Our children are in the first grade, which is different from kindergarten. Some parents may be confused and confused about educating their children in the future. Here I give some guidance on this. I hope everyone can discuss it together. Please correct me if there is anything wrong.
Although family is the starting point and foundation of children's life development, our parents have made all preparations for their children's development. But when children enter the first grade, they begin to receive purposeful, planned and systematic school education. For children, it is still a new starting point in their growth process, which will inevitably lead to a series of changes in their life rhythm, living habits, learning activities and so on, and face many new problems. Therefore, in order to make children have greater development and educate children together, parents are expected to support teachers' work, and "three taboos": (1) avoid over-protection. Holding an only child in his hand, he put it on his chest and put it in his mouth. All the arrangements are changed to (carrying a schoolbag and holding a water cup). Let children know that when they grow up, they are already primary school students. Their life and study can't depend entirely on their parents and teachers. They can do their own things and find their own ways to solve problems and difficulties. Take part in some hard work, learn some simple labor skills, know how to open and close doors and windows, sweep the floor, clean tables and chairs, etc. Cultivate children's self-care ability, gradually reduce the care of parents or other adults, and gradually cultivate children's ability to live independently; Therefore, we should do a good job of the elderly. (2) Avoid overindulgence. Nowadays, children are all little emperors and princesses at home. Parents often know that it is unreasonable, but they can't stand their children crying and can only do everything according to him, which leads to the phenomenon that children are self-centered and grow up in abnormal environments. But after entering school, there are constraints and pressures. Maybe children will encounter some setbacks and criticisms when they grow up. As parents, children's unreasonable behavior should be criticized. (3) Avoid excessive expectations. Parents all want their children to be the phoenix, and they all want their children to take the first place in everything. Their wishes are good, but parents should be reminded that the learning burden of kindergarten is definitely different from that of grade one, and it is impossible to take 100 in the next exam as long as the children work hard.
Attention: (1) Pay attention to children's etiquette education: respect elders and parents at home (say hello when coming and going); Get into the habit of saying hello when meeting teachers and classmates. Let our children love their parents, their schools and teachers. (2) Pay attention to children's gregarious education. Sometimes some unpleasant things happen between friends, such as collision and injury, you hit me between children, I recruit you and take your favorite items. Parents should never haggle over every ounce, understand the situation and contact the teacher in time. If the teacher can't solve it, contact the school (3) Pay attention to the education of children's awareness of self-protection and safety. The game between classes and lunch break should be civilized and safe; Let's go together after school. Don't answer strangers casually. Be careful when crossing the road. Parents are late to pick up their children. Tell them not to run around and wait at the school gate. (4) Pay attention to children's collective activities. Develop the habit of strictly observing the schedule; Schools should observe discipline on time and support children to participate in group activities.
Parents' behavior four notes: First, pay attention to dressing neatly when coming to school; Second, don't smoke and throw cigarette butts after entering school; Third, * * * vest slippers into school; Fourth, don't talk about teachers behind their backs and at the school gate, but have an interview. This can be said to be the embodiment of parents' quality.
Dear parents, school education is not everything, but the school will try its best, and family education is indispensable. I hope parents pay attention. If a school wants to develop and survive, it must have the care of parents. We sincerely hope that home and school will join hands and integrate with each other!
Where should parents start to improve their children's academic performance?
First, catch your homework. It should be stipulated that children must finish their homework and check it after school. Don't rush your oral homework and review your homework.
Second, grasp the attitude. We need to concentrate, study hard and have the courage to overcome the difficulties in learning. Writing should be neat, clean and accurate, not "anticlimactic" or "dancing with the wind".
Third, grasp skills. Ask questions, do homework, be accurate, be quick, and seek quality quickly; Language expression should be clear, vivid and manual, and oral recitation should be skilled.
Fourth, grasping ability, mainly observation, attention, memory, imagination and thinking ability. We should pay attention to cultivating these abilities in all after-school studies.
Children are still young, and the beginning of training should be mandatory, that is, specific requirements, specific supervision and specific inspection. Some parents ......
How do first-grade parents educate their children well?
