In short, the circle of friends is a social function on the chat software WeChat. People can post some words, photos, small videos and so on. Show your life and mood to friends through a circle of friends, similar to the once popular qq space.

"People who don't make friends in everything are all unlucky people", which is neither supported by a large number of real data nor experienced by long-term practice. It's a personal fantasy, too absolute and untenable to stand up to our careful scrutiny.

Since when, whether to send a circle of friends has become a sign for everyone to measure whether a person is doing well or not? Strictly speaking, making friends has nothing to do with one's life Frequent circle of friends does not mean that he is doing well, and never making friends does not prove that he is not doing well.

First, there are many reasons why a person doesn't make friends, but it definitely doesn't include that he is not doing well. First of all, not sending a circle of friends does not mean that he has not sent any messages. There are many social software now, such as Weibo, Zhihu and Tik Tok. If you don't send WeChat friends, it may be that someone sent Weibo or Tik Tok, but you just don't know it.

Secondly, you may not see it without a circle of friends. The circle of friends has privacy settings, and you can choose who can see the dynamics and who can't. What you see is that people don't send friends. Maybe people send it every day just to shield you.

Third, it may be because people are people who have no desire to express themselves. It is difficult for people who are used to silence to express their ideas without scruple. Whether he is well or not, he is silent.

Finally, I don't send friends because I'm too busy to send them. Some people say that "the circle of friends is a personal business card" and must be managed well, so every time you send a circle of friends, you must write a paragraph with beautiful pictures and videos, but the time and energy required are too extravagant for those who are very busy.

Another point is that I am simply lazy and don't want to send it, such as me. Therefore, it is unreasonable to say that "people who don't make friends at all are people with bad lives".

Second, whether a person lives well depends on his face. If you want to know if he is doing well, you should look at his face, not whether he can make friends.

(1) A person with sallow complexion, bloodshot eyes and listlessness is usually too anxious when encountering difficulties, which leads to poor eating and sleep. He is suffering from the cruelty of life, so he can't be happy. I feel uncomfortable and my face is naturally overcast.

(2) A person with rosy complexion and smiling eyes usually leads a relaxed and happy life and is surrounded by happiness. Family members are safe and healthy and have something to do. Even if their lives are ordinary, there is nothing to worry about. They are very happy and have a natural smile on their faces.

(3) Don't mess with me with a face. Live with an arrogant face, usually a bad face. People who get angry easily will be angry with life and suffering, and in the long run they will raise a fierce face.

In short, the purpose of making friends is to share and record life, not to show off that you are doing well. There are many criteria to measure a person's life, such as double harvest in love, good health, happy family, or doing something to enrich his life, but it definitely does not include making friends.

As long as you look at his face carefully, you can know whether he is well. The circle of friends will pass through various filters, which will be untrue, but the face is the least likely to lie, especially the casual little expression on her face.

I don't quite agree with this sentence that people who don't make friends in everything are unlucky. Why do you say that? Let me say a few things around me.

A leader with a rich life has only a few friends a year. "The richer you are, the lower your profile is."

The boss around me is two years older than me. I am 92 and he is 90. Personally, I think that for a young and promising person with over 10 million assets, that day will not be trouble, but only fun.

The result is just the opposite. He never basks in anything of his own, does not show off his wealth, and feels particularly inconspicuous in the crowd, just an ordinary person.

He basically doesn't send friends. Occasionally send a message that is either a feeling of life or a nostalgia for childhood, which is more nostalgic.

People who take up leadership positions seldom send friends to their former colleagues. When there is no promotion and salary increase, his circle of friends is at least dynamic Since the promotion, the circle of friends has been particularly bleak in the past two years.

At a certain post level, there are fewer friends.

I don't like sesame seeds. I have seen my friend fly. From the airport to the landing, there may be no fewer than 20 friends. Don't be disturbed, just because it's your first time to fly.

There are also all kinds of exposed friends, short parents and contradictions between husband and wife, which make the world the worst.

Therefore, if you don't make friends in everything, that is a high-energy person, not a bad life.

The circle of friends is a space for everyone to relax and a relatively limited emotional space. Influenced by contacts and personality, some people like to make friends to relax, while others never make friends.

It is biased to judge whether life is good or not only by the update time of friends circle.

Living well is a subjective feeling. Some people may have little money and live in poverty. Naturally, they will not update their circle of friends, but can we think that they are not doing well? Not necessarily!

And some people always like to share daily news, such as food, daily life and so on. So we think he did a good job, right?

Therefore, this is only a relative problem. Eating delicious food, wanting to share it with people around you, or wanting to tell others about their life and express their joy are all very personal ways. It is not comprehensive to prove that people with more friends will live well.

The circle of friends is just a way for us to know the current situation of our friends. Whether we live well or not has a lot to do with our personal economy, marriage and mood.

People with good economic conditions have less financial pressure than others, while people with strong marital status are happier and have more fun in life. If you can always live better than others in these aspects, you will live better than others, that's all.

Just the trajectory measured purely from the circle of friends is not enough to explain the quality of life of individuals, so I don't quite agree with such a comparison method, which can be said to be completely meaningless.

This sentence is quite right, and I agree with it. People who don't make friends with anything are all unlucky people.

Why? The reason for this is the following：

First, anyone who has a good life is a person who likes to make friends. The circle of friends has several functions, which is like a duck to water for people who live well.

1, release your own dynamic information about your whereabouts. For example, where to play, where to travel, where to talk about business, what meetings to attend, who celebrities to be with, and so on. , are the most common content in the circle of friends. People who have a good life have a wealth of content to publish in this regard.

