I thought about it, but I can't remember which one is right. I just remember how time flies every time I think about it. In my memory, they may still stay in the way they were at school, so youthful and energetic, but in a blink of an eye they are already wives and husbands.
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Later, I talked to a single person in his thirties about this. I don't remember what he talked about, except that he told me that adult love is actually very different from campus love.
Yes, adult love is really different from campus love. Why else is graduation season also called breakup season?
In campus love, you like him and are moved by his gentleness, thoughtfulness and concern. In your eyes, his every move is moving and attracting you.
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Out of the campus, defeated by reality and life, adult love is cruel and realistic. I have a good friend, both men and women are friends, and I want to go on seriously, and I have also been blessed by people around me. When everyone thought they would fall in love and get married on campus, they broke up
I didn't officially announce that I broke up with my friends, and I didn't tell my friends in a small composition. Everything seems to have never happened, but the reality is not as beautiful and cruel as you think.
When I was chatting with one of them on the phone, I accidentally talked about it. Out of concern or curiosity, I couldn't help asking him why both sides still have each other, but they can't be together. Breaking up is a sad thing. I thought he would be sad and even cry. Unexpectedly, he told me coldly: falling in love is a matter for two people, and getting married is a matter for two families. At school, he was so suitable and liked, but he had to compromise in the face of reality. This is life.
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It turns out that everyone has grown up, no longer that ignorant boy and girl, but has passed the age of indulgence. I can't be willful anymore. No wonder people often say that "love and fit collide-this sentence is really too gentle".
It turns out that the sentence "I love you but we are not suitable" is not a joke. Now that I think about it, the person who said this sentence should be a friend who likes me. He didn't cry or make trouble, but quietly ended that unforgettable love.
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Campus love will be officially announced, and various festivals will be commemorated. Send a sad circle of friends when breaking up, change your avatar and signature, find a good friend and cry again. When you are in love, you will introduce your other half to your family.
Later, I broke up with myself, or just a few good friends around me. When I first talked about the object, I didn't publicize it everywhere. Instead, quietly change the background of friends circle and mobile phone wallpaper into photos or group photos of the object, which is enough to give the other party a sense of security. As for meeting parents, it's all true. When you get married, you will meet both parents.
Speaking of this, it also reminds me of the day when I read the article. When you see that there are no stars, no sun, no moon and no universe in the circle of friends around you, it is that he is busy with life now and has no time to think about these wild things.
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Many people say how considerate and romantic they were when they first got together at school. In order to make the object happy, they worked hard for days and nights to make something he liked.
Later, I lost my thoughtfulness. I went to work when I should go to work, and I got off work when I should get off work. He will remember the anniversary, but he doesn't go out on dates as often as before.
Later, both sides went their separate ways. Every day in a strange strange bedfellows, communication is getting less and less.
Finally, I feel that the two sides are not suitable for themselves, do not love themselves, and separated. In my opinion, it's not that I don't love, but that I have compromised my life.
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If you ask me if all campus love is fruitless and can't go to the end. Actually, it's not like this. There are also many campuses that fall in love and get married. Now several people in the family are happy and sweet.
Love needs to be preserved. It can't be maintained by one person, but by both sides. Adult love and campus love are actually very different. When I grow up, I only like people and things with results. To go to the end, let the other party see the result!
Finally, I wish everyone can meet the right and favorite people. Life is bitter, but having you is sweet.