Today, I'm going to explain to you why, in a relationship, many people obviously like each other but still want to break up. Sometimes I wish you weren't so gentle. There are three kinds of people in the world who are hard to cherish, but they are hard to cherish. People who are too sensible are usually easily overlooked. People who are too emotional are often hurt by feelings. People who are too gentle and kind tend to have feelings and give people an unreal feeling. A friend sent me a message saying, "We like each other so much, and we are so happy together. Why did you break up? " Asked a question. This is another common problem without other unnecessary information. Usually, I sometimes ignore similar consultation directly.
and in retrospect, our lives have basically experienced all kinds of ordinary things, and most people have experienced only a handful of thrilling "great events" in their lives. So I read this friend's question again and gave him an appropriate answer. Like each other, why break up? These four reasons for separation, I hope you are not the last one. When I think of this friend's question, I suddenly think of the emotional experience of one of my classmates. He and his girlfriend have been dating for more than five years, and they have been very dull from contact to parting.
I've never heard any quarrel between them during the intercourse. They also admitted that they had never quarreled during their relationship. Although outsiders seem to have miraculous feelings, the anniversary of their five-year relationship ended. According to the classmate's description, when his girlfriend broke up, he just smiled and agreed. If he was tired of being with him, he would naturally allow her to leave. And his girlfriend said something meaningful to us. "Sometimes I wish you weren't so gentle." Yes, my classmates are such people.
gentle, kind, considerate, and hardly quarrels with anyone. No matter who treats him, he will treat him gently. His girlfriend's departure is not a familiar problem of personality disharmony, contradiction and betrayal, but just because their feelings are too ordinary. I like you, but I prefer this classic quotation that she popularized a few years ago. "Is the departure of leaves the pursuit of wind or the retention of trees? This sentence was used by many young men and women to express their helplessness and sadness at parting with their mood signature.
two people who like each other and are happy together, why did they break up? A common reason is that those who like it have more likes, and those who are happy have more happiness. I like the new and the old, but in fact we all understand. Because when something new finally appears, I am tired of the old one. Disclaimer: Some pictures in this article are from the internet, and the data and related materials marked with the source are all references. The original copyright is reserved, please indicate the source and author.