In fact, chasing girls has been a "seven-word mantra" since ancient times: bold but cautious and thick-skinned.
According to your description, the last date was invited by that girl, and she asked you some questions whether your family knew. You are right. That girl cares about your family and wants to associate with you.
But! ! ! !
Your way of thinking is wrong, which is also the mistake that most boys often make when they are in love. They excessively pursue nominal relations, rather than substantive relations.
What do you mean?
The nominal relationship is that the man thinks that the girl is willing to call you husband and admit that she is your girlfriend before you can take further action. This is also when many boys chase girls, they always confess.
How do girls answer you?
If I promise you, you can kiss and hug. If the girl refuses, you can say that they are already lovers. If you can't do this, you will be angry and have contradictions.
I refuse you not because I want to associate with you, but because people want you to take the initiative, that is, to take the initiative and let you do something you really want to be together, not like making a deal or negotiating.
Give you a general process suggestion:
Next time invite girls to dinner together, choose a restaurant with a warm environment (try to pay attention to some details when eating), such as helping girls with their bags when they meet. Help the girls pull out their chairs in advance when entering the restaurant. When ordering, ask the girls what taboos they have when eating. Wait a minute. These.
After dinner, choose a park with few people with girls, walk together and have a heart-to-heart talk.
Note: What you should do at this time. Go and hold hands! ! ! ! Be sure to do it. If a girl accepts your hand, it means that she has accepted you in her heart.
Next time you invite a girl, you'd better invite her to your home. If girls resist, choose when there is no one at home. It's basically ok for girls to take this job if they want to.
Just go to the girl's house next time. Many things will come naturally.
I wish you happiness