When I first tasted this sentence, I just thought it was Fan Zhongyan's complaint and silent sadness after being frustrated in officialdom. Now read this sentence again, only to understand that this is an extraordinary realm, a sigh after seeing through life.
Don't be happy with things, that is, don't forget yourself and lose your authenticity because of changes in external things. Madame Curie was poor and rich all her life. Amid people's flowers and applause, Madame Curie stopped her scientific research without pride, and even she was not ecstatic about winning the Nobel Prize. She just works silently and seriously, and explores rigorously. She doesn't like or worry about foreign things, and always accepts and lets go. In Madame Curie, I realized a kind of personality charm of "not taking pleasure in things", and I realized a kind of calmness and tranquility.
"Don't feel sorry for yourself" means don't blame others for your unhappiness and give up on yourself. "If you were born in, why were you born in Liang?" We will inevitably be jealous of the Excellence of others, and there will always be sadness for our own down and out. However, if you blindly enlarge the pain, it will only make you feel worse. It is better to let go of grief, seek inner freedom and turn grief into strength. After being demoted to Huangzhou, Su Shi found a place for his soul in the vast universe, so he had endless sighs: how small people are to the universe, why should I indulge in nameless sadness? So there is the "Red Cliff Fu" that has been passed down through the ages, and there is also a "bamboo pole shoes are lighter than horses, who is afraid of who?" The heroism of "a misty rain for a lifetime" and the romantic feelings of "river of no return, the waves are exhausted". "
In life, it is very important to have a stable and calm attitude. Sticking to the indifference at this moment is for the glory of tomorrow; Endure the dormancy at the moment, for the transformation of tomorrow. "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad for yourself" will become my code of conduct in life, and it will take me to understand the extraordinary realm of life.
"Young people running around seek stability in the down and out, and are willing to be serious in the loss!"
This is my last signature, and it hasn't changed since 18!
From "I don't know the sky is high and the land is thick, but I can cook my life in a cold month and warm day"
To "life is really lonely as snow, and all the way is covered up."
Then to "young people running around, seeking stability in poverty and seeking seriousness in loss!"
The change of signature corresponds to the inner change and self-growth.
From the feeling that time is hard to find, the years have passed. I said I was worried. At that time, I really understood that time is ruthless and time is the easiest to throw people away! I don't know where the sadness is, silent sigh.
Began to grow up and understand. If you want to keep these years, you can only run like hell.
Time flies like water and the ceremony is like a dream.
Running all the way, a teenager in the secular world, dare not stop for a moment, just for safety! !
"The last one!"
1. With the increase of age, the personalized signature changed from the previous day to the next week, and remained unchanged for the next three to five years. I don't even remember myself.
After reading it, my final QQ signature is: "The world is safe, don't let the Tathagata down!" " It is written by the sixth Dalai Lama, Cangyang Gyatso, which means, "Where in the world is there a way to have the best of both worlds, neither to disappoint the Tathagata's family nor to disappoint the beauty?
I didn't know why I wrote such a sentence at the beginning, but I probably felt it was in line with the mood at that time! Everything has changed, except what is stored on paper or what is used for recording.
2. It's strange why I suddenly feel a little sad when I write here. Perhaps those personalized signatures contain too many memories of youth, either sadness or joy, and record the past bits and pieces in such a quick form. Now when I open it, it smells like green pheasants.
Just like that signature, there is no way to kill two birds with one stone in the world. Since you choose to grow up, you will inevitably lose many beautiful memories of your youth.
3, on the road to growth, carry forward the burden, only look forward to it, and live up to your original heart!
Sometimes you think
This is my last signature.
Sometimes I think.
I often wonder what it would be like if it were done in a different way, and whether it would be better than it is now.
I will also think about what I will be like in the future. Will it be better or worse?
Sometimes I look back and wonder if my decision was wrong.
This is my present situation: I have been imagining and dreaming. I fantasize that I can travel around the world tomorrow, and I don't have to see so many annoying things tomorrow. The world is quiet and beautiful, and I can face the sea in spring tomorrow.
Daydreaming or paranoia.
Even though it may be useless to think about it, at least I have an expectation in my heart. If I don't even think about it, how can I deal with such unpleasant things in life?
My girlfriend saw a poem with my name and sent it to me, and it has always been a personal signature.
I remember I changed my mind when I was pregnant for the first time, but it hasn't changed for several years.
I haven't been on Q for a long time, and no one wants to.
Porridge in the morning is better than wine in the middle of the night, and those who cheat you are better than those who love you!
Refuse panda eye
I kissed your lips, but I can't be your favorite person.