At noon today, I came across a movie commentary of "The Terminal" on the WeChat video account. The starring role seems to be Tom Hanks, the protagonist in "Forrest Gump". The plot is not bad, I I thought it was very positive, so I went to watch it.
I ate and watched while eating at lunch. I am easily distracted when watching some movies now, but I probably still know that the protagonist Victor came to New York to collect autographs from the band his father liked. , but because of the civil war and revolution in the motherland, his passport became invalid and he was stranded at the airport. During his stay at the airport, he learned to use the conditions of the airport to earn money for food, and also helped the airport staff chase girls. He also met a girl he liked at the airport and got along well with his friends at the airport. Afterwards, he used the money he earned to treat the girl he liked to dinner and invited the staff to create a romantic atmosphere for them in the airport restaurant. He told his story frankly to the girl he liked. At the end of the movie, Victor received the news that the regime in his motherland had been stabilized, and he could finally return to the country. He walked out of the airport and went to the city to find the band that needed autographs. After collecting the signatures, he flew back to his motherland. And at the end of the story, he didn't get together with the girl he liked. But it doesn't matter, this is a very good movie, because this movie doesn't just show love itself, it shows human love.
Meeting is a beautiful thing, and the process is also a beautiful experience. In this movie, I felt the process of people going from strangers to gradually becoming familiar to each other and then loving each other. How lovely human emotions are. People come together because of their different experiences and stories, and are willing to understand each other's stories and create a warm and loving living atmosphere together. I used to disdain to read this kind of romantic stuff, because in my understanding, the word "love" seems to only refer to love, and love is a knowledge blind spot for me, and it only refers to the relationship between people. It remains on the surface of being responsible, and I care about the results very much. I think it is better not to start a love without results.
During this time, after I read several psychology books, I read "Intimate Relationships", "Know Yourself and Accept Yourself", "Nurture Your Inner Child" and other books After reading the book, I discovered that I never understood love. Maybe I did understand it when I was a child, before I was far away from home. But I don’t know when, due to many external comments and influences, I actually set conditions for love. “No one loves me because I’m not good enough.” I often think this way. But love itself has no conditions. There are many people in the world who love you sincerely. People who truly love you will only find your flaws cute and they will love your imperfections. They don't choose to love you because of how perfect your external conditions are, because love is never a choice, it is a spontaneous and voluntary behavior. And there are many kinds of love, the love of treating strangers like guests, the love of colleagues, the love of friendship for friends, the love of love for lovers, the love of family, etc., these are all love. The movie I watched today also reflects love everywhere. It does not describe any earth-shattering love, but only the warmth between people that cares about, tolerates and helps each other. But this kind of warmth really makes me laugh. People feel warm in their hearts.
Today I updated my WeChat signature with "Love is so simple". I have begun to learn to love. The love I know is no longer so simple and simple. I can say that I love every friendly person in my life as long as the selfish love of others meets my own needs. I hope we can make life better, I hope we can make it better together.