My ex-boyfriend chatted on WeChat and said that it was interesting to learn skiing with his new skills. He became an expert and sent me a video. This should be like bragging, letting you brag about him. It's better for two people to brag about each other together. Praise is recognition, not coquetry. For example, when a boy cooks, the correct compliment should be "Wow, your cooking is super delicious. I didn't expect your cooking to be so good. What if you are addicted? " ..... instead of "Wow, your cooking is delicious. If I can eat the meal you cooked for me every day, I will feel super happy. " Although the meaning of the sentence is similar, the difference is that you guide the boy to say "OK, I will often cook for you in the future." The second one is more like an instruction. I need you to do this for me, and the communication effect and result will be different. The key to guidance is to make boys willing to do it for you, not to be a burden to please you. For example, can small animals lead themselves? Of course, "you like small animals so much. I heard that boys who like small animals will take care of people and suddenly feel so happy. " When you carry it out in your daily life, you will find that talking about it can make him care about you more and more. But pay attention to the timing and rhythm of praise. Praise should be immediate. If you have good behavior, you should praise it immediately and don't delay. Otherwise, he won't know why he was praised, so he won't have any impression on this praise, thus reducing the role of reinforcement. Don't praise too often. If a boyfriend is always praised, he will praise him, too.