The dream of the autumn breeze comes back for the first time, and the spring dream of the third life is reincarnated.
“Three glasses of wine in the world of mortals, and a pot of tea for great achievements of a thousand years. A pillow of autumn wind dreams for the first time, spring dreams of three generations and nine reincarnations.” From the "Communication Skills of Great Wisdom" by Zhai Hongshen, a master of traditional Chinese culture, which means that there are many disturbances in the world of mortals. Things were discussed over three cups and two glasses of light wine; any ambition for domination in the world was spent over a pot of tea in the afternoon. Living in today's materialistic society, a busy life is like drinking three glasses of wine:
Drinking the first glass is as arrogant as a genius, and it is at the peak of life;
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Drinking the second cup is like looking at the world in a daze, almost drunk but not drunk;
The third cup is like seeing through after being frustrated, and waking up after being intoxicated. The glory and grace in the world of mortals are triumphant for a moment, but they are over and will eventually come to nothing. It is intended to advise people to relax, be a well-educated and cultivated person, and look at everything calmly.
Meaning:
1. This sentence compares "three glasses of wine" and "a pot of tea", showing two completely different states of life, one One is "The Red Dust" and the other is "The Great Cause". I can't say which one is better, they just represent two completely different cultures.
2. Tea and wine are two completely different things with completely different characteristics. Wine is strong and unrestrained, making people more emotional after drinking it. In China, northerners like to drink more. They drink when they have something to do and when they have nothing to do.
3. Wine plays an important role in the lives of northerners. Even if they encounter troublesome things, often after three glasses of wine, these troublesome things will be left behind and forgotten. of sorrow. Therefore, it is most appropriate to use "three glasses of wine" to correspond to the "world of mortals".
4. Unlike tea, tea is relatively mild and leisurely, and makes people more rational after drinking it. In China, southerners love to drink tea. In many places, they have the habit of drinking afternoon tea. They drink tea almost every day.
About the author:
Zhai Hongshen, born in Jilin on April 21, 1943, is a specially appointed senior training lecturer at Beijing Fulcrum Future Management Consulting Company. China marketing practical training instructor, practical application scholar of Chinese studies, economic and cultural scholar, visiting professor of Peking University. Currently, he is the chairman of Daon International Group, the dean of China International Talent Engineering College, the president of DAM Marketing Development Agency, the director of Peking University Chinese Entrepreneur Training Center, the chief consultant of the China Business News Expert Advisory Group, and the honorary professor and doctoral supervisor of the National University of America. In recent years, Professor Zhai has been invited to give thousands of educational trainings and lectures in various forms at various levels of government and well-known universities. He has enabled nearly one million people to achieve breakthroughs in thought, behavior and mentality after being shocked and awakened. He is praised as He is the most valuable education and training expert in China today.
Advocate and disseminator of Chinese traditional culture. For a long time, Professor Zhai has been committed to the study of traditional Chinese culture and philosophy with a strong sense of nationalism and mission. After integrating various representative international philosophical mainstreams and marketing theories, combined with China's actual situation, he has focused on management A complete set of unique solutions have been proposed in science, decision-making science, talent training, marketing, corporate teams, etc., and have aroused great repercussions in the academic community.
The famous "TAT" course developed by Professor Zhai Hongshen has been used in MBA, EMBA, DBA, outstanding leadership projects at Tsinghua University, Renmin University of China, University of Science and Technology Beijing, American National University, etc. Very popular in training classes.
In recent years, Professor Zhai has been invited to give thousands of various forms of educational training and lectures at various levels of government and well-known universities, enabling nearly one million people to grow mentally through shock and awakening. and breakthroughs.
Have served:
China Unicom, Zhongyuan Oilfield, Guoqiang Group, Tingmei Group, Daya Group, Shifeng Group, Yutong Bus Group, etc. More are some developing small and medium-sized enterprises, such as Yinman Company, Xerui Company, etc. These enterprises have gained vitality after Professor Zhai personally experienced the construction of corporate culture, team building, internal employee training, and the education and training of dealers and agents across the country. In a short period of time, they have thousands of chain institutions across the country, with annual turnover Breaking through 100 million yuan!
Professor Zhai continues to explore ways to cultivate talents in China, and spontaneously organizes the "Chinese College Student Entrepreneurship Training Camp". He has personally successfully trained hundreds of thousands of college graduates and realized the entrepreneurial dreams of countless talents. He is known as "The Godfather of Entrepreneurial Marketing in China"
A master of applied Chinese studies, a practitioner and disseminator of Dacheng culture and Mahayana wisdom, a calligrapher, a distinguished professor at Tsinghua University, Renmin University, and University of Science and Technology Beijing, and a distinguished doctoral tutor at the National University of the United States . Professor Zhai has been committed to promoting traditional Chinese culture. He has been invited to give lectures and lectures at all levels of government, well-known universities, and the corporate world, shocking and awakening millions of people to breakthroughs in thought, behavior, and mentality. Courses such as "Great Wisdom in the Application of Chinese Studies", "Ten Practices for Entrepreneurs", "Wisdom of the Tao Te Ching", "Seven-day Meditation Merit Class", "Chinese Studies and Health Preservation" and other courses hosted by Professor Zhai have been held in MBA programs at well-known universities at home and abroad. , EMBA, DBA, CEO training courses, and excellent leadership program training are very popular.
Professor Zhai Hongshen's courses spread "good knowledge", convey "positive energy" and share "great wisdom". The perfect combination of Confucianism, Buddhism and Taoism makes people feel Professor Zhai's talent flowing from his bones and the Chinese spirit surging in his blood. Glory and spirit. < /p>
"Asking about Filial Piety: A Record of Zhai Hongshen's Wisdom on the Application of Filial Piety"
"Three Capitals to Achieve Yourself"
"Spiritual Training Course for Fortune 500 Salesmen"
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"Adaptation"
"I control my destiny"
"The rich are all forced to come out"?
Great wisdom in communication skills :
1. About self-cultivation
Appearance comes from the heart, and only by changing the inner self can the face be changed. A dark heart cannot hold up a bright face. Where there is love, there must be kindness; where there is kindness, there must be joy; where there is joy, there must be grace. A person with a low realm cannot speak lofty words; a person without a sense of mission cannot speak with a sense of responsibility; a person with a small background cannot speak grand words.
The final competition between enterprises is a competition between entrepreneurs’ minds and realms. If you don't like others, it's because you don't have enough cultivation. Only those who are kind will be virtuous, and only those who are virtuous will be blessed. This is what the ancients said is "thousands of virtues carry things". A person's life is the process of understanding the Tao, enlightening the Tao, and finally attaining the Tao. Only by being in the same flow can we communicate, only by communicating can we have heart-to-heart conversations, and only by having heart-to-heart conversations can we trade. Being in the same flow is equal to converging, converging is equal to joining the heart, and joining the heart is equal to communicating. ?
2. About success
If you want to succeed, you must first learn to be abnormal - change your mentality, state, attitude, etc. The way to success = thinking ability × action ability × expression ability. ? Many failures are not due to the lack of planning before action but the lack of action before planning.