Many parents may think that children enter primary school mainly to learn systematic cultural knowledge. Is this view correct? I think this view is at least one-sided and undesirable. Yes, it is necessary for children to learn the cultural knowledge in the primary school system, and it is also necessary for our parents to provide learning guidance, but this is definitely not the whole of primary education, nor is it the whole of family education. The main task of primary education is to lay a solid foundation for the all-round development of children in the future. This foundation includes not only the basis of learning, but also the basis of being a man and living. To put it simply, it is necessary to gradually train students to learn how to be a man, how to live and how to learn. This is the task of our primary education, and it should also be the goal of family education. Because the direction of school education and family education is the same. Let's talk about learning to be a man first. There are many things to learn in life. For children in grade one, it is necessary to learn to be polite, respectful, caring, communicative and get along with others. More specifically, we should be polite to elders, teachers and classmates, learn to respect parents, teachers and classmates (learn to listen to and accept other people's opinions), learn to be considerate and care for parents (don't bother parents, try to reduce their burden, care about their physical and emotional state, learn to ask and comfort their parents …), learn to care for teachers, learn to help classmates, learn to sympathize with the weak, and learn to get along well with classmates (. These are the foundations of life, and laying these foundations will have a positive impact on children's life development. Facts have proved that people who respect, care for and get along with others have very good interpersonal relationships, high quality of life and high career achievements. People who don't respect people, don't care about people, and don't get along with people often have tense interpersonal relationships at home and at work, and their quality of life is poor. Their careers are often disturbed by tense interpersonal relationships, and they are depressed. Even if their careers are successful, they have no happiness. All these show how important it is to educate people from an early age. There is a study by western educators: educators have followed up thousands of children with extraordinary intelligence for more than 30 years. The results show that these children with extraordinary intelligence and excellent grades have made different achievements after entering the society. Some people have made no achievements, and their grades are even poor. Some people have outstanding achievements and excellent work and life, and they all have a sense of happiness. After research, the former group has certain defects in personality, poor ability to get along with others and communicate with others, and low emotional accomplishment; However, the latter kind of people have sound personality, good interpersonal relationship and high emotional accomplishment. Talk about study life again. There are also many contents in this respect. Our basic requirements for children are: good living habits and basic life skills. What is a habit? Habit is an automatic behavior without will. Once a good habit is formed, it will benefit people for life. The habits that children in grade one should cultivate are: the habit of going to bed early and getting up early (8: 00 p.m. and 6: 00 a.m.), the habit of brushing their teeth in the morning and evening, the habit of washing their hands before and after meals, the habit of keeping clean, the habit of often cutting their nails, the habit of having a fixed residence and so on. What life skills should first-grade children develop? The skills of dressing and undressing yourself, wearing shoes and tying shoelaces, brushing your teeth, washing your face and feet, serving your own meals, etc. All you can do is do it yourself. Most importantly, we should pay attention to training from now on. In these respects, as far as we know, the problem of children is very big. Many children can't dress and undress themselves, tie their shoelaces, brush their teeth and wash their faces, or eat. Everything that should be done by themselves is arranged by our parents. It can be said that clothes stretch and food stretches. If this continues, the consequences will be very serious. Finally, learn to learn. This aspect mainly includes three points: having a strong interest in learning, mastering reasonable learning methods and developing good study habits. These tasks are mainly accomplished by teachers in our school. Our suggestion is: pay attention to children's learning interests and habits. First of all, we should try our best to stimulate children's interest in learning. Where does the interest come from? From the encouragement of the outside world, the attraction of knowledge itself, and the successful experience of learning pinyin for beginners, it needs to be pointed out that our parents should not be impatient, be patient, be tolerant and have a developmental vision. Parents who don't know Pinyin should not teach their children Pinyin in case they make mistakes. Second, we should pay attention to cultivating children's good study habits, mainly good reading and writing habits at home (to prevent myopia ......
How do parents educate their first-grade children to do homework?
It is not a big deal for children to do their homework, but for children in kindergartens and lower grades of primary schools, they still need the supervision and guidance of their parents. Parents often have to "do homework" with their children to help them finish their homework on time and correctly. You can start from the following aspects:
Every student in our school has a homework register, which is a good helper for children's study. Every day before class, the teacher clearly wrote down the homework of the day on the blackboard and asked them to copy it in the corresponding position in the registration book. Parents urge their children to finish their homework according to the homework register every day. If you find that your child has not copied the homework record, you should educate your child in time and call the teacher to ask about the homework content.
Let children get into the habit of doing homework as soon as they get home. They must be strict with their homework and rewrite their requirements for incorrect handwriting. If there are any problems in the process of doing the project, call the teacher in time. Parents can also ask their children what they have taught every day, help students remember what they have taught today, summarize yesterday's homework, carefully analyze the reasons for the mistakes, and focus on reminding them in future study. Praise those who do well in time.
Judging from the situation of marking papers, the most serious problem is the examination of questions, so that questions are often missed or can't be understood. Mainly because the newly enrolled children are not particularly literate and lack understanding ability. In order to solve this problem, parents should consciously cultivate their children's reading habits and abilities. For example, we can ask them to look at the topic before doing it, and then talk about what the topic asks us to do. If it is wrong, parents should explain it again.
