Wake up the sleeping lion inside you! Wake up the sleeping lion in your heart!

I always try to greet every day as if it were my last. I am grateful for what I have, I am passionate about my work, and I accept everyone with love and care. In just two and a half years, I have never achieved anything.

For billionaires. I hope I can pass on some of my ideas to more people and help them make endless progress, breakthrough and growth in any aspect. Please believe that each of us has unlimited potential, just whether you have to. Please remember: I can, so can you.

In order to do effective life potential management, you must understand the ultimate goal of life from negative to positive. What exactly do you want? What is the most important thing in your life? What do you want to accomplish most in your life? Maybe you never really thought about it. ...

Life potential management is to manage yourself and the surrounding resources in a systematic way to achieve the purpose of life. The difference between winners and losers is that winners can manage themselves, motivate themselves and allocate time effectively, while losers can't. To deal with events, we need to know their priorities and solve them according to the priority order of crisis events (important and urgent) and high productivity events (important but not urgent).

Must-know questions about life potential

In order to do effective life potential management, you must understand the ultimate goal of life. What exactly do you want? What is the most important thing in your life? What do you want to accomplish most in your life? Maybe you've never really thought about it. However, if you don't know these answers, your life will be like a ship that doesn't know how to dock in the harbor and can only drift with the tide in the boundless sea.

The following questions have been considered by the top successful people in the world, and all of them have reached similar results in the end. If you can find the answers one by one, you will effectively inspire amazing life potential.

Question 1: What is the meaning of my life, that is, where is the purpose of my life?

If people want to be happy in the world, they must feel the importance of their own existence. If they don't even know their own purpose, they will be blind all their lives and lose their direction. Knowing the meaning of everything, it is easy to find a good practice method. Please think carefully and ask yourself again and again. This is a very important question.

Question 2: Who am I? What kind of person do I want to be?

You must find yourself and who you want to be. Many people work hard, thinking that they will be happy if they reach a certain goal, such as buying a house, getting married and having children, and earning 10 million yuan, but usually these efforts are very painful, and the happiness after reaching them is very short-lived. I'll give you a suggestion: no matter what you get, you can't stay happy! The condition of continuous happiness is to be your ideal person. Fortunately, mankind has made a great discovery, that is, people can become their ideal characters through thinking and changing. There are many answers to this question, and multiple self-images can be set.

Question 3: What are my values and beliefs?

Most people's values are formed by their environment, and few people's values are designed by themselves. And people usually make decisions through values and beliefs (that is, ideas), and then produce actions and results. So what is decided is the distribution of value grades. The so-called value grades are what is more important and what is not. In the course "Dating with Success" I offer, I especially guide students to find the meaning of life, find the ideal person they want to be, re-establish values and beliefs, and design the structure of life by themselves, instead of letting the environment constantly affect you. Usually, 80% of the students who have finished the seminar have a similar breakthrough, so it is conceivable how important it is for a person to find the meaning of life.

Question 4: What is my life strategy?

How do you realize the meaning of life, become an ideal person, find back your values and beliefs, and find back the motivation of life?

Question 5: What are the five goals for this year?

Question 6: What are the short-term goals at present?

Question 7: What are the actions to be done every day?

The answers to the above questions can be constantly revised.

Here are some basic examples of myself.

The meaning of life:

The meaning of life two years ago: be a caring person and bring love to others.

The adjusted meaning of life: to become a model of balanced and successful development of all mankind, to inspire individuals to realize their ideals, to promote world harmony and to create a better world.

After recent adjustment, my life significance is to constantly improve and create outstanding life and life value, and help all mankind achieve balanced success.

Who am I?

I am a person who makes the impossible possible.

Second, I am the source of great contributions.

Third, I am the answer for tomorrow.

Fourth, I am a miracle of modern people.

I am a wonderful flower of modern times.

6. I am the hope of mankind.

I am every dark candle.

