In this world, many people will not refuse a friend's request and become friends. If you refuse a friend's request, many people will feel embarrassed. But I never thought whether this request was beyond my ability.

Please remember. People who make you angry don't always care about you. If something makes you uncomfortable at first, you'd better refuse. You may have to live like a demon without delay.

The master's paintings depict children in the Yangtze River.

1

It's disgusting to know not to refuse.

I don't know what to refuse, but I often do it out of kindness, but I don't pay the principle, but it's not only cheap, but also stupid.

Because in the joyful singing, people are sweet and their hearts are kind. But she is often criticized by people. Kind-hearted, she doesn't know who to refuse.

Guan Haoer works a lot of overtime. Because I help others with their work.

Finally, my colleague got sick. I finished her work. I finally confirmed her signature.

What my colleagues did was wrong, the president knows, but they just said abuse. Because she is her last symbol, all the responsibilities are borne by her.

The colleague followed her without saying a word, without a word of comfort.

In fact, Guan's good character is a true portrayal of many people today.

In order to establish a good image of others in front of others, you can't refuse others' demands.

What was the result? After all, I helped others and regretted myself.

"If you have a request, you can respond to your needs, which is very good, but why do people ignore me?"

I think you have heard the story of competition. Once saved, there is a second time. If I can help you for the second time, there will be many times. Because you have cultivated the muscles of the play from the beginning, it is always helpful to you and feels good. When you finally don't like trouble and help you, you become a sinner.

Masaaki Shirakawa once said.

"Why do others turn you into the same person more and more? You are so talkative. I will answer whatever you want to ask. If you want something, I'll give it to you. You have successfully formed a self-made man. The more the principle is lost, the opponent will naturally lose the bottom line. "

It's disgusting to know not to refuse.

You can be a good person, but don't be a good person.

So don't make your life miserable because of sympathy.

2

I know that refusing makes me angrier.

The calligraphy family is well-known and outstanding. The old teacher is kind, friendly, enthusiastic and interesting, and it is also strange to refuse people thousands of miles away.

Once, a famous businessman found his hand and killed him at the entrance. I don't have cold noodles, but I listen to the dealer. Do you want anything?

The painter replied. He came to see me. "

Qiang walked ahead, bypassed his body, raised his feet and collected enough money.

He finished reading. "Come back."

Although there is no way, there is no choice but to leave with a smile.

Keiko is worried that she has a bad cold again, and she is in poor health and uneasy. On the other hand, the panda is sick. I'm not going to school. When you hit a door or window, you will be fined a pound.

Everyone laughed. You can't knock at the door any more.

After losing Johnson, he fell in love with Yang Xiao's expenses when he was young. After returning home, Yang Xiao sent him a short message.

"The stairs are hard to walk. From now on, please don't say "it's hard to know".

Gao Jin is a clever man. From now on, I can only die.

The Enlightenment and Yang's rejection were friendly, humorous and humorous, and they maintained a respectful and expressive attitude. They are serious about others because they are serious about others. Everyone will be happy to accept it.

Kant, a German philosopher, said, "Freedom is not doing what you want to do, but not doing what you don't want to do." .

Refusing to control your life is the real you.

There is anger in your life.

three

What we can refuse is the greatest help to each other.

If you have a request, I will answer it for you. It's wrong to always help you. But sometimes it may be better to refuse.

After experiencing the great fever in 1970s, Wu Bantian lost the temptation of Ma Yin. He is addicted to gambling, not only losing everything, but also gambling 300 thousand yuan.

When Kai Mokun was at a loss, he borrowed money from his friend Zhou Jun, but his brother refused. I answered five letters with a straight face. Solve it yourself. "

Wu Mamu was rejected. I don't think my brother is very interesting. I don't think he wants to get rid of it. Once upon a time, suicide happened.

After a while, he played the role again and finally recovered slowly. But his brother's refusal always bothered him.

10 years later, Wu Youshu, who cooperated with Zhou Hulao, returned to the highest level as an actor and won the Hong Kong Academy Award for his "Sky-high Jade Bridge". Zhou Jun celebrated for him, but Ke Mu was very hot and ignored it.

Later, Mamoru Kuhl finally found out and recommended his aunt to perform the birth of Blacu in the kingdom of heaven. Kematsu Kul, who knew the truth, cried and was humiliated with his brother.

My brother said, "If you lend me money, I will hurt you." You can't even explode or stand up.

Although my brother explicitly refused, he was very gentle in the shade. This kind of refusal seems inhuman, but it is from the heart for your partner.

He knows this very well. What I refused was the failure of a friend. Because he helped him grow.

The value of a person is not to help others, but to refuse something.

What you refuse is to respect your limits and help others.

four

He who knows how to refuse leads a carefree life.

Confucius' words are also necessary as' Jimmy' and' No'. Probably not.

She said, she said, "If you don't succeed, you will succeed." There are "impossible things" and "non-existent things" as "nothing".

On the other hand, if you want to do something disrespectful, there is definitely no "sake" and "sake", regardless of the first condition, the light condition, the emergency condition and the result.

If something makes you uncomfortable from the beginning, refuse it early. Don't think that you lost your money to others. In other words, people think that he lost himself and got into trouble.

Refuse and you can live without hesitation.

This is not an insult to those who come. On the contrary, don't waste everyone's time.