Parents should sign the book after the children finish their homework on time every day. When signing, it is not only to check the homework of the day, but also a platform for teachers and parents to communicate. If you find any problems in your study, you can write down your good opinions or suggestions in your notebook. The purpose of signing is to urge children to finish their homework on time. Some parents are very busy and just sign their names, but they don't know whether their children finish their homework item by item and whether the handwriting of the homework is correct, so they won't play a supervisory role. In addition, I found that some students didn't finish their homework and wanted to get the same reward as the students who finished their homework, so I simply signed their parents' names and suggested that parents pay attention to the signature method.
Create more literacy channels to stimulate children's interest in literacy. The first is to consolidate the new words in class and review them in time. The second is to encourage extracurricular literacy. You can read anytime, anywhere. Besides, we should form the habit of reading.
How should parents educate their first-grade children?
The problem of first-grade children is a problem that all children face. Many first-grade children have changed from kindergarten children to primary school students, which is the first change in life. He changed from an unrestrained child to a disciplined pupil at school, which is a change. What do you need most these days? It is the patience of mom and dad. The most important thing in life is to form good habits, and these most important habits are all formed in the first year of high school. So don't worry during this time, because it takes a process for people to change.
He said that his way of educating his daughter is to work hard from the first grade. When a child goes to primary school, tell her how to eat, how to do homework, and how to control time. The first thing to do when you go home is to wash your hands, eat something to exercise, and then do your homework. When doing homework, you must keep your eyes at a certain distance from the desktop, and you must not lower your head. You must hold the pencil in the right posture. I don't care how you write, I just tell you to have the right posture. Then he took a small stick, which he called "the godmother's stick". This stick is small, as thin as chopsticks. Dad sat by, watching the child's posture, knocking at her, bending down to knock her, all very lightly, either hitting the child or reminding her. (emphasis: it's not a fight, it's just a reminder, and besides, it can't be reprimanded. He also doesn't check the homework for the child, let her check it herself and do everything by herself. All these rules, he told the child, and then worked with her.
After six months of persistence, the child will be different from others, sitting and standing, with good writing posture and beautiful handwriting. Then it lasted for half a year, and for a whole year, the child developed good habits. Put away all your books and schoolbags first thing after finishing your homework every day. Then every night when I sleep, I take off my clothes and put them under, then take them off one by one, and finally put my socks on them. The next morning, because I love to lose my socks, I put them on first and then put on other clothes. Her bookcase is neat, too. So I told many parents later that you should help children form good habits in the first grade. If an action lasts 2 1 day, it will become a habit, so parents should be patient. Parents should not label their children yet, as long as you educate them properly, they will certainly do it!
How to educate first-grade children
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First, children's lack of interest in learning is the main reason for their poor study. Interest in learning is the source of motivation for learning activities, especially for primary school students. They are young, have poor self-control, have great blindness in learning and are easily disturbed by the outside world. Only when children have a strong interest in learning will they take the initiative to learn, learn for a long time and improve their academic performance. The survey shows that most students with strong interest in learning and strong consciousness can concentrate on listening, concentrating, using their brains, asking questions and finishing their homework on time. However, those students who lack interest in learning are often passive, inattentive and perfunctory. When encountering difficulties, they are prone to negative fear of difficulties and regard learning as a burden. Second, children who have just entered school are only interested in the learning process and external activities. With the deepening of learning and the guidance of correct education, children begin to be interested in the content and results of learning. From about the third grade, children prefer relatively novel homework that requires independent thinking. There is no difference in children's interest in learning at first, and under the influence of education, they gradually have different interests in different subjects. We often hear children say which subject I like, mainly depending on whether their grades are good or not. Children's interest in subjects is unstable at the beginning of school age. Children like subjects with good grades and are in a good mood. If their grades are not good, they will feel painful. Therefore, parents in primary school should pay attention to improving their children's