Eight, I am a catalyst for growth.

I am the most sincere friend of people.

I am an artist of life.

Values:

Health, vitality, love and warmth, gratitude, happiness, balance, progress, dedication, Excellence, respect, dedication and sharing.

Faith:

First of all, it is never too old to learn.

Second, the role model of modern people.

Third, I will always imitate Excellence.

If you can write the answers to the above questions better, your potential will be more effectively stimulated. You can also apply the above questions to other aspects, and you can fully stimulate your potential. That is, at work, ask the same questions emotionally and physically, and write answers similar to pyramid figures. As shown in the figure:

Take me as an example again:

Example 1:

Purpose of work: constantly endow human beings with value, help them break through themselves and let them create the life they want.

Who am I? A coach who teaches others how to succeed.

Values: attitude, honesty, service, efficiency and respect.

Faith: I will always find newer, better and faster ways to create better results.

Example 2:

Physical purpose: to show strength, vitality and balance.

Who am I? World-class athletes.

Example 3:

The purpose of money: to grow stronger and stronger, to help people less fortunate than me and to help the society build a better environment.

Who am I? (1) I am a giant promoting charity. (2) I am an artist who creates beautiful experiences.

Values: growth, expansion, beauty, sharing, dedication and system.

Faith: (1) I am the best educator in the world. (2) I am a living artist, turning my surroundings into works of art.

Strategy: Donate 10% of income every month.

Example 4:

Emotional purpose: share experience, encourage and support each other, build an ideal team and make more contributions to society.

Who am I? (1) I am a romantic. (2) I am a model husband. (3) I am a gentle and considerate person.

Values: trust, romance, surprise, respect and sharing.

Faith: I always respect each other's feelings.

Strategy: I constantly let the other person know that she is the most important, constantly support what she does, and constantly share my current situation and my common life with the other person.

According to examples, you can also list your pyramids in all aspects and make clear your direction.

Pursuing values and escaping values

Value is divided into indirect value and terminal value. Indirect value is often expressed by nouns, while terminal value is a feeling, and the life value we want to set is terminal value.

For example, what is the most important thing in one's life? The answer he gave you was nouns, such as family and career, and indirect value. If his answer is a feeling, such as happiness, Excellence, etc. , which is an end value. The final value is divided into pursuing value and escaping value.

I take myself as an example.

Values two years ago:

Pursuit-oriented values: freedom, success, love, excitement, happiness, dedication, safety, excitement and health.

Avoidant values: stress, boredom, loneliness, inconsistency, rejection, physical pain, fatigue, dispute, embarrassment and criticism.

From the above values, we can judge the rhythm, advantages, bottlenecks and breakthroughs of this person's daily life.

The value can be adjusted.

In the past, I listed freedom as the first item in my pursuit of guiding values, but there is a contradictory law: I think freedom means doing what I want at any time, being with the person I like, no matter what the situation is, not being controlled by anyone. In fact, this kind of freedom simply hinders the freedom of others and is impossible to achieve. Knowing that true freedom is actually freedom of thought, I removed freedom from values, because values actually limited my pursuit of freedom. I finally understand that everyone has freedom. His freedom is to choose what he wants to feel, what he wants to do and what he wants to live.

Through the method of self-breakthrough, the following are my adjusted values:

Pursuit-oriented values: faith, gratitude, health and vitality, love and warmth, enthusiasm, Excellence, laughter, happiness, growth, best, sense of accomplishment, wisdom, respect, sincerity, devotion, dedication and innovation.

Escape from values: unhealthy, inconsistent, angry, unsystematic, negative thinking.

