First of all, the relationship has ended before the breakup, which means that it is no longer necessary for both parties to continue to master the details of each other's lives. We must accept the reality, look forward, learn to let go and let bygones be bygones. If we pay too much attention to the lives of our predecessors, then we may not be able to extricate ourselves from painful memories, thus affecting our mood and quality of life.
Secondly, prying into their ex's life may make them feel uncomfortable and troubled. For single ex, they may need space to return to single life and find new goals. In addition, too much attention may be regarded as disrespect, or it may bring pressure to the predecessor.
Finally, prying into the ex's life may affect our own feelings and recovery process. Too many memories will not make us move forward, but will make us stagnate. When we focus on our memories, we may not be able to focus on our feelings and may make our recovery process more complicated and difficult.
In short, although there are various reasons for breaking up, after breaking up, we should put it down as much as possible and retain respect and dignity as much as possible. Don't pry into your ex's life, so that we can recover better and move on.