Women are good, and whether there are many beautiful women or not is related to whether a city is good or not. A city with many beautiful women must have a vibrant economy, a happy life, and a more harmonious society. This is preset by the ancestors who coined the word [呲 Ya] As for whether it is better to be big or small, I can only say that big is better than big, and small is better. [呲呲] In big cities, interpersonal relationships are indifferent, and people care about money rather than people. No matter how good it is, it will not be very good. The citizens of small cities are vulgar and boring, and they care about love but not the law. They are not that bad, but they can only be considered half good. [呑ya][呲ya][呲ya][呲ya]
This issue cannot be generalized. Big cities have the pressure of big cities, while small cities have the comfort of small cities.
First, I live in a second-tier city like Xi'an in the northwest, which has a permanent population of more than 10 million, and is now called a new first-tier city. The salary is more than 6,000 yuan. The average house price in Xi'an is now about 15,000 per square meter. The daughter-in-law works outside and earns only about 2,000 yuan a month. I face a lot of pressure to survive every day, and I still live in a rental house of more than 60 square meters. There are seniors at the top and young at the bottom, children have to go to school, buy a house, and support four elderly people at home. Sometimes I feel really stressed. So big cities have big city worries.
Second, let me talk about the comfort of living in a small city, a small city. Housing prices in third- and fourth-tier cities are relatively low. First of all, there is no pressure to buy a house. The competition for children to go to school is not as fierce as in big cities, and some jobs can be reached on foot in ten minutes. Secondly, interpersonal relationships in small cities are not as complicated as in big cities. If you live in a small city for a long time, everyone will know each other when you go out.
The third is living in big cities and small cities. Each has its own advantages and disadvantages and cannot be generalized. Xi'an, for example, has relatively abundant medical and educational resources. It is relatively convenient for the elderly to see a doctor when they are sick. In this regard, small cities cannot keep up with big cities. Of course, it is difficult to go to school, to see a doctor, and to travel has become a common problem in Xi'an in recent years. I remember one time, I took the child of an uncle from my hometown to see a doctor in Xi'an Children's Hospital. It took a week to complete the physical examination. If you get sick in a small city, this kind of situation will not happen if you go to the hospital for treatment.
Therefore, we cannot generalize that big cities are better than big cities and small cities are better than small cities. The key depends on how you face it. With a good mentality, no matter where you live, you will live a free, easy and comfortable life, so the one that suits you is the best.
To answer this question, generally speaking, the living conditions in big cities and small cities are different, and each has its own advantages and disadvantages.
Big cities have a fast pace of life, rich material and cultural life, extensive resources, and developed medical and health services.
Small cities have an ancient sense of leisure and comfort that big cities cannot match. The human touch in small cities is more intense. Everyone looks up without looking down, and you often meet familiar people on the streets.
In the past, big cities were very desirable. Being able to establish a foothold and make a living in a big city was a dream and an honor for many people.
Now, information has developed. In the era of self-media, with a mobile phone in hand, you can know all the major events in the world. The earth has become a village, and the mystery and geographical advantages of big cities have also been reduced a lot in people's minds. .
In fact, the strong human touch and scenery in small cities are more suitable for human settlement and life. People living here have convenient travel, a balanced price index, a calmer mood, and a higher happiness index.
Many people in small cities are aborigines or from surrounding counties and towns. Their ancestors have lived together for generations and have accumulated deep connections. Some people can continue to recycle their ancestral properties from generation to generation.
Therefore, people who grew up in small cities are more caring, have a spirit of dedication to family affairs, people support each other, and have strong cohesion among relatives and friends. These are all things that live in a big city. It cannot be experienced.
There is no fixed statement about this. Some people like a slow-paced life, and some people like a bustling life.
Take my environment as an example. I am from Hefei, Anhui Province. As a new first-tier city, Hefei is at a lower-middle level in the country. However, brother cities in the province still come to Hefei in large numbers. Most of them are young people, most of whom are born in the 80s and 90s. Most of them will buy houses and settle in Hefei, such as Anqing, Bengbu, and Huainan. There are still many of them. Generally, young people are willing to go to provincial capitals or more developed cities, such as Shanghai, which is relatively close to Hefei, where most of Anhui's residents live. young people.
But older people like to live in their hometowns and are not willing to go out for a run. They like to be at home, but now more and more people like to work hard outside.
Generally speaking, with the progress of society, most people are not willing to stay at home, but like to go out and explore. So what do you think is better in big or small cities?