After adjusting my values, I have changed a lot, and I use practical actions every day to get the feeling I want. In order to have faith, I suggest goals to myself every morning and cultivate self-confidence. Be grateful and ask yourself questions in the morning. For health, do warm-up exercises and eat fruits and vegetables every day. In order to feel love and warmth, I smile at others, express my gratitude to others, and speak with the truest feelings. There is a feeling of Excellence, whenever you make a little progress or find the advantages of others. Happiness means watching movies, trying new things and traveling. In order to do my best, I insist on using the methods I have taught and keep a balanced life. In order to have a sense of accomplishment, I began to take classes to help others break through. Every morning when I get up, I feel infinite achievements because of my existence. So the values you design will make you grow and progress.

How to adjust the original values and design the life you want?

Some of the original values are very good, we can keep them and make them better, while those lacking positive significance can be removed.

The reasons why a person can't succeed are as follows:

First, the purpose is vague: it is difficult to do anything.

Second, the contradiction of rules: the set rules make you unable to get what you want most.

Third, according to the rules, you will still hurt.

Fourth, breaking the rules will make you happy.

It is always right to stick to your own rules: make it difficult for others to get along with him.

Sixth, take life too seriously: it makes life tense and the pace is too fast.

None of the above six can make you live the life you want. What can you do to realize the meaning and value of life? You need to do the following.

First, choose and find the purpose of life.

Second, relax your rules.

Third, the rules for resolving contradictions.

Fourth, the rules you design should be "If you follow the rules, you will be happy."

If you break the rules, you will get pain.

Before you do anything, you should know each other's rules.

Seven, let yourself relax.

Please ask yourself, is life to enjoy or to make yourself happy? Generally speaking, people think that to realize the ideal, there is only pain but no enjoyment of the process. This is only their restrictive belief, so they can't achieve all-round and balanced development.

balanced development

Balanced development comes from:

First, fully enjoy every process of life.

Second, enjoy the process and achieve the ideal goal.

Third, give the surrounding environment unparalleled value.

Fourth, do what you like best.

It is not easy to maintain a balanced life, because everyone's balance point is different. Therefore, if a person is balanced, he will definitely face imbalance. Therefore, to maintain a balance, we must constantly break through innovation.

How to find out the value hierarchy

Step 1: Ask yourself, "What is the most important thing?" List it.

If the answer is not feeling, turn it into feeling. For example, if the answer is "family", ask "How does family make you feel?" List all kinds of feelings.

Step 2: Write down your feelings in order of importance.

Step 3: Ask yourself, "What do you hate most?" List it.

Step 4: Arrange the order according to the degree of annoyance.

Step 5: Ask yourself the following questions.

Question 1: What are the advantages of queuing according to the original value?

Question 2: According to the arrangement of the original values, what loss will it have to me in the long run?

Question 3: What beliefs and values should I stick to in order to achieve my goals and ideals in life?

Question 4: How should we arrange the order of these values in order to make ourselves grow up for a long time and maintain a balanced and all-round development?

Question 5: What other values can help me by going up a flight of stairs? Where should a value be ranked?

Question 6: What values have a negative impact on me? Should it be deleted or postponed?

Question 7: In order to achieve the goals and ideals in all aspects of life, what negative emotions and behaviors should I try to avoid, so as to maintain a good attitude and performance?

How to create a successful life

Method 1: the meaning of life is based on the principle of simplicity and power, giving words vitality and action.

Method 2: when choosing the law of life, we should take what is easy to do as the standard. Moreover, rules should have multiple choices like menus and can be controlled by themselves. No matter what happens, they can enjoy every process through their own choices.

Whether you are thinking about the purpose of life for the first time or not, the above are all systematic ways for you to manage your life potential. You might as well think about it one by one and list it on paper.

Commitment to action

In order to help you make your life potential explode, please write down your action commitment seriously and carefully after reading this article, and please be sure to implement it.

1. What do you think is the most important thing you have learned after reading this chapter?

2. What is the most important thing in your life? What do you want most?

Please write down the answers carefully according to the questions in this chapter. Your life is about to change.

4. Take control of life and promise "I must act immediately and never give up!" , and sign it.