In order to ensure family harmony and husband and wife harmony, according to the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, the General Principles of the Civil Law of People's Republic of China (PRC), the Contract Law of People's Republic of China (PRC) and relevant national laws and policies, combined with the actual situation of family life, on the basis of fairness, justice, rationality, voluntariness, honesty and credit, the details of husband and wife and family life were discussed through friendly consultations between husband and wife.
I. Project and scope of the agreement
1. Project: Everything related to life in this family.
2. Scope: the relationship between husband and wife and the relationship between parents and children; Daily communication with relatives, friends, neighbors, etc.
Second, the responsibilities and obligations of both husband and wife.
harmonious relations
1, quarrel in front of parents, relatives and neighbors, and give each other face in public.
No matter who is right or wrong, as long as there is a quarrel, the husband must gently coax his wife once, and her wife can calm down immediately. Otherwise, the wife can't help crying when she sees her husband crying. Once serious consequences are caused, the husband takes full responsibility.
If you quarrel at home, don't leave. If you really want to leave the community, you must bring your mobile phone. When it is not allowed to turn off the phone, it must be answered unconditionally.
4, respect each other's parents, elders, quarrel or unhappy, not rude to parents.
5. The fault party should take the initiative to apologize, and the fault-free party should forgive the other party as soon as possible after the fault party apologizes and compensates.
6. When both sides are at fault, they should review each other. After realizing the mistake and apologizing, the husband offered to take his wife out to play.
7, to vent, do not smash things, can only eat, really itchy can only smash pillows.
8. Try not to quarrel all night. When sleeping at night, the husband must take the initiative to hug his wife. If the wife is angry, she can't give up. Be sure to put her to sleep and have a good dream.
9. Massage each other once a week, because it is hard to quarrel often. If the husband's craft is not good, he can learn from the blind master. It is forbidden to learn from hair salon girls and massage girls.
10, quarreling on the phone, my husband is not allowed to hang up. If he hangs up, he should call back immediately and apologize. If the wife hangs up during the quarrel, the husband must call her within 1 minute, and the phone can't get through. In short, you can't hang up the phone again and again, but the wife should also give her husband face, and hang up no more than five times each time.
(2) Husband and wife life
1, husband and wife have sex at least four times a month, and the upper limit is not more than 30 times a month in principle. Except in special circumstances.
2. Husband and wife live on their own initiative.
3, the wife should take the initiative to create the corresponding environment and conditions, and give some hints when necessary, such as coquetry, wearing sexy underwear, sleeping with perfume that her husband likes to smell, etc.
4, middle-aged couples kissing, nightmares can do a few breaks, after entering middle age, even if the wife is old and faded, the husband must kiss his wife once before going to bed and before going to work.
A wife should be a lady in the living room, a smart woman in the kitchen and an adulteress in bed.
(3) Family affairs
The husband needs to clean the house once a week, and the wife is responsible for daily hygiene.
(4) External affairs
Foreign affairs should be audited by the wife, and in principle, the husband should be responsible for it. The husband should ask for instructions early and report later. In public, especially when relatives and friends are present, the wife must give her husband enough face.
(5) Communication between husband and wife:
1, hurry, speak slowly;
2, major events, clearly stated;
3, small things, humorously said;
4. If you are not sure, be cautious;
5. Don't talk nonsense about things that didn't happen;
6. Don't talk nonsense about what you can't do;
7, hurtful words can't be said;
8. Happy things, depending on the occasion;
9, sad things, don't say it when you see people.
10, annoying thing, not what people say.
1 1, mind your own business.
12, do your own thing and listen to your own voice.
13, now, do it.
14, future, future.
15, it is forbidden that "people don't hold their farts and don't pay attention to what they say".
(six) fitness, entertainment, beauty
1, women are often beautiful, and husbands are followers. Therefore, a husband should support his wife.
2, beauty, spend your own money, raise other people's eyes, although eating some losses, my husband's heart has to do.
3, look at the face, look at the waist, look at the curve is a hard indicator. This is the only criterion for evaluating beautiful women, so husbands should always accompany their wives for fitness and entertainment. I can't let my wife have ugly lines and piles of fat, and my heart is always a little inferior.
4, the wife must do it, study hard and make up every day.
Laugh for ten minutes every day, and you are young and unattractive. A husband should make his wife happy every day and create a good living atmosphere.
Three. articles of agreement
This agreement is valid during the marriage.
Fourth, family economic management.
1. The monthly income of husband and wife is all managed by the wife.
2. Personal activity expenses paid by the wife to her husband 300 yuan every month. If the excess part is really necessary after the wife's inspection, the wife will pay it separately according to the actual amount.
The wife is responsible for the daily expenses of the family.
Verb (abbreviation for verb) is forbidden between husband and wife.
1. It is forbidden for a wife to wear an environmentally-friendly invisible hat for her husband.
Husbands are not allowed to drink all the wine in the world and make friends all over the world.
3, my husband is not allowed: I can't, I can't eat.
4, the wife should be smart, can not be idle, that is, there is nothing at home.
5. Forbidden words: Don't slip your tongue when you speak, and don't get carried away when you are proud. Can't take each other's words for granted, three points doubt, seven points doubt.
Liability for breach of contract of intransitive verbs
If either spouse violates any article of this agreement, he or she must invite the other spouse to a nearby restaurant for dinner the day after the breach, and the standard is 200 yuan. Violate twice in the first quarter, buy a suit for the other party (a substitute can also be bought with the consent of the other party), according to the standards of 500 yuan. Break the contract three times in one year, and invite the other party to travel out of the province once.
Seven. Termination of the agreement
1. During the marital relationship between husband and wife, once this agreement is signed, neither party shall propose to dissolve it without reason, and the dissolving party shall compensate the other party 100000 yuan or its equivalent, such as real estate, stocks, jewelry, clothes, etc.
2. This Agreement will be automatically dissolved under the following circumstances:
A. divorce by agreement or litigation.
B. One party dies.
C. After long-term observation, it is considered that both parties can maintain the requirements of this agreement or their actual standards of conduct exceed the standard requirements of this agreement.
Eight. others
1. The terms of this agreement are temporarily the above terms, and the wife can change them without reason or time limit. The husband has the right to raise objections, but the final interpretation of whether the objections are adopted is in the hands of the wife.
2, according to the specific situation of social development and family life, can add supplementary terms, increase the content of the terms, must be approved by the wife.
3. This agreement is made in duplicate, each party holds one copy, which has the same effect.
4. This agreement shall come into effect after being signed by both husband and wife.