2. Publish your own work and business. For example, new progress has been made in the work, or great achievements have been made; Or what new products are there in business and what new promotions are there. Wait a minute. People who don't mix well don't have these contents.

3. Forward some articles, videos, stories, social trends and public opinions that you think are valuable. People who don't live well are not in the mood to share these contents, and even they can't get those valuable information.

Second, people with poor lives don't have good and valuable content to send friends, and they are not in the mood to send friends. The circle of friends is empty. As the saying goes, if people are poor, they will rest in public. A circle of friends is a river and lake. It is often a demonstration of strength for everyone to make such a hair and interact in it. People with a bad life can't afford to travel, buy a new car or a new house, and have no chance to hang out with celebrity bosses, so it's best to watch the fun and don't publish anything to avoid making people laugh.

Third, people with self-knowledge and bad lives have something to say, and even a lot of bitter water to pour, but after all, people have self-knowledge, so why say these useless things? The circle of friends is an open interactive communication platform. You always talk lightly. Now you are there all day, complaining about your misery and spreading your negative emotions. Do you think people will like you? You treat your circle of friends as a garbage dump. People will not sympathize with you, but may look down on you and even despise you! So please shut up those who are unlucky. Just watch people perform on the stage. You can only be an audience, applaud them and praise them.

The world is full of knowledge and the cultivation of human feelings is an article. A circle of friends is by no means a place where you can do whatever you want. People with bad lives must be conscious and cautious.

I disagree with this sentence. First of all, I am also a person who doesn't like making friends. I either live a bad life or I don't. I'm just an ordinary person living an ordinary life.

I don't make friends on my wife's birthday, and I can't make friends when my children are born, but that doesn't prevent me from loving them.

I just don't like to post trifles in life. There are also many friends who go to a place to play, have a meal and send more than a dozen friends. I just despised it in my heart and it was gone.

I don't agree that "people who don't make friends in everything are all unlucky people." You should understand a truth. The richer you are, the more interesting your life is. The more low-key their life behaviors are, the fewer friends they make.

I believe everyone has heard an old saying: the more you lack, the more you show off. As Eason Chan wrote in the lyrics "Red Rose": What you can't get is always in turmoil.

There are five friends on the other side of the mountain, and some even send them every day, but do they really live well? Not necessarily, right! Can you say they must have a good life, or that people who don't make friends must have a bad life?

Not necessarily. As a social tool, the circle of friends has a usage base of at least 654.38 billion people in China, and there are too many dynamic circles every day. Where did he drive today? Who will go abroad tomorrow? In fact, after taking off his disguise, he may be digging in the ravine, eating 5 yuan side dishes and drinking 20 yuan a bottle of Jiang Xiaobai.

If you don't work hard and don't beat around the bush, you may not even find a sense of existence. Are forced by life.

The richer people are, the higher their quality of life will be. Their life dynamics have two definitions in the circle of friends of the "senior circle". One is the public, that is, the circle of friends of our big guys. For example, the aunt circle of the village Committee, the old king circle next door, the workplace life circle and so on. One is the upper circle, and both have friends. The only difference is social status.

I wonder if our online compatriots have added Ma Yun's circle of friends. Jack Ma, the richest man in China, has tens of billions of assets. If you have money, none of you can compare with Ma Yun. His circle is full of social elites and top billionaires. Have you ever seen him send a circle of friends every three days?

No, even rarely, because it is unnecessary, he can't send a circle of friends and take a selfie and say, I made money again today, bought a house and circled it. Come and give me a compliment. This is too weak.

People are making a fortune in silence. I don't know where my life is, and I don't exist to show off my wealth in my circle of friends.

The more you lack, the more you show off. This is probably because we often listen to jokes told by friends around us in our lives. It's true. For a simple example, we often watch movies, TV series or short videos, and often find that some good-looking girls will take selfies in front of luxury cars and send them to friends.

Because you don't, you should add something to your life. Because you don't, the more you show off. This is the living condition of girls. Now you still think that "people who don't make any friends are all unlucky people?"

Summary: The circle of friends has been integrated into the lives of ordinary people. From the growth of ants to space flight, the circle of friends has recorded every bit of our lives. Making friends is a state of life, and not making friends is also an attitude. Can't generalize, people live well.

Therefore, no matter how embarrassing life is, no matter what situation you are in, no matter whether you are rich or poor, you should live with an attitude and record that your circle of friends is worthy of yourself.

# When I was in adolescence, I transferred to another school because I was lovelorn, and then I added it to his QQ through my classmates. From then on, as long as I get my mobile phone, I love to keep a diary in QQ space, just to let him see my inner feelings and expect a response. The writing is beautiful, but the heart is always turbulent. Can you say that I had a good time?

Of course, the above answer seems irrelevant.

-friends circle, in my opinion, has become a business circle, and the fierceness of advertising is really overwhelming. Therefore, I seldom send a circle of friends, and I feel that sending a circle of friends is also a crime of grabbing business with others. Well, I don't want to send it or read it. It's almost closing my circle of friends.

Besides, in senior three, I really don't think it's meaningful to show something in my circle of friends. I don't want to say anything grandiose. It's hard to say what I really want to say, and I may not get a * * * response if I say it, so I won't say it. I tried to record my thoughts in the circle of friends, but I finally found that the circle of friends is not suitable for opening these inner whispers. The circle of friends is only suitable for impetuousness, and people are only lonely when they are old.