? It has been 1 1 year since I got married in Shaanxi. In addition to the first year, I went back to my parents' house during the Spring Festival. For various reasons, I didn't go back to my parents' house during the Spring Festival in the next ten years. The second year was because I spent the New Year in other places. In the third year, because the child was too young, it was not made. In the next six years, my father-in-law and my husband's grandmother died one after another. For six years in a row, six aunts and sisters will go home on the second day of the following year. Then I will be busy before the meeting. Because of the hostess's identity, I will be busy with my family's affairs, and then I will entertain the guests. I never went back to my mother's house. The next day, because there are many relatives in my husband's family, I started classes on the eighth day after leaving my relatives, because of the nature of my work. I can't delay. For the next three years, I couldn't go back because of the epidemic. Two treasures have been added this year, plus the epidemic situation. The road back to my mother's house was blocked again.
Fortunately, because my parents always consider my difficulties from my standpoint, I am used to not going back, and my husband's family has forgotten that I have a home. The most terrible thing seems to be that I am used to not going back and have no expectations. Because I can't go back, I let my parents stay at home by train every year, except for taking care of me and Bauer for nearly half a year last year, at most for more than a month. My parents are old and in poor health, my father has a sick eye, can't see clearly in one eye, and has diplopia. Coupled with severe calcium deficiency, low back pain, various diseases and epidemics, my father always said that I don't know how many more times I can come, and I can't run. Every time I say this, I feel sad.
My husband finally said a word of conscience that day: "Your parents are lucky not to care." During the Spring Festival, I often see Aunt Liu visiting her mother-in-law. I feel very sad and feel sorry for my parents.
? Mother-in-law is a person who is afraid of trouble. On the second day of this year, Aunt Liu stayed at home at night with her brother-in-law and children, just like in previous years. My mother-in-law has been complaining that there is no water in the pot and there is too much garbage on the ground. I said, mom, you should be happy. It will be clean if everyone doesn't come back. Like me, my mother wants to make a mess at home. My mother-in-law said directly, "Are you going back? You won't go back yourself. " I almost broke the defense in an instant, and a word came to my mind. I'm really cold when I'm angry. Speaking of this topic before, my mother-in-law said, "You and your parents often make video calls, but you can still come and live. What are you doing back? " She forgot that she was also a bride far away. In that poor era, she would go to her parents' house every year on the third day of the New Year's Eve, with a big bag and a small bag for more than a month. She forgot about her uncle and aunt. Now I can't go back to my parents' home every year to receive my in-laws and relatives, to save money, to children and to make money, but I have a cold. "Why don't you go back?" A word broke my heart. People are always like this, and the injured people always give in again and again.
? My mother says that a woman who marries far away has only one relative. My dad said that they actually saw the future, and the number of times they can meet in this life can be counted. Marry the beginning of life and tell your parents that the train from Shanxi to Shaanxi only takes eight or nine hours. Very convenient. But in real life, there are all kinds of obstacles and restrictions. It is the farthest distance from the husband's family to the bride's family.
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