academic performance, which is one of the important ways to maintain and improve their children's interest in learning. Third, why do children hate preschool parents to indulge their children and fail to cultivate their interest in learning? After the children go to school, parents are uncharacteristically urging them all day. Do you think that children will still have the enthusiasm for learning? "Learning" comes from parents' mouths and becomes a huge burden for children. Learning has become a painful thing. As a result, children began to be tired of learning, thinking that learning was for their parents and perfunctory. Therefore, parents should pay attention to let their children put down their ideological burdens, give them some freedom, create a comfortable environment for their children, and restore, maintain and improve their interest in learning. How to cultivate children's interest in learning 1, the role of parents as role models. Practice is better than precept. Parents' love for learning is the greatest encouragement to their children. Children who grow up in an environment with a strong learning atmosphere often have a strong interest in learning. 2. Parents and children study together. Children who have just entered school have poor self-discipline, so parents can spend more time with them, pay more attention to their children's studies, understand their homework and help correct their mistakes in time. 3. Take your children to a science museum or a museum. It can stimulate children's curiosity and thirst for knowledge and enhance their interest in learning. 4. You can stimulate your child's interest in learning from a certain specialty of your child. Every child has advantages. Parents can use their children's advantages, specialties and success to cultivate their interest and perseverance in learning and achieve better results. 5. Encourage praise. Parents should praise and encourage their children more and blame and abuse less. Children have self-esteem. When children's achievements are recognized by everyone, they will feel proud. This gentle way of praise is easily accepted by children, and children will not lose interest in learning because of poor grades. 6. Strive to improve children's grades. Improving children's grades is the most important and effective way to cultivate children's interest in learning. Parents should strive to improve their children's academic performance, even in a certain subject. 7, the target tilt method. Psychologists tell us that when people are working hard or studying, happy rewards should be arranged in front of "painful" homework. In other words, no matter how painful the homework is, as long as there is what you expect most, you won't feel particularly painful. This is the "target tilt method". Parents can design two "goal inclination methods" for their children to improve their learning efficiency. 1, the "target inclination method" of "suffering first and then enjoying". Learn about the TV programs that children want to watch first, and set the period before watching as their own study time. In this way, children are not only willing to accept, but also learn more than usual, and the effect is good. 2. The "goal inclination method" of "having fun first, then suffering". The child is watching his favorite picture book or TV program. If he is interrupted, the child will be unhappy, even disgusted and rebellious. Even if you study, you will be absent-minded or do your homework at will, and the learning effect will not be good. Instead, parents might as well adjust their time and wait for their children to draw books or watch TV before guiding their children to learn. Parents must understand that time is the key to improving efficiency and can be adjusted if necessary.
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How do parents educate first-year boys?
Motivate children
The best way is to encourage. Criticism is the biggest enemy of children's self-confidence. Try to emphasize the child's advantages and ignore his shortcomings, and the child's self-confidence will be improved. China parents should learn from American parents. China's parents give priority to criticism, while American parents give priority to praise. Therefore, American children have stronger self-confidence than China children.
Children must be encouraged to make progress and do better. Children who grow up with encouragement are full of confidence and keep moving forward. We should learn to be parents who applaud our children.
Don't rush no matter whether your grades are good or bad. Encourage and trust children to do well, and children will do well. Let children know that it is his responsibility to read good books, not the responsibility of parents. The future and life belong to the children themselves. No matter how much parents love their children, they can't take the place of their children in their lives. Tell him that those who study well and those who don't study well will come to the social hierarchy. Tell him you have 100% confidence in him. If he studies hard, he will get excellent grades. Don't rush him to make his own arrangements. If you especially urge him, just
The children will think that learning is your business. Even if he did it under your supervision, he thought he was studying for you, not for himself. Then once he loses your supervision, he won't study. Can you supervise him for life?
Believe in children and praise them constantly.
It is often said: Son, I am glad to see that you have been studying hard. I hope to make persistent efforts. You have great potential. Give full play to it. You're great.