The city cannot accommodate the body, and the hometown cannot accommodate the soul! Who would be willing to leave their hometown if they had the means? All the people from small cities to big cities have one thing in common: "Get ahead and return home in fine clothes!" People who go to big cities: 1. Migrant workers! 2: Students admitted to university in big cities, 3 People who can’t stay in small places
The first situation: migrant workers who go out to work, there are few job opportunities in their hometowns, the industrial structure is single, and the people in small places are complicated. , the population density is low, and the way to make money is through connections and people with connections, so you can only choose to go out to make a living
The second situation: students who are admitted to a big city to go to university! Starting from a small place, I have seen the fast-paced development of the city. Whether it is supporting facilities, medical care, education, life and entertainment, they are attracting these naive young people. They all want to make money after graduation and take root in the city. Based on the experience of their parents, The desire to get ahead has never been extinguished, but there are very few who stay. The reason is: without the help of noble people, the capital provided by the family is not enough to establish a foothold in the city, and the own strength is average and the ability is limited! In the end, I can only go back to my hometown to take the civil service examination, or join a state-owned enterprise! To give an inappropriate analogy: the gap between a child from a poor area who is admitted to the highest school and a child from a wealthy family in the city who is admitted to the highest school widens infinitely at the moment of graduation! Children in poor areas can only choose to go to school or work, while wealthy families may send their children to study abroad
The third situation: Those who cannot stay in a small place are also the easiest to succeed, because they may I owe a lot of debt in my hometown. I can't go back to my hometown. I can only go out and go back when I get ahead because I have no choice.
No matter how much money you make or whether you stay in the city, you will eventually go back. home! Because there are your roots, your parents, relatives and friends. The ancients said: Wealth does not return to its hometown, it is like a brocade walk at night!
Large cities and small cities are divided according to comprehensive standards such as city size, population, economic aggregate, employment opportunities, etc. In fact, the key to choosing between a big city and a small city depends on your own mentality and choices. Some people like big cities, and some people are used to small cities. From my personal point of view, small cities are better than big cities.
First of all, there are no traffic jams in small cities. No matter where you go, whether you take the bus or drive, it is basically smooth and there will be no traffic jams that will drive people crazy. In big cities, people are basically commuting, and traffic jams during morning and evening rush hours drive people crazy. Even if you want to travel on urban roads, you must be mentally prepared to deal with congestion.
Secondly, life in small cities is relatively less stressful. Compared with big cities, small cities have relatively easier living costs and consumption levels. We will fight the epidemic in the first half of this year, fight floods in the second half, and fight poverty throughout the year. In small cities, food and vegetables that are relatively close to home can often be brought from home. Reduced a lot of living expenses.
Finally, small cities are a society of acquaintances, with more relatives and friends. Living in a small city is not lonely. You often visit relatives and friends and classmates, and your life is enjoyable. This kind of living atmosphere is much better than living in a big city where you have been door-to-door for many years without knowing each other's last name.
Although, many people look down upon small cities, and many people despise all aspects of small cities. But, I like small cities. In big cities, you live for others to see, while in small cities, you live for yourself. Your own comfort and ease are better than anything else.
Everyone has their own preferences for radish and green vegetables.
No matter what others say, I still like big cities!
I have really had enough of staying in this small place. The life I saw at a glance is devoid of passion and vitality. The people around me have been doing nothing since they were over 50 years old and have not made progress at all. There is nothing serious to do all day long, except for trivial matters, just living in the east and west. In such a surrounding environment and living atmosphere, I feel like a pool of stagnant water, depressed and unhappy at all.
I yearn for the vitality and passion of big cities, where I am motivated and positive, and the employment opportunities are relatively fair. I really can't reconcile myself to living here in a remote place all my life, living in depression.
I once signed on WeChat: I will live in a small place for the rest of my life!
It is because I am unwilling to give in that I want to work hard and rush out, hoping that there will be a blue sky for me to fly!
Jobs:
There are many opportunities in big cities!
Small cities are stable and strong!
Marriage:
Big cities have high requirements!
Let’s go to small cities!
Children:
Housing in a big city school district!
Small cities are great for growth!
Big cities are relatively stressful, but there are improvements in employment, marriage, children's education, medical treatment for the elderly, and lifestyle!
There is basically no pressure in a small city. It is mainly about trivial matters. Life is stable and comfortable, but the quality of life has slightly declined!
Regardless of big or small cities, enrich yourself, read more books, and increase your knowledge!
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Poor people go to big cities, those with connections go to small cities, young people go to big cities, old people go to small cities.