On one occasion, Christie canceled her date. She sent me the timetable for the last two weeks and said with endless sighs, "I still feel sorry for myself when I see the timetable." Really, they are all full.
Until we finally met, I found that her skin was tight, her figure was good, her clothes were fashionable, and her manners were excellent, which really surprised me.
Because I have been to her company office, the huge boss desk is in front of the floor-to-ceiling glass. Everyone sat on the sofa to receive guests and talk. A secretary knocked at the door and asked her to sign the document.
She went behind the blackboard and took out a Montblanc pen with her name engraved on it. I can't see her signature, but I can see the gesture of getting her signature. It's cool and handsome. I can't help but turn my head and look around. "Is this a youth idol drama?"
It turns out that the rich second generation in the old hen soup article is richer than you, more beautiful than you, more competitive than giving you a layout and a diploma. It's not artificial at all, but it is! Right now!
As we all know, what surprises me more than her beauty is that such a talented and outstanding woman is married and has a daughter over 2 years old. What? Looking at her slim figure, she doesn't look like a person who has given birth at all.
Christie said: "I exercise, I was born early." I was born at the age of 28, and my body shape is not harmful. " She talked to me about children's education. Between the lines, I can feel that her marriage is really happy, not deliberately happy!
Today, everyone's social development is a bit super abnormal.
For women, Excellence means being equivalent to older women. The better the woman, the easier it is to "keep people".
So every time I meet a beautiful and excellent woman, not only get married, but also give birth to a child, and personally evaluate the happiness of daily life, online sprayers will shout like Lei Xinger: What's the problem? _ Yes, there must be some hidden secrets.
I am a woman with a built-in gossip attribute. I asked her, "How is your old man?"
There is a picture of her family of three on her desk, a boy who is about her age and looks ordinary. In the photo, she is wearing high heels, similar to her old gentleman.
According to the logical thinking of a middle-aged woman like me, then _ he must be rich? Invisible rich or invisible rich second generation, with family fund?
Christie is a very clear person. I can see what I'm thinking. She said, "He is Chinese-American, but his parents are just ordinary people. He studies hard and has a good diploma. He works in an American company. According to his age, the development trend is very good now, but you can understand that this is the case compared with our family. "
God, it's not for a better appearance, it's not for money, then it must be for a better sense of peerless shock! My heart flew to kiss my sister, so I immediately moved a small stool and prepared to listen to an earth-shattering love legend in advance.
She generously helped me tell their love story. Really happy. Unreasonably, the whole process was successful and it was logical to get married. There was a complete family boycott, and it was a thunderous event!
I had no choice but to ask directly, "Then why did you marry him?"
The core of this sentence is actually, what do you want from such an excellent girl? After asking, I also lamented that I was a snobbish woman, cold-hearted, and no longer believed in love.
She smiled: "Many people have asked me this question. However, few people are so direct with you. I married him because I was suitable. I can control myself too much. I know exactly who I need in my life. "
Christie has been studying in the United States since junior high school and has had other boyfriends. She said with a smile: "According to everyone's norms, my predecessors had many characteristics, but in the end, everyone was separated because of temperament, three views and ways of dealing with people." So money and feelings can't handle all the problems in life, can they? "
She went on to say, "My husband is an excellent person, but the social development now is really snobbish. When we are together, everyone only sees me.
Everyone is busy with work, has emotional problems, quarrels, quarrels over various things, but I don't know if I can live with this person for a lifetime. Thorough _ As written in the collection of novels, I am dizzy, but what is marriage like in my eyes?
In fact, happiness is a very simple thing. If it is complicated, the foundation will be unhappy. "
After Christie finished, she said to me instead, "hey, why don't you help me tell your story?" At which moment did you judge that Mr. Lu at home was the one who spent the rest of his life with you? "
How far can a marriage without blessing go? This question seems to be effective on the surface, but I need to shell the credit card immediately. Because of this question, I have never asked myself.
As far as I know about Teacher Lu, everyone is already 30+ boys and girls. With the intelligence and personal experience of two adult men and women who have received higher vocational education, we have discussed all the life problems that can be remembered, and they all feel that the other person is very suitable.
To tell the truth, Mr. Lu and I have been thinking about the Mr. Right since we were young in Dali. He also wrote me an email and introduced an old French song, which probably means "I am so grateful that I finally found you, but it turns out that you are not what I thought."
Maybe this is not an emotion for girls aged 18. Emotions will naturally turn upside down and forget everything. Maybe, but I only understand that only after careful consideration, the feelings that are suitable for each other are suitable for marriage and can be together for a lifetime.
Today, when the elderly women have become a social problem, perhaps we should consider how to have them.
The most cost-effective answer is probably: beautiful women are too harsh and greedy and always want to get a lot of things.
But as a woman, I really don't recognize it. It's even harder to express why the better a woman is, the easier it is to get dumped! I have met many excellent women, who have worked hard and all they want is happiness.
After we stopped to listen to your short stories, many people have talked about love before, and love is very easy to communicate. The reason why most people stay is that they can keep their feelings as a long and thin marriage, and then none of them will fall.
Marriage is not easy, not only a problem for two families, but also a contest of strength. Emotional energy makes it easy for two people to get along for a while, but it is really, really difficult to get along for a lifetime.
Because everyone is a unique baby auction, when two unique babies are auctioned together, there will always be many unpredictable problems.
China has an ancient history of 5,000 years, and the smartest person is called "little grandson". The most famous sentence that my little grandson said is probably "Know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle."
Everyone thinks that the meaning of this sentence is: "fully mastering the other side is the foundation of winning." In fact, everyone ignores the most essential point of this sentence, because this sentence means: "If you want to win, you must completely master each other and know yourself!"
"I don't know about the mountains in Qian Shan, but I live here." It's hard to know yourself.
Because of the impact of injustice on future marriage, it is always easy for everyone to lose confidence and look down on themselves; Everyone is often arrogant and gossiping behind his back; In concrete daily life, what is more complicated is that everyone's self-confidence and pride overlap in the middle, either cold or hot, or pure white or deep.