1. Don't expect others to give you any financial help, money is not enough for anyone. (Learn to give)

2. It's good and moral for a friend to help you; It's understandable that friends don't help you. You shouldn't be bitter. People don't owe you anything! (Learn to understand)

3. You should know that no one has to help you when you need it, only yourself, so what you need to do is to make yourself independent, strong, happy and happy. After all, only yourself must be closely related to your life and death. Got it? (learn to be strong)

4. Don't look at the rich and the poor making friends. He has hundreds of millions of dollars and has nothing to do with you. Don't turn yourself into a pug. He may have nothing, but he can give you the only steamed bread. (Learn to distinguish)

5. Don't alienate your spiritual friends for the sake of financially rich friends. Slowly, you will understand that economically rich friends can take you to eat, drink and have fun, and also bring you complicated and chaotic worldly troubles. Spiritual friends may only take you to the fields and streams, without wine, food, champagne, coffee and dance floor, but she can run with you and laugh like a fool. (Learn to respect yourself)

6. It can be believed that there is really a beautiful and faithful love in the world, but it only belongs to the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl, Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, as well as foreign Romeo and Juliet. Because none of them lived long. And we are going to live for a long time. (learn to cherish)

7. No matter what you get married for, as long as you have children, you must love this family. No matter how humble and cold it is, you have the obligation to make it warm, because you are your parents! (learn to take responsibility)

8. Our youth is gone in the blink of an eye, and wrinkles climb to the corner of our eyes one by one. We can't stop the years from destroying our appearance, but we can let our hearts hone slowly in the years, like the sand in a clam, and slowly smooth up. When we are pale and faltering, we can still make the luster of pearls faint in the last trip, can't we? (learn to grow)

9. Don't be persistent. There are many disappointments in life, the world won't cater to you, and the earth doesn't turn for you, so don't be persistent about having it. Even we are just passers-by in the world of mortals. Life comes naked, so what can death take away? (learn to let go