First-grade parents talk about how to cultivate their children's good study habits
First, cultivate children's habit of careful preview before class. After my daughter enters primary school from kindergarten, first of all, I want her to know that she is now a primary school student, and her main task is to study. In order to improve her study efficiency, she must make some preparations before class. For example, every night, we should prepare the books, sharpened pencils and other school supplies for the next day in advance according to the curriculum, and prepare them as much as possible. This will not only avoid running around the next morning, but also ensure that you can bring all your learning tools the next day and won't develop the bad habit of "forgetting things". At home, at the beginning, I patiently instructed my children how to organize their school supplies and how to put them neatly. Let the child persist for a period of time, and she will gradually form a habit. After half a year's training, my daughter can gradually prepare the necessary school supplies independently, and I will evaluate and reward her in time according to her preparation. Over the past six months, my daughter has gradually developed a good habit of previewing before class with repeated encouragement. Second, cultivate children's habit of previewing before class. For my first-grade daughter, my Chinese preview requirements are: draw a picture, read the text aloud, and outline words and sentences that I don't know or understand. Second, ask your parents about words or phrases they don't know, and learn and write them down by yourself. Third, analyze the text and talk about the main content of the text. It is best to use pictures to express the meaning of words. Answer 4. Try to answer homework questions after class. Fifth, ask questions that you still don't understand after previewing. "If you have doubts, you will enter"; Curious will be interested. Children go to class with problems and focus on problems that preview can't solve. In class, they can have a positive, relaxed psychological state and full of self-confidence, which is the psychological advantage needed for successful study. Take the initiative to learn, go forward, be in a good mood and be full of confidence, and your grades will be good. Good grades, more active learning, stronger interest in learning and better grades will form a virtuous circle chain. Therefore, it is particularly important to cultivate the habit of previewing before class. At the same time, it is also the most effective way to cultivate self-study habits and improve self-study ability. Third, cultivate children's habit of reviewing after class. Ushinski, a Russian educator, once compared the inability to grasp knowledge firmly to a drunk coachman who forgot to tie up what he put in the car and never looked back. He just walked on without knowing what he had lost. As a result, he had to drive home empty. The story of China's "blind bear breaking corn" is well known to all women and children. Every time the blind bear breaks off a corn, he puts it under his arm and throws away the old corn. After such a busy time, there is only one corn. Therefore, only scientific review can have good results. Parents' guidance is also needed. In order to review after class, she needs to do two things well: second, read books carefully. Reviewing reading is carried out on the basis of previewing, attending lectures and recalling, and there will be new gains and experiences. When reading a book, you can compare it from time to time to see how it is written in the book and how the teacher teaches it, so as to deepen your understanding of knowledge. For the part that has been memorized and understood in the lecture, you can spend less time; You should let your children know what you don't understand, ask what you don't understand, and make up the knowledge you didn't learn well in time. Different learning contents should pay attention to reviewing one sentence alternately, so as to facilitate the exchange of knowledge, review the old and learn the new, and thus firmly grasp the knowledge. Fourth, cultivating children's habit of finishing homework seriously is the sublimation of classroom teaching. Homework can check children's learning effect, consolidate what they have learned in class and deepen their understanding of textbook knowledge. Ask the children to do "what can they do today" and finish all the homework of the day independently according to the teacher's requirements. Doing so can not only consolidate what you learned that day, but also prevent you from forming the bad habit of procrastination. My first-grade daughter has not developed the habit of finishing her homework carefully, which is very important for her future development. I must first cultivate my daughter's habit of writing carefully. For example, when writing new words, I asked her to do "three things": eyes, heart and hands. When the eyes see it, the eyes should see the word structure clearly; When the heart is here, the font should be kept in mind; The hand is here, and the handwriting is correct and beautiful. I often hold competitions at home, show her beautifully written homework and write him some encouraging comments for the guests at home to watch. After the implementation of this exhibition system, her enthusiasm for learning has been greatly strengthened and her interest has become stronger and stronger. In this way, the habit of doing homework carefully will be formed unconsciously. Fifth, train children to find mistakes and correct them in time. ......
How should parents teach their children when they are in the first grade?
Suggestions are: follow the study in the first semester, learn "semi-follow" in the second semester, if not, follow the study again, and finally "follow the study secretly" You can't give up at the beginning of primary school. How can you gain without paying? When we climb the hill with our children, we sow knowledge and feelings. Otherwise, how can you say, "son, I love you, and I really paid for you!" " "Case: A child, not long after school started, was found by the teacher that the child often couldn't finish his homework, so he communicated with his mother. As soon as he spoke, he felt that the mother should have more educational books and a certain understanding of education. The teacher talked about the child's situation, and the mother said disapprovingly, "Teacher, I didn't take care of his homework because I wanted him to develop the habit of finishing his homework independently from an early age." "I think many parents also have this idea, but you have to analyze whether your child has this ability now! ! If you let go before the child has this ability, the child will fall! ! If the homework is not completed, the teacher will criticize and the children will gradually dislike the teacher. Criticism will inevitably affect children's learning mood. Will children have a strong interest in learning in the long run? After a long time, children's grades will drop, they will be tired of learning and can't finish their homework! Mother realized the seriousness of the problem and asked the teacher what to do. The teacher asked her to study with the child. Sure enough, the child's homework was finished and the teacher praised her. So far, she has been studying all the way and became The monitor on duty. Through the above cases, tell parents that children are constantly adapting to a new way of learning when they first enter primary school. If he has not cultivated super independent self-care ability (life and learning ability) in early childhood, the help and guidance of parents is particularly important at this time. " Follow-up, semi-follow-up, follow-up and finally "hidden follow-up" are exercises that children complete independently. !