I saw the teacher’s request in the group: insist on signing every homework assignment of the child. The parent's signature does not mean that you check whether the child's homework is right or wrong, but it lets the child know that his parents attach great importance to every homework he does, and that parents are very concerned about their children's growth and learning. At the same time, you are also reminding your children that you should also pay attention to your own learning. Reflecting on the fact that I have not signed many signatures since my child has been in school for more than a year, this laissez-faire attitude becomes even more rampant when I think that my child can write homework well and ensure quality without our signatures. So do we parents have to follow the teacher’s request? At the same time, the child also complained when he signed the homework for me as required by the teacher. Child: Mom, just because I didn’t have your signature, the teacher didn’t give me 100 points for all the correct homework. Why is this happening? Me: Do you feel unhappy because Teacher I didn’t give you 100 points? Child: Yes, this signature is not my problem. I have done my homework. Me: It seems that you have very high requirements for yourself. Do you hope that your homework teacher can give you 100 points? Child:............ During this process, I did ignore the teacher's request, which also gave the child a big impact on his heart. The child really cares about this. 100 points? Or do you think that your efforts have been ignored? I have had a comparison with the issue of children's homework. When my eldest son was in elementary school, I accompanied him wholeheartedly. Every day's homework was signed and checked, and even if he made mistakes, he would be corrected. Submitted to the teacher, my son's homework books were perfect and neat every day. Every time the homework was shown, my son's homework books were on the list. At that time, I felt happy and felt that my method was right. My son could do so well. Well, my son’s grades in elementary school were also among the best, which was a reward for me... But as time went by, problems began to arise. For a long time, it was my job to check homework. Gradually, in junior high school, all the problems were solved. When the symptoms came out, I realized that I had done too much to help him before, and my son's instinct allowed me to take over. It was also because some of my own emotions would be vented in front of my son during the early inspection of homework, which caused my son's grades during the rebellious period. It has plummeted, and you no longer look up to and respect me when you face me. Our parent-child relationship has entered a dead end. Therefore, I adopted reverse thinking when it came to my younger son’s homework inspection, but ended up reaching another impasse. Was I too decisive in this process? I continued to make progress in my studies.