1. You don’t have to be so good, you just need to be able to do something, have a motivated career, have an upright love, have exquisite hobbies, and live a life that is not embarrassing. I wish to have light in my heart and kindness everywhere I look. If this is possible, it’s okay to be less successful.

2. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but cannot be expressed; there is a kind of love, which obviously wants to give up, but cannot give up; there is a kind of love, which is clearly known to be torment, but cannot be avoided; there is a kind of love, which is obviously torment, but cannot avoid it; Love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart can no longer take it back.

3. There is no time in the world that cannot be squeezed out, only appointments that you don’t want to keep. Every choice is an inner orientation; some people give you their heart, but you pretend not to see it, because you don’t like it; some people give you your heart, but you pretend it doesn’t hurt, because You love.

4. Things that look easy are often not easy to do. Except for a little talent, most of it comes from hard work: 30% genius, 70% hard work. It is the unchanging law of success. A person who is unwilling or unwilling to work hard is worse than standing still, so you must seize every moment.

5. Everyone will go through this stage. If you have a wrong understanding of something, but you are unwilling to accept other people's opinions and make effective corrections, you will make more mistakes. Stubbornness is not a synonym for persistence.

6. Reading thousands of books is not as good as traveling thousands of miles; traveling thousands of miles is not as good as reading countless people; reading countless people is not as good as having an expert show you the way; an expert is showing you the way, but it is better to feel, live, and understand your heart with your heart. , is the key.

7. Don’t ask why others don’t like you, ask more why others like you.

How realistic this world is! Time, energy, resources, good mood, everything is so limited. If you can neither bring spiritual happiness nor provide practical help to others, why should others like you? Very realistic, very direct, very cruel, but believe me, this is the truth.

8. No matter how depressed you are now, remember to brush your teeth, wash your face, take a shower, put on clean clothes, get into the softest bed, turn off your phone, and sleep well. They say that the bed is like a capsule, and time takes you to a bright morning with just a click.

9. In the current state, there is no relationship that I particularly want to maintain, no motivation in particular to work hard, and nothing in particular to get. Everything is very dull. People who approach do not resist, and people who leave do not resist. If you want to stay, you won't even care about suffering a little loss.

10. It’s always easy to get together, never to be apart. In the end, liking turned into unwillingness, deep love turned into sadness, longing turned into upset, and initiative turned into being mean.

11. Between you and me, it’s either a miss or a mistake. I thought time would be a good healing medicine, but I didn’t expect that it would be my heart that would be used as medicine. So it is fried or boiled. In the world of love, some people love, some people are hurt, some people hate, and some people's love is just a memory from the beginning. So, some people always say that it would be great if they could start over. But the past has passed. Loved. Love, it’s over~~~

12. Don’t dwell on an awkward thing for too long. If you struggle for a long time, you will be annoyed, in pain, epiglottis, tired, sad, and heartbroken. In fact, in the end, you are not struggling with things, but with yourself. No matter how awkward it is, you have to learn to withdraw. Don't let your appreciation of beauty be ruined by encountering a smelly ditch on the way to the beautiful scenery, and delay other beauties. Think about why you came here.

13. Tears are the only way to express your emotions with your eyes when you can’t explain your heartbreak with your words.

14. If you lose your temper or act like a fairy because of someone else's words, your heart is actually following what others say. It is foolish to entrust your happiness to someone else's casual words.

15. If you don’t get a response from your enthusiasm, you must know how to stop it in moderation. Don't be disrespectful to every enthusiasm, and don't please any indifference. When others don't need you, you have to learn to walk away by yourself, be more self-aware and less sentimental.

16. If you can't be together, don't give the other person any hope or hint. This is the greatest responsibility; after separation, don't disturb the other person and let the other person live peacefully. This is the final tenderness.

17. When people reach middle age, life depends on their mentality. As long as the heart is not old and has passion, life will be interesting. Calm down, learn to hide your capabilities and bide your time, and continue to complete unfinished things, no matter what At any stage of life, it is never wrong to work hard and persist. There will never be a conclusion until the end of life. Every late bloomer walks in a calm and steady manner. It is time that makes you who you are. Not wasted on time either.

18. Except for yourself, no one will understand how much happiness or sadness there is in your story, because after all, it is only your feeling.

19. On the road of life, quietly open your heart, keep your heart calm, peaceful and quiet, and do not criticize others and yourself harshly. If there is love in your heart, the world will be full of love.

20. In this face-valued world, no one has the obligation to look through your sloppy appearance to discover your excellent inner self. You must be clean, tidy, and even refined. This is the basics and dignity of your life, regardless of gender.

21. Slowly I realized that: some people are haunted by dreams, but they are only suitable for keeping in the heart; some people are calm, but they are suitable for companionship for a lifetime. Love is a fateful encounter, some stopping and hugging; some passing by, looking back, some passing by, very faint, very light but very painful.