It turns out that someone on the other side of the world will say the same thing to me. Although the experience is different, I have written such words before:

If everything I tell you stays on the other side of the wall.

If my existence only stays in the meaning you need.

Just close your eyes and look at the world, always thinking that the most unfortunate thing is yourself.

I think if I don't do anything, things will develop in my fantasy direction.

All thoughts are fixed on what they see-

Then I won't be here.

Break up.

Leave peacefully.

So what if we've known each other for fifteen years?

Even after 30 years, I will never be the person you think I am.

I am tired.

Compared with the happiness you bring me.

Let's leave now. Let's go our separate ways.

If you have any regrets, I'll see you later.

When you are not who you are now, I am not who I am now.

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I wrote this paragraph because my best friend kept calling me three or five times a day until there was no electricity. I'm already anxious and nervous about my work, but she can't give me any help. I thought to myself, since you can't help me, don't give me any trouble. But all my hints failed. She is a very simple and direct person, and all my complaints are ignored. I hope she can be more talented and enterprising, and can discuss more in-depth issues with me, but she only likes watching soap operas. Although I know I still have a lot to learn, I often do things that waste time. I want to go on like this, I'm afraid I'll be dragged down by friendship. So, I broke up with her. But she is angry that I want to break up with her-why am I so dissatisfied when I am not allowed to accompany her or something-she can't understand. Actually, I can't part with her. She is so pure, she said angrily, let's break up.

Maybe for her, breaking up and breaking up are the same thing. I am too lazy to explain anything. I gave her too much advice and analysis to help her understand all kinds of things in this society. I can't afford it anymore. It is in this case that you write down the above words. I think maybe your situation is a little similar.

Everyone likes talented people. If you are a genius, people will indulge your willfulness. When you are just an ordinary person, this privilege is lost.

Coincidentally, I also use "attitude" to describe her. I don't mean the tone of her voice, but that she only sees things from her own point of view. Empathy, for her, is just a four-word idiom. Many things are taken for granted, thinking that others should treat her the way she treats others-this is of course impossible. Everyone has his own ideas, does not understand others, and only infers others according to his own thinking, which often makes me feel depressed. Although she is around, she often can't observe my thoughts. The closer you get, the stronger your loneliness.

Coincidentally, she also used "appreciation", "learning" and "catching up" to describe me. I don't know what level I am, but in my own opinion, there is still a huge gap with what I want. After being together for so long, I spent a lot of time and thought to accompany her, but she hasn't changed at all. She is still the one who is addicted to her own world-she is really tired. I think everything I say and do is like a play to her. There is an invisible wall between us. She is still her, and I am still me. I decided to give up.

You didn't give him enough space to deal with his own affairs. He is very dissatisfied and can't find a solution, but he still has deep feelings for you. Saying goodbye in a hurry is just angry. There is no deep hatred between you. In order to maintain this mutual affection, I think you should stop asking questions. If we continue to struggle with this word, in that case, maybe he will make the same decision as me. Try to solve the problem by yourself and stop relying on him.