The more indifferent you are, the happier your life will be. The troubles in life come from: we forget our own affairs, care about other people's affairs and worry about God's affairs. Relaxation is simple: mind your own business, don't interfere in other people's affairs, and don't worry about God's affairs. Encourage everyone, be yourself and be happy every day.
Don't arrange your life too full, and don't design your life too crowded. No matter what you do, you should leave some space for yourself, so that you can turn around calmly. Leave some benefits for others, leave some way for others to walk, and leave some time for yourself to think. Remember to leave room for life at all times, and don't be aggressive, decadent, nervous, lax, extreme and persistent. Not complacent when you get it, not depressed when you lose it, and calm between gains and losses.
Life is just a list. People who figure out what you want and don't want are usually smart, but what they get is countless troubles and hardships.
Be a man, don't be too obsessed with money, fame and fortune, or feelings. In short, it is everything in life. Maintaining a normal mind is the highest realm of life. Don't be too persistent in everything, know how to release yourself, and the most important thing is to live happily every day. If you are too persistent, you will become too concerned about gains and losses, too concerned about the results, and thus push yourself to a dead end in life.
6. Why do you look down on everything? Just know yourself. What determines our life is our choice. We have been losing. We are all trying to have more beautiful things, but unfortunately we only have two hands, so we should learn to choose and give up. Only by knowing what you don't need can you go further in the future.
7. It is better to live beautifully than to be beautiful. Talent is better than money. Beauty is better than doing. It is better to be praised than to get rich. Happy is better than dead. It's better to think than to do. If it's difficult, just choose at will. This is a daily - happened thing. What you think is important is actually the shackles that bind you. There are only two things that are most important to people: self-confidence and freedom.
8. The hardest word in life is "peace of mind". The so-called "peace of mind" means that there is no regret, no loss, no hardship, no burden of fame and fortune, no service for interests, a clean and honest life, and a clean and neat job. If you suffer from loss, you will be exhausted and lifeless. Only by keeping a quiet heart, not jealous of power, not envious of wealth, and living purely naturally, can we get a peace of mind.
9. The older a person grows up, the more he feels that many things don't need to be taken too seriously, such as the expectations of the outside world, such as whether irrelevant people like you or not. Paying too much attention will make you lose yourself. In order to please others, I tiptoed around and was kidnapped by others. Along the way, I realized that the real charm is not what you should be, but what you are. What is a person's first duty? The answer is simple: be yourself.
10. Life seems to contain too many feelings, too many regrets and too many frustrations. This life is a process of continuous cultivation. Everything is experience, and everything is growth. The people you meet and the things you experience are all aimed at making you a better yourself step by step.
1 1. The best state of life is calm. The key to elegance is to control one's emotions. Hurting people with your mouth is the stupidest behavior. A person who can control bad emotions is better than a person who can win an ideal city. The depth of the water slows down the flow, and the late words are expensive.
12. Being a man, what you strive to get is not the ability to call the wind and rain, but the mind that overlooks the storm. Only when you stand high can you see far, and only when you look weak can you put it down. If you carry too much, you will live very tired, and letting go is liberation. Looking at the gains and losses of life, everything is like a passing cloud, leaving no trace, which is the highest realm of calm life.
13. When I was a child, happiness was a thing, and it was happiness when I got it; When you grow up, happiness is a goal, and when you reach it, you are happy; After maturity, happiness is a state of mind, and when you understand it, you are happy. In fact, happiness is in the moment, and only a series of happiness at the moment is the happiness of life. May we always have a "childlike innocence" and enjoy every moment of happiness!
14. Life is bound to meet ups and downs. Don't be dissatisfied with many setbacks in life. You don't have to be miserable and depressed. Whether it is a blessing or a curse, you have to face it; Good or bad, it will pass. It is better to let go of the burden and enjoy life than to bend over and suffer with life. It is better to face life calmly than to complain about the unfairness of fate in vain. Learn to let go, and the road of life will get wider and wider.
15. Life is not easy. Bow your head when you bow your head. Give in when it's time. Only if you can endure injustice can you become a great musical instrument; Only by standing the test can we win dignity. If you don't give in, you will fall; Passionate fighting will only lower the price. Self-esteem is not given by others, but by yourself. Too obsessed with self-esteem, like firecrackers, is easy to explode and eventually lose self-esteem. Without self-esteem, you can achieve a life with self-esteem.
16. Life is full of flavor, feelings are the strongest, life is prosperous, feelings are the most real, the scenery step by step along the way, and the feelings of each journey. No matter how time passes, some things will not change, that is, the pursuit of beauty, the desire for true feelings, giving yourself a indifference, not being trapped in feelings, not regretting, not regretting life, enriching life and being peaceful.
17. A truly wise person is confused about small things, wise about big things, keeping a low profile and keeping an open mind. Being a man is like water, combining rigidity with softness. Only those who work hard can laugh at the end and become real winners. Low-key people are more likely to do things well, and those who are capable must not show their abilities. Only by learning to keep a low profile, knowing how to hide others, being as smart as a fool and keeping a low profile can we win life.
18. Everything begins with karma and is born of thought. If you cling to something or something, you will suffer from loss and worry. If you can see everything, you will be fearless. Life is often about what you are afraid of. When you look down on gains and losses, success or failure is meaningless, but smooth sailing. The most precious thing in life is to have a normal heart, stay away from the turbid world, be calm as water, not be confused by the five colors in the world, and not be fascinated by the various tastes of life.