If you want to chat with a new girl and keep her, you must meet these three important points:

1. The importance of eye-catching

Whether the opening statement can catch the attention of girls is like a new snack shop opened downstairs. When we go to buy it for the first time, we will definitely care about whether it is delicious. If it is delicious, we will continue to buy from this restaurant in the future. Yes, if it’s not delicious, we will never buy from this restaurant again. If a new girl you meet sees that your opening remarks are useless, then why should you expect her to eat your food? So don’t always start with words like “Hello, beauty”, “Hello”, “You are so beautiful”! There are many ways to catch a girl's attention. We can first observe the girl's signature, display surface and other places where information can be seen, and then extract the information and then formulate the corresponding opening remarks.

2. The importance of making girls feel less coercive

Does a coercive opening statement make a girl feel irritable from the very beginning, making her feel that what you say is embarrassing? That kind of thing. For example:

"What is your name?" (Who are you, why should I tell you?)

"Where is the beauty from?" (What do you want to do?)< /p>

"What kind of boy do you like?" (It's none of your business?)

"A date?" (A date with you...no swear words.)

These are typical opening lines with a sense of coercion, and their characteristic is that they demand value from girls. The question is, we don’t even know each other, so why should we let you ask for it?

In fact, many people will make this mistake. They don’t know anything about the girl they just added, don’t know what to say, or they can’t wait to know the girl’s information, so they just ask questions to the girl.

The opening statement must not be demanding!

3. The importance of openness

For example, we saw a girl’s dating declaration stating that she hopes to find a local boyfriend and get married, OK , then let’s use this to formulate the opening remarks, but now there are two sets of opening remarks:

"Miss, I saw your signature. Do you want to find a local boyfriend?"

Which sentence do you think is better?

We can completely predict the girl's answer in the first sentence: "Yeah." "Yeah." With this kind of opening statement, the girl's answer has been limited. Girls' answers are limited, and if boys can answer the question, they can hardly escape the box. It is nothing more than: See if I can do it, or introduce yourself and express your application.

Originally, you could build attraction first, let girls gradually develop feelings for you, and then develop it in depth, but now? Just like a job interview, you may get screwed at the first step.

The most annoying thing is that girls are all indifferent and have no interest in talking to each other.

Girls passively choose men. She can only choose "men who are interested in her". Therefore, in the early stage of acquaintance, it is very important for a man to take appropriate initiative, but not too much.

Girls understand boys more deeply, unlike boys who initially focus more on faces and figures. The woman will try to understand the man's objective conditions. If she stays too long in the first stage after transferring to WeChat and behaves in a pleasing manner, she will easily be issued a good guy card. The chat content is generally as follows:

First, greetings, expressions, greetings, etc.

Second, describe self-state, provide topics, status, topic, feeling evaluation, etc.< /p>

Third, choose topics in girls’ friend circles and open them with other basic topics

The content of the chat can be more or less, broad or down-to-earth:

Interests Hobbies, zodiac signs, gossip, food, travel, fashion, etc., these are all topics that can be discussed casually without any end. Add some lubricant to the chat.

Let her feel that chatting with you is interesting, comfortable with you, and useful. If you meet any one of these three points, you can initially attract a girl. If you meet any two of them, you can develop a long-term relationship with her, and it is not impossible to become a girlfriend.