First of all, make sure that the "house" in "used for decoration and building a new house" is the new house of you and your husband. Is your name written on the house property certificate? If the answer is "yes". Then you have nothing to worry about. There is nothing to complain about. I can see that your boyfriend's family is not very rich. In this case, you have obtained permission from him. Prove that you also recognize your husband's family. It's a bit excessive and selfish of you to force him to buy his own house now. Now that you have obtained the certificate, you must learn to consider the problem from his point of view, not "for the decoration plan of his family." What is his home? What is your home? I can see that you have never regarded his home as your own. Your relationship can be said to be just a "paper relationship", which is very light.

Then "use a piece of land under his parents' name as collateral", even if he can't pay the debt in the end. Just took his parents' land. This is the worst plan. It won't do you any harm. Just because you signed it doesn't mean you have to pay your debts. I believe that the debt in 20-year installments will not be too much in one month. Your husband can bear it alone, but what he can afford is that the house is your married property and needs your signature. On the other hand. If the house is bought at one time, I believe you will not be afraid to sign any certificates. You just want to sit down and enjoy success. Be content that your husband didn't let your family pay a penny for a new house. I can't even try to pay back the money after marriage. But considering that I owe so much money, why do I owe so much money to his family? I don't know the meaning of your marriage. Do you trust your husband so much? Will he really let you pay your debts? Just kidding. What brain? You