Note from seniors: As a senior who understands both women and men best, I can not only give guidance to the majority of juniors who are confused on the journey of love, but also won’t be partial. Juniors are equally important! Therefore, not only juniors but also junior girls signed up for one-on-one guidance. They also received emotional guidance from seniors, learned knowledge about sexual emotions, learned how to flirt with men, and more importantly, learned how to improve themselves. Value, how to seduce people invisibly without showing any trace! What the senior is going to publish today is a growth diary written by one-to-one student "Ting Meng Da". She has been studying with the senior for less than a month and has made rapid progress. Let's see how she finds her own way! Over the years, I have become accustomed to doing business. In order to keep a clear mind, I have forced myself to quit being emotional and sensational. Therefore, I am a female man with a male mindset. I am only good at solving problems and not good at expressing emotions. But I hope that what I wrote will be helpful to you who are flirting with men.
When I met the senior last year, it was through a phone consultation. At that time, one senior only cost 350 yuan an hour! Haha, you want 500 yuan now! ! ! After chatting for an hour, I realized that my life of more than 20 years had been in vain. Your sister, my senior is really a master in love, and he has attracted countless women and men. The senior not only shared with me the principles of how women attract men, but also discussed with me why those rich men did not marry those stunningly beautiful goddesses, but instead found some less good-looking girls, such as some female sports stars? This question got me thinking.
I have been pestering my seniors to ask: How to become a goddess? How can we get Gao Fushuai? What I still don’t understand is why the people around me who are not as good-looking as me in body and temperament can still successfully seduce some men of good value?
After the senior talked to me, I felt that I still had more to say, so I kept pestering the senior! My senior was really busy, so he suggested that I get long-term guidance. I knew that becoming a goddess was not a short-term process, so I signed up for the senior's one-to-one long-term guidance.
After receiving one-on-one guidance, the senior communicated with me a lot in the early stage, and even discussed my family of origin, my growth experience, my emotional experience, etc., and finally gave me some guidance based on my personal situation. gave me a rough framework. The senior asked me to make an improvement plan based on my own situation!
The daily life of a goddess
First of all, what is a goddess? Why be a goddess? Is the goddess just what the Internet says is fair, beautiful, and long-legged? Is the family rich and prosperous? Yes and no! I often see that many girls around me are from wealthy families and have sweet looks, but they have endured the exploitation and violence of their boyfriends for a long time and are reluctant to leave. I have also seen many girls from ordinary families who are doted on by their husbands. Every time I see her, I feel that she is more and more beautiful. Therefore, the term "goddess" is not limited to external conditions, but also refers to inner creation. Therefore, the success rate of goddesses in sultry is much higher than that of ordinary women.
Of course, I am not saying that everyone does not pay attention to appearance. Appearance must be paid attention to. Get a hairstyle that suits you, change into clean and refreshing clothes that can highlight your temperament, and wear beautiful high heels to make up. A light and elegant makeup is perfect to add a bit of confidence to yourself. It would be even better if you can be stricter about your weight. I think it is easy to do this. You can find relevant video tutorials on the Internet. , so no more words. I summarized how ordinary girls can become goddesses step by step through hard work! The first thing to understand is:
The goddess is very busy!
The goddess is very busy!
We often say that goddesses are very busy, and they have to make reservations in advance to eat. The kind of girl who rushes over as soon as she calls for dinner and mahjong is definitely not a goddess.
A boss who sells spicy large intestines in the vegetable market downstairs in our house added my WeChat account (I actually really like eating it, and this is the first time I have disclosed such a taste-heavy hobby. The large intestines in this restaurant The supply exceeds the demand, and I am a person who really doesn’t like to carry cash, so I added WeChat to facilitate transfers). After my boss looked at my circle of friends, he often asked me, girl, what do you do for a living? I found that your life seems to be very interesting. ! yes! The life of a goddess is not only interesting but also very fulfilling. She may have to get up early every day to put on makeup and pick up clothes that fit her well. After work, she also has to read some books, check her mobile phone to follow the news, and go to the gym to stay in shape. I sweat a lot, carry a small bag on my back, and take a suitcase with me on a trip. Every time I go to a place, I write down my feelings at the time. Sometimes I even see a boy who writes good calligraphy. In order to strike up a conversation with him, I will practice calligraphy hard for a month, and then send an open circle of friends in the hope that the master can give me some advice.
Maybe you can tell me what to do, but how can a straight man tell a green tea bitch? Distinguishing green tea bitches is a woman's specialty, straight men don't have this ability! I used to know a boy who had an elegant temperament and would read at a certain time every day, two hours a day. In order to get boys to notice me, I would often take pictures of myself reading in Moments, with some literary captions, and it didn’t take long for me to hook up with him.
Opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. You never know what kind of boy you will like at the next moment, so it is really a good idea to have more skills and hobbies. This can't help but remind me of the recent situation. Gao Xiaoqin in the popular "In the Name of the People" started from scratch, but in order to be able to catch up with a wave of old bureaucrats who loved Chinese culture, she went to study Peking Opera professionally. She sang "Wits" at the dinner table and became a famous actor. A model of high-value display (of course that is a hidden thread in the TV series, so I won’t explain it here, just focus on the value display).
The goddess has to watch her words and actions: just give up when you see something good!
The goddess has to watch her words and actions: just give up when you see something good!
