There is a saying that goes without saying, there is no harm without comparison. The more contrast there is, the more infuriating it will be. Next, the editor will share with you some moments where there is no harm without comparison.

When the exam results are released. I believe that all of us have experienced the most thrilling part of the exam, which is getting the results. When I checked my score, I felt that I got a good score, so I excitedly asked the people around me, what score did you get? How did you do in the exam? As a result, you find that the people around you get higher grades than the other ones, and all of them are higher than yourself. Do you think that makes you angry? At this time, my heart was hit by ten thousand points. If I had known you were doing so well in the exam, I wouldn't have asked. It would have been a disservice to myself.

When asking about the other person’s boyfriend or girlfriend. I believe that many young people have had this experience. After they get to know their partner, they will introduce it to their friends and classmates and tell them how outstanding their significant other is. Their figure, appearance, and work are all excellent. The key is their family. And money. But when I hear my friends say that their boyfriend and girlfriend have much better conditions than my boyfriend and girlfriend, I feel like I’m being slapped in the face. At this moment we deeply realized what it means: there is no harm without comparison.

When classmates get together and talk about their work and income. Nowadays, people like to have parties, including elementary school reunions, junior high school reunions, high school reunions, college reunions, and gatherings between colleagues. At every gathering, someone will ask how your job is and how your income is. Now How many houses and cars do you have? How are you living? When you think you have good financial conditions, and after happily introducing the other person, you curiously ask about the other person's situation, but the other person's introduction completely crushes you. At this time, my soul received another 10,000-point critical blow.

In fact, it is very common that there is no harm without comparison, but no matter what, we must calm down and live a good life.