People should judge not only by their intimacy, but also by their reliability.

Look at things in order of priority. Generally speaking, emergency is not to save the poor.

It is best for the borrower to write an IOU, indicating the loan amount, date, return date and signing it.

Some people will distinguish the nature of what they want to buy, whether it is a necessity or a luxury. For example, when Taiwan Province married vietnamese brides, the bride asked him to buy a motorcycle for his brother, so he bought it. She asked him to buy a TV set for her brother, but he refused. The reason is that motorcycles are necessities of life, while televisions are luxuries. The former can help buy, and the latter needs her brother's own efforts.

Some people will take borrowed money as a gift. If the other party can't afford it, or refuses to pay it back, it is a gift.

On the other hand, people always play tricks on you, which shows that your life is good.