1. Girl, when you enter society, it’s time to curb your temper. You are still wiser, don't tell others everything. What you say is from your heart, and what they hear is a joke.

2. No longer sad or angry over trivial things, nor angry about some villains. You must look refreshed, beautiful, and face life calmly. Live a plain life, be at ease, be simple, and do things that make you happy. Never lose hope in life, face difficulties and tribulations with a smile, and keep your dreams in mind, even if they are far away.

3. Be a person with a sunny heart, not sad, not impatient, strong, upward, close to the sunshine, and become a better version of yourself. You don't need too much praise from others, because you know how good you are. Inner strength is always better than outer glitz.

4. You have to become better. Don’t always look back at those who have hurt you. There is still a long way to go, and warm things will definitely happen in the future.

5. In fact, there is nothing that cannot be let go. As time goes by, when you look back, you will find that the things you once thought you could not let go of are just a springboard in life to make you grow.

6. Do your best and listen to destiny. Be clear in your heart and not confused by your emotions. Go with the flow and take things as they come. If you know you are wrong, correct it; if you have lost your way, you will know how to return. Be attentive to people who like you and forgetful to people who don't like you. Such a life is very good.

7. Don’t be too obedient. You can refuse things you don’t want to do. Don’t force things you can’t do. If you don’t like it, pretend you didn’t hear it. Life is not about pleasing others, but about being kind to yourself.

8. If someone loves you, let them love you. If you send me flowers, thank you. If someone asks you out, consider it. In this world, if others treat you well, they are unlikely to hurt you. Only if you are kind to others will they come back to bite you again and again, causing you pain. Therefore, let others love you confidently and boldly, but love others cautiously.

9. Confidence is the source of happiness. Only with self-confidence can we remain optimistic in the face of difficulties and setbacks and find ways to overcome them.

10. Along the way, I am not excellent. But I am kind and not hypocritical. I'll tell you what I have to say. Do things openly and honestly. I'm not smart. But I'm certainly not stupid. I can understand many things. I just don’t want to say it. Because people who are too smart will be very tired. Sometimes it's happier to be confused. I don't like intrigues or being plotted against. I don’t like hypocrisy even more. I like real people, no sarcasm, no sarcasm, no scheming, and treat them sincerely.

11. The sign that a woman is old is not that she is older, but that she no longer wants to love. The sign of a man getting old is not his gray hair, but his admission that he can't do it. Time robs us of our youth, and life robs us of our courage.

12. It is better to forget yourself than to forget that person. Tell yourself that you are not afraid that he will forget you, but that you are afraid that he will think of you again one day. Time takes away memories, but the memories will become clearer and clearer. One day, if he turns around and tells you that he has been thinking about you, don't believe it, because he is no longer the same person, and you are no longer the same person as you were in the past.

13. Either pursue what you want, or give up altogether. Don't always chatter your determination or complain constantly when meeting people, and be the source of laughter for others.

14. Life is always a bit bully and afraid of the strong. A person who doesn't understand rejection at all cannot win true respect. Su Qin said that friendliness is indeed a disease, and the disease lies in trying to please everyone. People who are overly friendly are afraid of rejection because they think that rejecting others is also a loss of face. Seeing face as bigger than the sky often comes from the weakness of the heart. Being afraid of disappointing others is also a form of low self-esteem.

15. The biggest benefit of maturity is: you don’t want what you couldn’t get before. When you see through everything, you realize that losing is more practical than having.

16. You must learn to let go of someone who treats you badly, and don’t suffer for anything he says or does. You have to think, if he loves you, he will not have the heart to treat you badly, so the conclusion is that he does not love you enough, or he does not love you at all. For a person who does not love you, there is no need to worry about him and feel sad for him. He's just a passerby.

17. When you are about to give up on your dream, tell yourself to hold on for one more day, one week, one month, and one more year.

You'll find that the results of refusing to quit are surprising.

18. Everyone will have low points and frustrations. It is your choice to face it actively or escape passively. But I think there is no need to drive yourself into a dead end. This will only make you miserable. If you make your own misfortune worse, you must learn to make appropriate turns to get out of the predicament.

19. Any assistance from external forces is only temporary after all. Only things that are truly in your own hands will become your strong support and capital. May you grow every day.

20. The books you have read, the roads you have traveled, and the scenery you have seen will eventually become your own unique temperament and the charm in your eyes.