Morrow has a saying: Everyone is a prisoner of his own experience.
In other words, everyone is a frog in his own well. His world is the sky he can see, and everyone's sky is different. The process of human growth is to constantly fill one's own well and see the bigger sky. During the process of filling the well, you may open some windows. Some people open the east window, some open the west window, and they see different scenery. Different growth environments and education levels determine the depth of the well. Different life experiences open different windows, thus forming different cognitive systems for the world, and only then are unique individuals created.
There is a saying that the current you includes the books you have read, the road you have traveled and the people you have loved, which appears in many emotional bloggers’ articles and certain signatures. This is actually a very clear statement of fact. Your three views are formed by your life experiences. For many people who do not read, experience, or build their own knowledge system, their values ??can only come from the influence of people around them, or those within their sight. And whose voice is louder will inevitably affect his value tendency. This is a good explanation for why most of what people see on the Internet now are Internet celebrity faces, and why many people want to look like Internet celebrity faces. In fact, it's just that their voices are louder.
Today’s Internet era, especially mobile social media, has brought a collaborative filtering mechanism. Everyone only subscribes to the information they want to know, only listens to the voices they want to hear, and then finally finds friends with similar interests on the Internet. It seems like a beautiful and harmonious reunion, but based on this group-filtered information mechanism, when there are no longer any other voices or slightly different opinions in a person's world, it will inevitably lead to his original cognition and attitude becoming more and more serious. Intensification and intolerance in many places. It may even form a group-polarized Internet ecology and produce so-called Internet mobs.
From the Internet to life, in reality it has become increasingly difficult for two different groups to form pleasant and friendly conversations, and they may even get stuck in dissatisfaction with each other's lifestyles, and gradually form a normal state. After all, there is not the same underground river underneath every well. In fact, hard barriers have long blocked the flow of water, leaving only small puddles. What is even more desperate is that it is a place that the tide can never reach.
In fact, we never require good interaction between each different individual. However, you should have a minimum of respect. If you are still unable to have rational conversations with others, you may even try to use your own standards to demand others. You might as well go back and take a look. Your well may still be very deep.