It was Gao Xiaoqin in "In the Name of the People". When he was playing golf with Qi Tongwei, director of the Provincial Public Security Department, he found that the other party had no intention of playing, so he promptly terminated the conversation on the grounds that the weather was too hot, and cleverly Avoiding the useless topics that may appear below (Qi Tongwei was in a bad mood and did not follow Gao Xiaoqin's words), on the contrary, Ouyang Jing, the wife of Municipal Party Committee Secretary Li Dakang, is also a very capable woman, and her aggressiveness did not get the ideal love she wanted. , but pushes men further and further away, but enough is not limited to conversations. For example, before, I met a handsome man with a BMW who even had an LV suitcase. To be honest, I liked him very much and wanted to hold my phone and chat with him until midnight every day. But I am a goddess, I am at 23 o'clock I have to sleep before! I cannot give others the feeling that I am idle and empty! The most important point is that at 23 o'clock every day, people's mood swings are the most. The topics at this time may not be nutritious, and are very likely to have adverse side effects.
So every time I end the topic, I use the excuse that I have to work tomorrow and I need to take a beauty sleep. Sometimes I will even be a little naughty and deliberately not reply, and then reply with a message similar to last night the next day. Too sleepy, fell asleep message to start the next day's contact. The first time we met was at BMW's Fourth Son store, where he was doing car maintenance, and my car was not a BMW. In order to meet in a subtle way, I told him that the Audi Fourth Son store here didn't seem to be working very well. I was upset that the problem with the car's squeaking had not been found. He immediately answered and said that the Audi Four Sons store in the district was definitely better than the ones in the suburbs, and it was right next to the BMW Four Sons store. He knew the manager there and asked me to drive over and have a look, so I followed my example and walked slowly. I drove over (remember, the goddess is very busy, she is not a puppy, she will be there as soon as she calls).
Later, before we met, I deliberately took the wrong road and called to ask for directions, so I easily got his phone number (I admit that I am very low-level, but who told me to be a female driver!) We are waiting. While I was repairing my car, I went to see a movie to kill time. After I came back, he insisted on inviting me to dinner, but I went home decisively on the grounds that I had something else to do (I would rather drink porridge at home than agree to his invitation again. What's your purpose? I was here to repair my car, not to eat.) Not long after I got home, he sent me a box of half-chicken and half-egg eggs, saying they were good for my migraine... My house is no less than 30 meters away from the place that sells eggs. kilometer. When getting along with boys, you must not wear off most of your freshness for the first time. Limit the first meeting to about an hour, and the first blind date to about 25 minutes. Men are hunters. They like hunting and challenges. The more difficult the prey, the more difficult the prey is to show off their awesomeness. Therefore, don’t end the conversation hastily when no one has anything to talk about, or even forcefully continue the topic. These are not advisable.
In the goddess’s circle of friends, even the photos are of the goddess!
Do you have that kind of girl around you? It’s okay if she doesn’t speak in real life, but when she speaks, she looks like a deflated inflatable doll. It’s better not to speak. As for me, I used to be this type of person. I talked a lot, had a loud voice, and laughed... the kind that would give you nightmares. The key point is that my circle of friends is very funny, and I also think I am quite cute. If you have the above behaviors, then congratulations, you are a female loser in the eyes of boys or even a male equivalent.
Everything from the small circle of friends to the large photos to the connected songs shared are carefully selected, okay? I bought a camera phone specifically for taking pictures, which has a built-in beauty effect. I wanted to do it at various angles and with various backgrounds, and then I only chose the one that I thought looked best. Do you think that everything will be fine once you have chosen it? Already? Big mistake, I need a p-picture! ! Try various filters, adjust brightness, contrast, background blur, etc. The last seemingly inadvertent snapshot appeared in my circle of friends, accompanied by some literary and fresh text... Do you think the male god will like it? What are you thinking about? ! This is just to get rid of some loser men, because such photos and captions are enough to deter some loser men. Remember that the Moments you post are not only for high-value display, but also to screen the other party, save time, and seize the initiative. right. Do you think I talk too much? Why don't you start flirting with your male idol? Hmm... I talk a lot, but aren't you the one who falls into the trap? Touch your bra cup and talk! Being eager for success will only make the male god feel your overwhelming need. Do you think the male god has never seen a girl? Not only has he met girls, but he has seen a lot of beautiful girls.
What you think is good will also be considered good by others. Otherwise, why would there be so many people wearing the same clothes on the road? How can the iPhone become an arcade machine?
Don’t bring funny things into WeChat Moments. You can be funny occasionally, but don’t make people think that you display all the good and bad things in WeChat Moments like a two-yuan supermarket, letting people pick and choose. .
In fact, goddess is just a pronoun. She is synonymous with independent, confident, mentally strong, gentle, graceful, intelligent and other positive women. She is a model of high self-control. To say that she is a goddess, she may last three days and three nights. I can’t finish it. From the first day I met my senior, I knew what kind of path I wanted to take and what kind of help he could give me. However, the senior could not walk for me on the road under my feet. I could only walk slowly and step by step. Walk slowly. These few months have been a lifestyle I have never had before. Because I want a higher value match, I picked up old skills, picked up guzheng, picked up piano, picked up soft pen calligraphy, went to the gym again, and pushed myself every day Make plans for yourself, study plans, time planning, increase interests and hobbies, spend money and effort to build a higher-end circle of friends (not the circle of friends on WeChat). Who knows how much I don’t like reading, but I can’t help it. The way is up to me. I chose it, but after continuous persistence, it has formed a habit. If I don't read, I feel uneasy.
Whether you are flirting with a guy or being a goddess, in the final analysis it is a competition of values. Only when your own value is high enough and the display surface is rich enough will your success rate increase, but improving The success rate of flirting is not for a certain person, nor for the next person, but for standing at a higher height, breathing fresh air, and seeing a broader scenery. Maybe the next moment, you can't help but sigh, how life has turned out. It can be so beautiful!
——This is dedicated to the seniors who study film love. Thank you for your perseverance and teachings in the past few months. I have a small request: can you be my lifelong emotional consultant? ? Ha ha!
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