because of his concentration, he may eventually have fruitful results. This shift of attention and emotion can relieve some pains in life.

However, through the ages, there have been many unhappy marriages, but few people have become philosophers. Most people are in pain, or enjoy it, trying to get rid of it.

It is said that there is a rumor between Socrates and his wife: once, Socrates was talking with a visiting friend, and his wife suddenly broke in and made a scene. My friend was shocked and thought there would be a fierce battle. Socrates, however, as if nothing had happened, finally bored his wife and retired temporarily. Later, Socrates sent his friend out, and his angry wife threw a basin of dirty water from upstairs and soaked him through. Socrates still said unhurriedly, "I expected that there would be a heavy rain after the thunder, and it happened."

Even the power of humor can't hide the fact that his wife is definitely not a gentle and virtuous woman, but he has a generous heart that tolerates her.

Not all people can tolerate an unhappy marriage. Some people hide their inner pain, while others seek to get rid of it completely. In short, they have their own way of dealing with it.

A friend once complained that in recent decades, the economy has been less than the last one and more than the next one. It can be said that there is no shortage of money, but there is unspeakable sadness emotionally.

I married her purely out of gratitude, because I had a car accident at that time, and it was her dedicated care that made me recover quickly. A person's itinerary is established, and conscience is still very important.

Only after getting married did she know that she had caused two tragedies, which was her own fault and her own fault. Because my personality and hobbies are too different from hers to be reconciled.

Let me tell you a secret that we are not afraid to laugh. So far, we haven't taken a group photo, let alone went to the streets to watch movies together.

Later, I tried to think about it several times, but she refused and ended in a hurry. It's really hard to break the red line when it's intertwined. At the same time, it should be said that "one small step is a lifelong regret, and when I wake up, I am already a hundred years old."

Besides, I am too "immersed in love". It's hard for me to give up such a lovely Joule.

Now every time a friend makes a move, I can only force a smile. Every time I go to an entertainment place, I am alone and unhappy.

Sometimes I will play cards all night to get a temporary anesthesia, and sometimes I will sell wine to relieve my worries, but when I wake up, my worries will get worse.

Perhaps, this friend's inner monologue is a true portrayal of the spiritual world of many unhappy people.

Although divorce is easy and simple in modern society, there are still too many concerns after divorce.

Therefore, when you stand at the door of marriage and are ready to go in, you must think carefully. Compassion and love often lead to two different results.

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